May mummies and rainbows to be :) the wait is nearly over!

[BettyHoop]

Isn't there anyone that can at least help with the kids for the next couple of weeks? Xx

 

[BettyHoop]

I keep wondering if I will have the courage (or be able?!) to have another child in the future after how bad I've been this pregnancy, I keep wondering how on earth you with children already cope! Xx

 

[nikkix86]

my partner cant take anytime off work yet we cant afford for him too i dont really have any other family just my mum but again she works its not something people can just drop for a couple of weeks unfortunately for me ive had 4-5 year gaps between my children so ive forgotten.about it by the time i have the next one lol

 

[Eryinera]

Are there any mum's from school who could help? I've nearly done baby's room the cot isn't in yet as that's still at my parents for a few weeks and she'll be in the moses basket in our room for the first few months.
Tomorrow I hope to have the moses basket up!

 

[nikkix86]

ive calmed down a bit now lol going to go to the doctors tomorrow see if they will give me some codeine or something

 

[Eryinera]

Yea you need to let them.know how bad your feeling x they have a duty of care to you as well as bany and baby is so nearly fully cooked x


Argh it's dentist time soon so scared for him.

 

[Leighwiltshire]

they will give you codeine as they were going to give me it for my IBS

i cant imagine what some of you are going through - ive had a fairly easy pregnancy but i dont think i will be wanting anymore after this the worry etc is a lot

 

[Dovekie]

My mental health has been the worst - probably enough to put me off another one! You've still got plenty of time Leigh

 

[nikkix86]

the hospital emailed me back saying as it was a clinical decision they have passed it to the divisional chair for womens services to see what the next best step will be

hope the dentist goes okay is that for your son ery?

 

[Leighwiltshire]

still time for pain?? haha im just really uncomfortable! and his foot under my rib is a killer!

i hope they bring it forward for you Nikki!

good luck at the dentist Ery, i remember i went to get my teeth out and my mum went im just going to find a magazine ... she never came back till it was done haha

 

[lisey]

Hope it goes ok ery and hope they offer some support nikki xx

 

[nikkix86]

thanks sorry ive been moany today girls lol

 

[lisey]

It's ok nikki, you are in pain, vent away to us xx

 

[missyeovil]

Aw hope you get some help nikki. Bug hugs!

Had my scan and all measured bang on 50th centile, about 7lbs 2Oz apparently! The Dr was super nice and totally fine with me having a home birth so all is good. In loads of pain down there today. She said the head was very low and in the right position on the scan so hopefully things are all good to go...but need to wait till Monday! Xx

 

[Leighwiltshire]

Nikki - its what we are here for!! moan away we all do it

xx

 

[nikkix86]

lol thanks just had a mini breakdown earlier. going to bath the kids and do them dinner then once they are in bed i can rest

 

[Emily0505]

Pregnancy is hard work at the best of times hun, let alone when you're having a more difficult pregnancy with added issues. Moan away if you need to!

XX

 

[lisey]

Sounds good missyeovil. Hope little one stays in there til Monday for you xx

 

[kabuk1]

Nikki, moan away. After seeing my colleague pretty much breakdown. Today with her spd, you have every right to moan, especially if you feel the hospital don't care.

I had a 40 min wait from my appt time. The chairs here are awful. I'm only 5'2", so quite short and they are fraking high, which doesn't help with the swelling. It's gotten worse.

I'm now in the day assessment unit. He's grown a little quicker than expected. His estimated weight is now over 8lbs. One kidney is full, which I'm told is quite common with boys, but that it will be flagged with the consultant. There is a little more amniotic fluid than expected too. Lots of little things, so I'm now lying in the DAU waiting to hear back about my urine, blood pressure and so on. I don't know if that's all the tests. Hopefully I'll know more soon.

 

[Emily0505]

Well, since hubby finished the garden and sorted Cam's play area for him, he's become like the most popular child on our housing estate! There's currently him and six other kids playing in our back garden! Luckily his sandpit is huge so there's plenty of room for a good few of them in there! Lol! He's been wanting to go out and play with the other kids and I've let him twice, just in the area outside our garden but I can't relax at all while he's out there as I really think he's just too young. So, I'd rather have everyone in our garden where I know where they are and what they're up to.

The plumber has been and it seems that our shower is fixed (for the time being anyway) but hopefully it's sorted! He did say it might have over heated perhaps as the filter was a little bit clogged too. I do have it up quite hot on my back so might need to turn it down a smidge

XX