Wow!! Our first April Baby! Massive congratulations Kiagirl and what a beautiful name!
I hope everyone is doing well!
I now am having to make the decision as to whether I opt for a caesarean. It's down to 3 factors. The first being that I have had a section previously so that automatically means more pressure is put on scar and certain risks are increased. Second is that I am measuring big and after a quick scan, she is too. Her tummy was measuring at 38 + 6 where I am 35 + 3 - she is estimated to be at 7lb already. And lastly is because of the cholestasis I have to be induced early. Inducing puts even extra strain on previous section scar tissue because of how quickly and how strong the contractions are brought on and even if I opt for VBAC and to be induced, if the first pessary doesn't work they don't like risking any more pessaries or the drip because the risks of that scar tissue opening up apparently are quick high, so they would end up doing a section then anyway.
It sounds like they are really pushing for the section and I have spoken to a friend who was in almost the exact same position as me a few years ago and she said that her consultant said if the word caesarean is kept being used then it's usually because it's what the medical team deem best for mum and baby but they can't tell you that that is what needs to happen. It has to be your decision. I voiced the concerns I have about a planned section to my friend and she has put my mind at ease a little and I think the section is the way I'm going to go, but I'm still so scared about the whole thing! The thought of it terrifies me! Even though I've already done it!
Anyway, there are advantages and disadvantages to both and I think I need to just come to terms with the need for a planned section. I know it's not the end of the world and won't change anything, it's just a little disappointing x
such a fantastic weight to! Hope he starts keeping his milk down and you are both home soon xxxxx lots of love x
