The WTT Chat Thread

[tinks77]

3 years will fly by, by the time you've planned the wedding and done your nursing stuff you'll be amazed how quickly it comes round x

 

[traci]

He said no to bringing ttc forward and now wants to put it back til may!!!!! What the actual feck is that all about!?!

Noooo - what was his reason?? Xx

Apparently he wants more money behind us now he's got a job. Even tho he was all for jan which wouldn't make much difference. He tried to give me lots of reasons, all of which could be dealt with. He wants us out of debt, even tho we were in a lot more debt when we ttc lo. He wants a bigger house, we moved when I was pregnant before. Plus we're now on the waiting list for a council house. He wants me to be better with my hips and knees. I've been told that it'll come back in pregnancy anyway. Oh, and he wants me to be able to drink this crimbo! I'm not that fussed about drinking, not like I can get drunk with lo about. Bloody men!!!!

Oh no what a total pain
How long did he say all that would take? ie did he come up with another date, or was it just left up in the air? Bet you wished you'd never asked him now
I hope he comes round. His hips and knees bit is really sweet. Sounds like he's just trying to get everything perfect for you all, which is lovely, bless him. Thing is, it's never going to be perfect. Hard to make a man see that cos all he wants is to provide and protect.
Your goal now is to make him softly, softly see that all those things are copeable. I'd give A a big hug and thank him for being so lovely about protecting me from preg woes, then leave it a few days. Bring each point up individually and reassure him it's fine, but don't push it or "win". My OH did the same recently, God love him so much, and we talked about money (reason for his wobble) and I showed him lots of reasons why we could afford another. He's much happier now and although ttc has no start date officially it's back on soon!! Xx

I know he's trying to do the right thing. And trying to make sure we're both in the right place, it's just a complete u turn from the last time we talked! Just bummed out now but I'm not going to push the subject and I haven't mentioned it again. He's got man flu at the mo so when he's better I'll approach it again.

Anyways, hi lynette!!

 

[netty]

Hey Traci!!

Af came for me today and that was my last cycle of trying

Feel a bit odd really..


Now do I go on the pill.....or Willy dodge....

fapatalking

 

[LikeJohnnYoko]

Hey Traci!!

Af came for me today and that was my last cycle of trying

Feel a bit odd really..


Now do I go on the pill.....or Willy dodge....

fapatalking

I think prolly go on the pill, chick

How is everyone today?

I'm bored and freezing and kind of upset/fed up of being in WTT. I'm really hoping I'm about to come on AF, which would be great because it'd be starting to get regular. I hate having this question mark above me.

 

[SunnyGirl]

Hey Traci!!

Af came for me today and that was my last cycle of trying

Feel a bit odd really..


Now do I go on the pill.....or Willy dodge....

fapatalking

I think prolly go on the pill, chick

How is everyone today?

I'm bored and freezing and kind of upset/fed up of being in WTT. I'm really hoping I'm about to come on AF, which would be great because it'd be starting to get regular. I hate having this question mark above me.

Bless you massive hugs
Have you tried Agnus Castus? Xxx

 

[LikeJohnnYoko]

Hey Traci!!

Af came for me today and that was my last cycle of trying

Feel a bit odd really..


Now do I go on the pill.....or Willy dodge....

fapatalking

I think prolly go on the pill, chick

How is everyone today?

I'm bored and freezing and kind of upset/fed up of being in WTT. I'm really hoping I'm about to come on AF, which would be great because it'd be starting to get regular. I hate having this question mark above me.

Bless you massive hugs
Have you tried Agnus Castus? Xxx

Not yet, at the moment the main thing I need to do to get them regular is lose a lot of weight.

 

[Rachaellius]

I'm undecided whether to TTC earlier as I've found out today that I have PCO or stick with the original plan of June/July and see how it goes :/

 

[Rachaellius]

LJY xx

 

[pringle88]

Ah sorry hun Did you try for Phoebe hun? How did you find that out if you don't mind me asking? X

 

[Rachaellius]

Ah sorry hun Did you try for Phoebe hun? How did you find that out if you don't mind me asking? X

I had to go for an ultrasound today because AF has been a bit AWOL since having Pheebs. Well I've had two AFs. I've got to go and see my gp to see what happens next.
I did try for just over a year with Phoebe but AF was always pretty regular before pregnancy :/ x

 

[Princess81]

Awww Rachael pcos is such a pain! It doesn't mean that it wont happen for you again, knowledge is power xx

 

[pringle88]

Yeah exactly, my sisters best friend found out she had it and started TTC and got pregnant after 2 cycles! xx

 

[netty]

Hugs rach!

I don't know what pill to go back on? Feels crazy asking that question I always had depo jab but I never liked it any suggestions girls?

I feel bad asking about contraception when some girls here have worse problems.than me and are excited to come off the pill lol

Hope I'm not offending anyone x

How are we all anyways

fapatalking

 

[LoopyLouize]

Would you not consider the Coil? It's not subjecting your body to hormones then. Just a thought for you Hun.

Don't be daft , your not offending anyone!!!

I'm good thanks, having abit of a debate with myself and its driving me insane! OH has been talking about another baby for 2 months now, he dropped the bomb shell last night that he wants one now and to start trying.. Now he did say this the other week but I thought he was joking.. Apparently he's serious! He hid my pills from me when I started my pack 2 weeks ago, I only took 2 days worth and they mysteriously vanished! He owned up to it! Wasn't impressed at all. So, my dilemma is, I start back work in 2 weeks, I get my full wage back as I'm full time, I can pay off debts and go on our first family holiday. Or TTC now.. I still get 9 months worth of my full wage, to which would pay of 70% of our debt... God dammit ! What do I do!!!?!?!? Positivity, your biased so your not allowed to answer this lol, just kidding x


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[Princess81]

Lol Lou it's a tough one, do you listen to your head or heart?
I'm listening to my head (for once) I want to be financially comfortable for number 2, same as I have been for Cam, and I want Cam to have me to himself for a little longer as well so that's why I'm waiting (plus my o/h would actually freak lol). I think you'd be wise to have your debts sorted first and in the grand scheme of things what's an extra 6 or so months? (Apologies lou's o/h if you are reading )

Some docs won't give the coil until after you've had your first baby. I wanted it before cam but they said no!! X

 

[netty]

No I can't have the pill doctor said I have to Have a baby first

I'm worried about going back on the pill for my moods and weight GAH I don't know what to doooo

fapatalking

 

[LoopyLouize]

I need to listen to my head, it's just so difficult when I'm not on any protection, sometimes it's almost tempting to just say "bugga it go on then" . I have my smear tomorrow so once I've had that and AF has arrived ill book in for the coil. I was much more tempted last week to try now, but after Harlows behaviour this past week it's totally put me off.. Just a little.. Only a little bit.. Ok.. It's just a teeny weeny bit lol!

He probably won't read this either lol, he got royally b*llocked when he came home on the weekend. Told him he is not under any circumstances, to read my stuff! Plus he's no idea how to navigate the forum, typical bloke!

Ohhhh really?!? I didn't know that about the coil! Wonder why? X





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[netty]

Something to do with your cervix I think

fapatalking

 

[Samsgirl]

i'm using my head too and waiting til June. This will mean I am back in full time work about 12 months. This should mean I can save up enough to have another year off with next babba and also get some mroe saved up to try and move house....xx

 

[positivity :)]

FYI I'm stalking this thread


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Why only stalking and not joining?

good question Jayne! So olive..join the gang of ladies who are 'WTT' but actually keep having danger pokes and will all be joining me very soon