*****December Babies*****

[sophs85]

my shoot went well. just need my friend to photoshop the hell out of them!!! xx

 

[kayuki123]

Ladies I need some advice. I wouldn't say oh and I had a fight last night but he did get rather pissed off. This is gonna sound so silly but Basically, I've been at work all week, and last night crashed out on the sofa at about 9pm, woke up a couple of hours later and he was a bit annoyed with me. I said I was sorry and I was really tired and he said he knows it's not my fault but I get the sense he is getting fed up with being on his own all the time cos I always end up falling asleep! How can I make him understand how tiring these last stages of pregnancy are and that I'm really not doing it on a purpose? Last night he didn't even say goodnight he just came to bed with the hump. I know it can't be fun for him but I don't really know what else I can do?

Tbh I don't think guys think that pregnancy is gonna change someone as much as it does and esp towards the late stages. My OH kept moaning at me for the same reason but one day I told him to shut the hell up and to see how much he'd like to grow a person without falling asleep. Have a chat with him and explain how naps at this stage is healthy and believe me should be cherished!

I doubt you will go in huffs with him if your up doing most of the night feeds but hey, that's just how ladies are. Guys don't fully get how hard being pregnant is. They often need reminded! Xxxxx

Me and OH are on completely different hours and its really frustrating! We pregnant ladies need a lot of sleep. I think the main thing they sometimes don't realise is that when I'm awake at 5am and he's asleep it means I'm going to need a nap later
I think also the most irritating thing I've found is that if I'm ever in even a slightly bad mood he gets so mad- am I supposed to be happy all the time when I feel so drained? Grr
Talk with your OH, he's just feeling a bit left out, maybe this evening give him some tlc to make him feel better xx

Thankyou girls sammy you havkng your babies the week after? What day you going in? Its a really strange but nice feeling to know babies due date isnt it also cant believe this is my last week of freedom! hehe so im going to try and enjoy the most of it. might be a bit manic next weekend! xxx

Induction is 4th dec, having my steroid injections next mon/tues so next week is my last ever week without children, soooo surreal!

I can't get over the fact that you two will have your Lo's so soon!!! Making things seem very real xx

I wish it felt real to me, still in denial and just can't quite believe I'll be a mum!

Oh wow thats so soon! bet you cant wait hun! you get to meet your babies soon exicting xx

 

[sophs85]

aargh! here is a pic from today, it hasn't been cleaned up yet! lol x

 

[Doob]

Aww so lovely Sophs! Glad you had fun xx

 

[newbie1984]

Awww you look gorgeous soph. Well I've just dropped oh off at the pub, so it's me, cake and the tv tonight!

 

[sophs85]

I'm going to stuff my face with Chinese!! and watch take me out x

 

[dyscochick]

Lovely pic Hun! I'm ironing curtains while DH is at the rugby! God I sound so domestic, a few months back I'd have been at the rugby too!

 

[newbie1984]

I think I might do my Xmas shopping. Need ideas for oh!

 

[sholou_uk]

Asleep all afternoon again, feel so lazy and loads to do considering lo could arrive at any point

 

[newbie1984]

Get as much rest in now as you can hun!

I stupidly decided to watch OBEM!!!

 

[Sosie]

Sophs, the shoot looks gorgeous honey
Kate, I wouldn't worry honey.. You've done so well to keep strong and keep expressing
Newbie, I'd do what the others have said and have a few words.. Eek for Christmas shopping not even started..
Very jealous of Chinese, I had it yesterday but its my fave
No to OBEM .. It killed me.. The little boy is gorgeous
Sholou, don't worry about sleeping.. It's good to sleep, need as much of a rest as you can get before bubs arrives.
Been Christmas decoration shopping and have been to chatsworth house, so I've had a lovely day feeling all Christmassy now. Xx

 

[sholou_uk]

Sosie- sounds like a good day, I feel a bit housebound now as can't walk around and only get out for hospital appointments
Sleep would be good if I didn't feel I had a huge list of things to do that I can't do. House so needs a good clean and hasn't been done

 

[sholou_uk]

It's actually sad looking forward to Monday and another hospital appointment!!

Sophs the photo is gorgeous!! Love it!

 

[sophs85]

I am seriously freaked out after my last visit!! it's all too real what i'm going to have to do now. I'm convincing myself I won't cope. seriously hope this hypnobirthing cd works xxx

 

[Sosie]

I know.. During the week I have nothing to do... But my OH loves to do things at the weekend so I try to make the effort.. It was tough waddling around chatsworth house but we stopped for afternoon tea- it more then made up for it. I look forward to my appointments too.. Not long to go now though lovely x

 

[sholou_uk]

Ohhh I love afternoon tea, best make the move downstairs to see what to eat for dinner

 

[russellmuscle]

Ohhh I can't wait for my dinner, OH is making home made burgers and fries!

xxxxxx

 

[sholou_uk]

Yum!

 

[sophs85]

I'm going to explode!!! think I ordered enough for 12 people x

 

[newbie1984]

Morning all well last night was rather interesting. My OH went out with his old flat mate last night for his last big night out. I dropped him off at the pub at 4 and then picked him up about midnight. When me and OH got together his flat mate made it very difficult for us. ive known his old flat mate for years So last night I gave him a lift back home. On the way we stopped to get some food and oh jumped out to get it. Cue ex flat mate to have a chat with me. Anyway, long story short he jumped in the front with me and basically apologised for being a twat and admitted it was because he was jealous. He said he was genuinely happy for us and didn't want things to be uncomfortable etc etc, of course I said thanks and we had a hug and made up. I'm glad things are cleared because it was making his friendship with oh very rocky (they work together also) and they kept on falling out.

Anyway, that was that really!!! Oh and I came home, he was pretty drunk so I took advantage of that and for the first time in nearly 37 weeks made him feel his son kick haha. He won't be doin it again though!! He hated it!!!

Dunno why I'm awake this early didn't end up going to sleep until about 3am which is a step up from my usual 9pm lol

Hope everyone has a lovely day xxx