Kabuk I love Matteo and Tobias. Elijah I'm not so keen on the letter combination and it is a bit religious for me, although I know it is a super popular name right now and Remy I would associate with a girl (simply as I know a female one).
We aren't using any family names either Lisey, gosh it rules out no end though! Names I like but are ruled out for that reason include Kate, Hazel, Edward, Peter, Emma, Mary (although I can't decide about that one, not sure if it is still closely associated as a religious name). Ohh I've just seen you are at 30 weeks eeeeek! Exciting!
Emily it isn't coming with a mattress so we will be getting a new one, probably not for a while though as seems silly to get it too much before we need it. It is scary how fast this is starting to go now though!