The WTT Chat Thread

[LoopyLouize]

Erm....can I come In

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course you can! Are You ok? X

 

[netty]

Yeah it's just not the right time now with our wedding coming up and also me wanting to go to uni and do my nursing degree me and oh decided to give it a rest

Nothing up with either of us I'm fine he is fine I'm waiting a couple of years then trying again

Bit sad about it but also excited for my wedding and all so.....dint know how to feel tbh

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[NinjaKitty]

Hiya Lynette

Are you going on contraception or just gonna try dodging the penis bullet each month like I do


Using Tapatalk can't see no tickers grrrrr.

 

[netty]

Penis dodging all the way!

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[netty]

I ov bang on time I know when I am fertile I Have very regular af

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[LikeJohnnYoko]

Yeah it's just not the right time now with our wedding coming up and also me wanting to go to uni and do my nursing degree me and oh decided to give it a rest

Nothing up with either of us I'm fine he is fine I'm waiting a couple of years then trying again

Bit sad about it but also excited for my wedding and all so.....dint know how to feel tbh

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Mwah, big hugs. It sounds like the right way of doing things right now sweetie.

 

[Princess81]

Bloody hell Jayne, that's a lot of OPKS!!

Uh oh! I didn't realise they can go missing?!?!

I'm considering having the coil, which one do u have Jayne? Did it hurt? Did it make ur period heavier/stop/lighter? X

I've got the copper coil. It was a bit uncomfortable but didn't hurt, it's like a smear but longer and I got some period-like cramps. Hard call ref periods as I only had withdrawal bleeds from the pill before and I can't remember pre-pill periods. I certainly wouldn't consider them to be overly heavy now though x

 

[Princess81]

Welcome lynette!! Xx

 

[traci]

He said no to bringing ttc forward and now wants to put it back til may!!!!! What the actual feck is that all about!?!

 

[SunnyGirl]

He said no to bringing ttc forward and now wants to put it back til may!!!!! What the actual feck is that all about!?!

Noooo - what was his reason?? Xx

 

[tinks77]

He said no to bringing ttc forward and now wants to put it back til may!!!!! What the actual feck is that all about!?!

Oh no, you can alway ttc with me as I'm waiting till may/June. Hoping for a spring baby next time. Maybe we'll have the next one within days of each other again

 

[traci]

He said no to bringing ttc forward and now wants to put it back til may!!!!! What the actual feck is that all about!?!

Noooo - what was his reason?? Xx

Apparently he wants more money behind us now he's got a job. Even tho he was all for jan which wouldn't make much difference. He tried to give me lots of reasons, all of which could be dealt with. He wants us out of debt, even tho we were in a lot more debt when we ttc lo. He wants a bigger house, we moved when I was pregnant before. Plus we're now on the waiting list for a council house. He wants me to be better with my hips and knees. I've been told that it'll come back in pregnancy anyway. Oh, and he wants me to be able to drink this crimbo! I'm not that fussed about drinking, not like I can get drunk with lo about. Bloody men!!!!

 

[Rachaellius]

Welcome Lynette

Traci that sucks

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[pringle88]

Hiya Lynette!!

Aw Traci that's a bummer, hopefully he will change his mind!

We have had a stupid amount of danger pokes but after AF (if it comes!!) were gonna start using condoms... Got a holiday to diet for then back on baby making in July!

 

[Rachaellius]

I think my OH would quite happily TTC now, well he's suggested it enough times. But I've said no, not til June/July. Although I'm broody as hell I know I'd struggle with 2 under 2. I want Phoebe to be out of nappies and a pram first

 

[pringle88]

It would be nice to go through our next pregnancies together rach x

 

[SunnyGirl]

He said no to bringing ttc forward and now wants to put it back til may!!!!! What the actual feck is that all about!?!

Noooo - what was his reason?? Xx

Apparently he wants more money behind us now he's got a job. Even tho he was all for jan which wouldn't make much difference. He tried to give me lots of reasons, all of which could be dealt with. He wants us out of debt, even tho we were in a lot more debt when we ttc lo. He wants a bigger house, we moved when I was pregnant before. Plus we're now on the waiting list for a council house. He wants me to be better with my hips and knees. I've been told that it'll come back in pregnancy anyway. Oh, and he wants me to be able to drink this crimbo! I'm not that fussed about drinking, not like I can get drunk with lo about. Bloody men!!!!

Oh no what a total pain
How long did he say all that would take? ie did he come up with another date, or was it just left up in the air? Bet you wished you'd never asked him now
I hope he comes round. His hips and knees bit is really sweet. Sounds like he's just trying to get everything perfect for you all, which is lovely, bless him. Thing is, it's never going to be perfect. Hard to make a man see that cos all he wants is to provide and protect.
Your goal now is to make him softly, softly see that all those things are copeable. I'd give A a big hug and thank him for being so lovely about protecting me from preg woes, then leave it a few days. Bring each point up individually and reassure him it's fine, but don't push it or "win". My OH did the same recently, God love him so much, and we talked about money (reason for his wobble) and I showed him lots of reasons why we could afford another. He's much happier now and although ttc has no start date officially it's back on soon!! Xx

 

[Rachaellius]

It would be nice to go through our next pregnancies together rach x

It would be awesome!! x

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[LikeJohnnYoko]

I can understand him wanting more money behind you love

I wish we had a choice in TTC.

 

[netty]

Morning ladies I must say I feel like a load is off mind moving to wtt sounds odd as of course I want to be a mummy but ttc for soooo long really ground me down

Hopefully when I try again I'll have savings and my degree behind me yay

I've decided to try when I'm 30 I'm 27 now so 3 years wow that sounds like a long time....eek I'll be married too!



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