Our top choice right now has other significance as well. But the meaning would be fiery (first name) warrior (middle name) and the numerology is compatible with both of us.
Snowbee, that happens often. It hasn't been easy. We started with listing names we like and then went to meanings. Origin was also a consideration. We considered a lot of Dutch names, but the ones we really like don't work well in English. I don't want anything that sounds too American either. We've looked at anglicised forms of Dutch names and the Dutch versions of anglicised names we liked. We also have considered Irish names (anglicised versions for some for ease of pronunciation), as my dw lived there from the age of 12 and it's where we started our life together, so it holds great significance for us.
We are trying to narrow it down to about 3 names to choose from. Not there yet, but we do have one clear combo on the list.