• May 2016 Mummies •

[Jojo84]

I've had a scrappy day yesterday. First I found out they if my infection Doesn't clear in a week i may have to be admitted for iv treatment then. Founf out mum sold the house we were hoping to rent, then trust my son won't qualify for free nursery funding this year.

My hubby suggested we redecorate living room as I'm down about having to stay put a bbc.co d my couch is killing my back so going to have to look for new one somehow

 

[babyslog]

Aw jo!! What a crap day thats turned out to be!!!!!! xx

 

[Jojo84]

I've been In a pretty bad way today - found out that I'm
Losing£50 tax credits from this month then that drops to £70 on April

Just constantly been crying and feeling really down to a point of having thoughts about myself k should be having, I really feel like I'm losing it or something. I suddenly feel extremely depressed and I shouldn't - I don't know why I do. I love my family snd I want this baby but I just feel so stressed and depressed like I'm
Going crazy,

 

[babyslog]

Hun pls go get urself aigned off n speak to ur dr. U need to try and de stress.

Im so nervous about tax credits i no ill be entitled to things as im not classed as single. But i just worry it wontcover what my Oh was paying towards everything! xxxxx

 

[Jojo84]

Signed off? No way in hell! The last thing I need is to feel
Like on letting even more people down and I only have 4 shifts left before leave.

I feel like I just need to slap. Myself around a bit and pull myself together! Things could be worse, I've just had a ctappy week and I feel bad. I needed o get t off my chest a bit. My craziness has gone a bit since I had a big disgusting cry, I just need to man up a bit and stop being pathetic I think.

 

[Tigger87]

Hopefully it will all look brighter in the morning. Things are never as bad as they first seem!

Where money's concerned, you just need to pay the essentials and work out which extras you "need".

Eat some cake, have an early night, maybe even a cry to get it out, and look at it all with fresh eyes tomorrow xxx

 

[Jojo84]

Feeling a little better today - hubby is going to reprint the living room as a mothers day gift to me and my mum
Is treating me to a new couch for
My anniversary in April.
I'm getting all sorted for my son's birthday on 3rd March and mummy guilt must have set in because I e bought him a last minute gift... A summerhouse for the garden for £25 down from £75 on Tesco... So now he's got...
Table and chair set
Postman pat sds DVD box set
Fireman Sam great fire of pontypandy
Thomas tank engine movie
Some little fire engines
Took bench
My potato head
Summerhouse

I feel a little better that he will have a more special birthday now I feel sorted

 

[Eaw123]

I've have just had he most crippling back pain. Was driving at the time so bad I had to pull over and get out. Lasted a good ten mins

 

[Emmam1982]

I'm so fed up of aching legs and my left hip and groins are agony...on the plus side my beating instinct has kicked in and I've got my birthing ball blown up and Logan's clothes in the washer as I type x

 

[Kitten1991]

Sorry to hear you ladies have been having some rough times... things always get better

I am single mummy to be too and ill admit there have been some rough times but keep your chin up There are some amazing ladies on this thread who seem to be very supportive.

I am going to the midwife on Thursday... all is a little manic here at the moment, moving out of mums and into my own place Wednesday so been packing like crazy! Brought some beautiful glitter paint from b&q perfect for little girls room

Arya is kicking away like crazy and my cat at mums is in love with resting his head where she lays and you see his ears just listening i know it wont last because he is terrified of babies... but his brother loves them and lets them do anything to him... it's pure madness...

Enjoy the rest of your weekend ladies! Thinking of you all :*

 

[Emmam1982]

There's a lot of us singletons about lol...my relationship can only be described as complicated and although we want to make it work it's a long way off sorted and he's not going to be living with us for a long long time, it upsets me that it has to be like this. But he has a lot of fixing to repair the damage he's done.

