Bliss days
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Hi
Back and just had to catch up on about 6 pages! Feel like I have missed out on a good night chatting. Sorry.
I hope everyone is ok. It is really hard having to be patient and wait. It's always the not knowing that is so hard. From that perspective I completely understand why some people choose an elective c section so they know their date! We are all just hanging! I really don't want a January baby either but trying to convince myself that's what it will be so I don't feel too disappointed and a dec birth would be a bonus!
Sosie, don't worry about after the birth. Try focusing on the positives of having your LO. I do understand completely thou and feel the same. I worry that I'm not going to cope and OH and I will argue and it will be a nightmare. But I try to tell myself that it is unnecessary worrying as we can't predict what will happen but we can try to prevent negative feelings by staying calm Etc. I know this sounds like I have swallowed a self help book but I need to keep telling myself these things to keep me sane and if it helps anyone else then that's great!
I really hope things kick off for some of you soon. Fx their is a labour thread coming up in the next day or two!
I'm off to the in laws tomorrow but will try and link up to stay in touch.
Thinking of you all. Xx
Back and just had to catch up on about 6 pages! Feel like I have missed out on a good night chatting. Sorry.
I hope everyone is ok. It is really hard having to be patient and wait. It's always the not knowing that is so hard. From that perspective I completely understand why some people choose an elective c section so they know their date! We are all just hanging! I really don't want a January baby either but trying to convince myself that's what it will be so I don't feel too disappointed and a dec birth would be a bonus!
Sosie, don't worry about after the birth. Try focusing on the positives of having your LO. I do understand completely thou and feel the same. I worry that I'm not going to cope and OH and I will argue and it will be a nightmare. But I try to tell myself that it is unnecessary worrying as we can't predict what will happen but we can try to prevent negative feelings by staying calm Etc. I know this sounds like I have swallowed a self help book but I need to keep telling myself these things to keep me sane and if it helps anyone else then that's great!
I really hope things kick off for some of you soon. Fx their is a labour thread coming up in the next day or two!
I'm off to the in laws tomorrow but will try and link up to stay in touch.
Thinking of you all. Xx