Hi rooster, bless you, it does help prepare you lol, OH and I have just swapped over shifts, he does 11pm-5am, I do 5am-11am to ensure both get a little sleep lol...Phoebe is a little angel though and has for the first time slept in her crib for 3hrs straight, albeit with a pillow under her as that is all she would sleep on yesterday...she likes comfort lol...still cant believe this time last week I was into hour 2 of a two day labour...time certainly flies when they arrive...