Had my 36 wk appointment. It was an extended appointment to discuss birth plan but the stand in (really good) midwife had booked it and when I saw midwife today (registered one) she asked if I'd been to the parenting class and when I said yes, she said that they usually don't book appointments to discuss birth plan as it's all done there. I still asked questions but she certainly didn't read over my 'wishes' as it were, but I'm guessing a) it isn't the done thing, despite being called a 'discussion' and b) it doesn't matter as it's the midwives in hospital that need to be concerned with it!!!
Anyway, baby's heartbeat fine, as are bp and urine check. But - the feeling for baby's position! Couldn't feel the head at all! She prodded about for twice as long as usual and the huge lump on the right of my belly button confused her. She then pressed low down and dug her nails in during the process! Erm ouch! She didn't say anything for about 2 minutes then said "I think I'm going to send you for a scan!" Not, I can't find the baby's head, I'll send you for a scan, just the scan bit! I knew she'd been rummaging about too long! She either thinks the head is fully engaged or baby is free again and head is so far back she can't feel it at all. The heartbeat was on the other side so think baby has done a complete turn round. Definitely not breech but she just wants to check. It's funny because obviously baby could move and might already have done now, Nevermind by Friday! But I suppose the point is she has to check because if baby doesn't move by 38wks she'll have the same problem! She got me to take a deep breath and she pressed low down again. It's a good job my pelvic pain is my pubic bone not higher! The nails dug in so much I was so uncomfortable. So my whole bump aches now. Scan is Friday afternoon so we'll see. I'm shocked I'll get to see baby again for the first time since the 23rd of December! I've also gone from being 1cm behind at the last 3 appts to 1cm ahead so 37cm this time - 4cm in 2 weeks (must be position!)
I'm not worried about scan, just think it's all a bit odd. She was so thrown by it all x