I've only got 4 weeks where I haven't got a hospital or mw appt booked...30 weeks today, mw at 31 weeks, scan at 32, anaesthetist at 33, mw at 34, scan at 36, mw at 38, due.
Can't believe how quick it's come around xx

 

[babyslog]

We most definitely won't be getting back.
Noah spent the night over with him lastnight (hes staying at him mothers).. I cracked on with painting all the doors in my house lol!
Should Of relaxed! But as I was child free it was the only time I could get the paintbrush and roller out!

Hes home now xx

 

[babyslog]

Happy 30 weeks emma!!!!!!!

 

[Emmam1982]

We most definitely won't be getting back.
Noah spent the night over with him lastnight (hes staying at him mothers).. I cracked on with painting all the doors in my house lol!
Should Of relaxed! But as I was child free it was the only time I could get the paintbrush and roller out!

Hes home now xx

My other half need to get professional mental health support, he's got an appt booked for next week but it's not going to be a quick fix. He's been battling with his bipolar for over 10 years and it's not going to get better overnight-he'll admit that this is the worst he's been since he was a teenager but he needs to realise that even if we can't make it work then he still needs the help. My family won't have anything to do with him which is making life even more difficult-I'm hoping that Logan been born will help reunite them x

 

[babyslog]

Aw i hope it works out ok for u all hun x

 

[Eaw123]

Having a right emotional afternoon here. It's a long story.... Firstly I wanna say me and the in laws don't get on, never have. So any way my husband runs a garage with his dad until yesterday they had two different sites miles apart, well now they are on same sight, his dad is a lazy git, I've found news papers up there from 1979 that how lazy andessu he is. Well have a towing licence and have been using my horse trailer to help at weekend get them moved, bearing in mind his dad lives over 100 miles away at weekends so doesn't help, so today as last night got dark we load up and parked trailer up ready to unload today, my husband had to love a car first, a
Car he's been breaking and striping so me to the recuse to tow it out,
Well on the way bout the gate he hits the crappy car, I laugh, he jumps out car sticks his head through window and says you best f**king go home. Well with that I will spin off, not a mean feat in a shogun, whilst I do this the land lord of the garage comes round corner and sees me in my temper!! So anyway I drive home crying haven't stopped in two hours,
I'm so angry at my husband. We've been texting and he's being a complete dick! He's married to his dad and the bloody garage not me! I've been helping him but in reality I'm helping his dad who doesn't even like me. I work full time and wasting my weekends at the garage. What more does he want??!!
Sorry ladies, there's more verbal to the story but I can't be bother to write it all.
Feel like I don't matter

 

[Eaw123]

Now even more grumpy. Been on look out for ages for a belted base for my car seat, I've missed them selling in mother care for £10!!! £35 off!!!!

 

[Emmam1982]

I think it must be the day for emotions....hope you feel better soon, men can be so insensitive, I'm currently not speaking to baby's dad (I'm not calling him my partner as I've realised today that he's not supporting me in any way at all) x

 

[babyslog]

Aw Eaw!!! Why r men dicks!!!!! Xx

 

[Kitten1991]

Sending big hugs ladies! I think life likes to test us and send us all curve balls... the main thing is to stay strong I think this thread is such a good little community

As someone who has battled manic depression it is very very difficult to get back up the slippery slope, i hit rock bottom about 3 years ago before i accepted it or accepted i needed help, touch wood since i got the help I've been able to keep it under control without meds, just coping methods i was taught.
I am sure OH will sort it out Admitting that his Bipolar is the worst its been in a long time is the first major step, him saying i know I'm not well i just need to try and figure out how to make it better


In Laws... hmm i don't like babies grandparents on her dads side...and well they despise me even more have done now for almost 10 years. And well i know where you are coming from... they would always say jump and he would say how high... to the point of keeping our relationship secret until we found out i was pregnant last year.. and then a month later runs off... i haven't had anything to do with them since because they made it clear they didn't want anything to do with me or baby because i was the mother.

Tell hubby you aren't happy, you feel you and your family come 3rd in line to His dad and the garage maybe =/ i'm not sure what more to suggest?

lots of loves ladies xxx