The WTT Chat Thread

[russellmuscle]

My OH goes through phases lol he knows there will be another. He's so cheeky he says the other day he says maybe you should be pregnant again your sex drive wasa through the roof I said yes and why do you think it's not now!? We have a baby I'm a home maker now lol I do everything last thing I need in bed is hassle every night lolol.

We have sex at the weekend when j is away once or sometimes twice during the week! how do you girls with toddlers and baby's keep up with your sex life lol?!

Xxxxxx

 

[CARNAT22]

We don't have much of a sex life, when it happens it's fab but it's getting round to it that is the trouble?

Bub is up by 6am every single day so I am in bed by 10pm most nights and all I want to do is just sleeeeeeppppp

Have decided that I am done with the pill so going to order some OPK's from Amazon to avoid fertile times!

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[Hope81]

Carnat I will so see you posting in trimester 1 with that method of contraception lol. Remember sperm lives a long time there waiting for ovulation to happen. So yeah 1 week before ovulation and 2 days after to be covered leave you with sex the week immediately after our period is over and the week immediately before your period is here! Here you are no opk needed lol! Says the woman who had a spilled condom this month during a bank holiday and didn't manage to get the MAP...

 

[babybee]

To all those ladies who have had your period back, were there any signs of it before it returned? For the first time since I was pregnant I have had some discharge but I really can't remember what happened before I got my period.

As for sex, twice in 15 weeks! I have got a sex drive but its been killed by the time it gets to the evening.

 

[russellmuscle]

We are just using withdrawal meth most times but last ov time I told OH to deffo put on a love glove hahaha!!

I just think sometimes its a rush during the week but hate to think I have like scheduled sex but I feel weekend only is better lol xxxxx

 

[tweetyfoo]

I've not even had to bother sourcing contraception because we have sex so infrequently now!

Aaron gets up at 5am and we get to bed around 11pm. My head hits the pillow and I'm asleep! I hate my body so have little desire for hubby to be near me tbh.

Conceiving another might be problematic!


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[russellmuscle]

Aww sorry to hear tweets. Maybe when you get to ttc for number 2 you will get the notion for it again xxxxx

 

[tweetyfoo]

Just did my first opk ... Not even a sniff of a second line! When I was ttc I always had some form of a line faint or whatever. There was nothing

Going to try to remember to check everyday and see if there is any signs of anything


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[tweetyfoo]

Hubby has just agreed that we can start trying in September!

 

[Princess81]

We are just using withdrawal meth most times but last ov time I told OH to deffo put on a love glove hahaha!!

I just think sometimes its a rush during the week but hate to think I have like scheduled sex but I feel weekend only is better lol xxxxx

That's the "method" we used now I'm sat here wondering if I can feel implantation happening x

Still practicing on the new phone.....

 

[Princess81]

Hubby has just agreed that we can start trying in September!

Still practicing on the new phone.....

 

[Samsgirl]

What's meant to be will be princess xxx

 

[CARNAT22]

Hope, OH and I barely have sex. Although I am thinking my sex drive may return a little when I stop taking the pill?

I have forgotten what it's like not to be TTC, preggers, or a new Mum.

Last time we were having sex for fun was 2 years ago

I am a bit of a horn dog for DP's though so I need to watch myself.

I keep thinking 'having another so soon wouldn't be so bad' - but it's not part of the plan so I am not going to take silly risks

xxxxxxx

 

[Lolly85x]

Yeahy for Sept Tweety! That will be fun...

And I agree with Hope, Nat you will be in Tri 1 in no time hehe...!

I have a very sensible head on (and the coil) and if W keeps up with his behaviour latley he may be an only child haha the baby days were a doddle compared to 9month+ xx

 

[russellmuscle]

Ahhh Princess this happened to me the month before. We didn't use a condom and I had early cramping etc and I paniced for 2 weeks, AF came. Maybe its your head playing tricks on you, maybe not - what's for you won't go by you.

I hate the fact my nearest family planning clinic is like an hour away and that's getting on and off 3 buses! I hate not having a car. OH is taking his test soon thankfully xxxxx

 

[tweetyfoo]

I was going to come on here and ask how people wait to their "ttc again date"

Then I realised - that most of the folk that were on here are now in tri1/tri2

I'm on the 3 month countdown - and although I've not had a period yet we have kindof decided just to go with it.

It means I could be going back to work pregnant Its not the best plan in the world, and until AF comes back I suppose it probably wont happen.

 

[Hope81]

Tweety just a random thought but how are you going to manage with Aaron and a bump if you get bad spd again? I could literally barely walk from the sofa to the bathroom the last 2-3 m of pregnancy, I can't even imagine having a toddler to chase around too
Saying that good luck, exciting to see you with one more bump soon!!!!!! And the final product lol only if its 1:2 cute ad Aaron lol

 

[russellmuscle]

I think that would scare me going back pregnant. My work weren't thrilled about me going off the first time but obv can't do anything. I'd hate to go back and say I'm pregnant again. They'd have kittens!

xxxxx

 

[tweetyfoo]

Tweety just a random thought but how are you going to manage with Aaron and a bump if you get bad spd again? I could literally barely walk from the sofa to the bathroom the last 2-3 m of pregnancy, I can't even imagine having a toddler to chase around too
Saying that good luck, exciting to see you with one more bump soon!!!!!! And the final product lol only if its 1:2 cute ad Aaron lol

its something I've thought about a lot! My SPD was so severe towards the end I was bedbound with a travel toilet in my room

However, not having another baby is not an option for me now. So pregnancy ,as awful as it was for me is just something I need to go through. My last pregnancy broke me, I feel like I'm only just being put back together, but its worth it.

I'm scared of being pregnant again. As for looking after Aaron, I'll manage, I always do - being a mum has changed me (for the better I think)

We will cross that road when we come to it I think - its a head in the sand sort of a situation if I'm honest

 

[CARNAT22]

It's a cliche but every pregnancy is different!

My luck will be second time round I'll have an awful pregnancy LOL.

But seriously I don't think it's a head in the sand situation, I think its something you have to feel positive and confident about? If you have another difficult pregnancy then as you say you'll deal with it but until you get to that point I wouldn't worry.

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