babydust - I wouldn't give up hope entirely. Lots of women get bleeding at around the time their period should be due. See how it goes, and

that it isn't proper AF! Don't use tampons though - only towels. (I'm relaying all the advice I got from the NHS helpline last month, when I couldn't work out whether the bleeding at CD26 was AF a week early or something entirely different!) FX for you it's not AF. By the way - the link to your chart seems to have gone - I wanted to have a stalk!
I'm not feeling very organised! I still haven't cleaned the house, plus I was intending to replace the shower and I haven't yet bought the replacement! The Xmas tree is arriving today, so I'm torn between cleaning, getting excited about decorating the tree, and replying to the emails asking where the work I promised is...

Bad Kitty! I'm supposed to be organising a conference and I've just found a dozen emails about the catering in my junk mail folder

So I think I need to make some decisions fast! ROM - you've done loads - but as Bagpuss said, make sure you look after yourself too. Maybe a candlelit bath as a reward for all your efforts is in order?
In the meantime, if any of you have a minute spare, please will you take a look at my chart? I was very peed off with the whole TTC thing last night, and went out for dinner with DH, my brothers and one fiancee (the other was stuck in work). Being peed off, I thought 'sod it', had a kir royale and half a bottle of wine, wibbled all the way home (clinging to DH and saying 'I love you, you know' in an embarrassingly pissed sort of way - his response was the usual 'yes dear'!) and went to bed.
Got up this morning, took temp, which was slightly up but looked pretty much as expected after a night on the tiles, entered it in FF - and was very surprised to get crosshairs for last Friday! I would say 'but there was no EWCM, the OPKs were neg, the CBEFM was low, and CD12 is far too early, I've never ov'ed that early in my life' - but I've been there before. I could just dig up last cycle's posts. So what do you think? Do I believe it and start feeling guilty about having gone out on the lash at 5dpo? Do I think 'yeah, whatever' and carry on BDing? Or do I just give up the whole TTC effort on the grounds that my body is just not going to behave? Either I'm 6dpo or I'm a good 5 days at least from oving still (going by the OPKs and monitor).
(sorry - another long one

Oh well, you're not doing any work the week before Xmas, are you?!

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