Hi rooster & lizzimay, looks like you guys are needing some cheering up... : )
If it helps rooster i had no imminent labour signs n just started hard n fast tuesday...now i look bak there were a couple of signs - occasional bak ache/hip pain suddenly intensified for 2days prior, cats followed me everywhere monday and also had chinese sun night, forgot had leftovers mon n made huge carbonara pasta for lunch that day n next then remembered had leftovers so had huge pasta to munch little n often during early labour...which was great as OH had plenty to be gettin on with lol...
Anyways Phoebe is a little darling, still cant believe she's mine! didnt manage to feed her thur as was catchin up on sleep/food and gettin organised n she seemed to want to sleep whole day but that night we tried hand expressing but no immediate success. As we were so shattered we used starter pak formula with a pipette to get somethin down her whilst trying to encourage association with the nipple...we then tried a hospital grade pump that inally encouraged the let down n produced colostrum. we pumped n fed colostrum all day n she was slowly startin to coo for it but got so frustrated at qty and still didnt latch. faced with a very long night of 30mins expressing, 30mins feeding then repeat one n half hrs later we decided to use formula with the bottle n she drank it up. my intention is to express during the day as additional to formula whilst i have colostrum then decide whether to go combo or just formula. Expressing is tiring/tender n time consuming so after the two day labour on 5hrs sleep over 3 days, it is very tempting to stop trying as now fighting tiredness from regular feeds...every day we keep planning on taking it in turns with feed (esp as now bottle) but time keeps running away from us and it rolls over to next day...sigh...we will of course persevere with expressing as it will be worth every drop to Phoebe when my milk comes in... : )
...sorry for the war and peace - got carried away ; )