The WTT Chat Thread

[Karate Kid]

So AF is paying her first visit in months and my goodness it's painful!! Xx

 

[xSebbiesMumx]

Im so stressed out tonight..Ive been up and down all night and im fed up!!

OH has not lifted a finger all day and even when i asked if he'd put seb to bed as my backs playing up all i got was 'Its my birthday' (which it is)..He's been using that excuse all day!, ive even had to care for his mother because he cant be arsed or uses the birthday excuse!..Im sick of it!...Next time Seb' decides to cry then its his turn!

And im very hungover today! , so thats not going to well either ..Damn deadly sins cocktails will be the death of me lol!

 

[russellmuscle]

I feel ur sympathy with AF, it seems worse after child birth or am I just not used to having cramp LOL?!

I'm having bad OV pains actually, really bad. This might be my first OV since J? I have had all my AFs on time but not had OV pains and EWCM, until now.

Feel like I'm ttc all over again watching out for things! This is to avoid anything happening before I get my coil fitted this month xxxxx

 

[KarenC]

Boooooo for AF pains. Mine was much the same as it was before being pg, thank goodness. Now it's over, we've just had our first danger(ish) poke, but it's still early days. I have no idea about my cycle lengths, OV or anything as we didn't really TTC as such for Tilly. She just happened... So I'm a novice! Anyway. I shouldn't really be here but I'm too scared to say I'm TTC. xxx

 

[tweetyfoo]

How can I get hubby to commit to a timescale for baby no 2?

I don't know if its my yearning for a "normal" experience of childbirth and celebration and motherhood, but I've been broody since Aaron was born and it just seems to get worse everyday!

Aaron is so flipping wonderful I'd have a house full of him! However, I think another child with DS might break me?

I don't know whether i need to look into genetic counselling to see if we have something in our genes that make us higher risk? On the other hand, I don't want to be able to place blame for Aarons designer genes?

One of my main reasons for wanting another is so that one day I can be a granny! At the grand old age of 30 thats one of my concerns, its ridiculous, but Men with DS are infertile, and I can't see Aaron every being allowed to adopt - so I need another kid.

I'm so scared that the world has been cruel enough to me that I wont be able to conceive another, so almost just want to get it over and done with?

Plus, I want a go at having a girl, or Aaron is in real danger of getting put in a pink dress! (that being said I think I'll have another boy if at all)

 

[TaffyRose]

How does your OH react when you talk about having another baby Tweety? Is he up for it just doesn't want to put a date on it?

Maybe get him to agree quicker by reminding him of all the sex that's required to make the baby? Worked with my OH xx

 

[russellmuscle]

I'm slowly but surely coming to terms with another baby, at first I was like no way. I've changed my mind now and plan to ttc when jacksons nearly 3. OH is still like not any time soon! I could have just one. Pisses me off sometimes because I have jackson most of the time (through choice) so if anyone should be stressed its me lmao ?!

xxxxx

 

[xSebbiesMumx]

Well, ive been begging OH until im blue in the face ..All i get out of him is 'when the finances are better'..That could be next month or next year to me!..But i do want a tiny baby again

Seb has been the easiest baby ever to take care of, he eats all his meals, sleeps all the way through, didn't seem bothered when he was teething (apart from the odd time he was a bit grumpy) and he's generally a content baby..Id have another 5 of him if i could afford that many

 

[tweetyfoo]

How does your OH react when you talk about having another baby Tweety? Is he up for it just doesn't want to put a date on it?

Maybe get him to agree quicker by reminding him of all the sex that's required to make the baby? Worked with my OH xx

He's just very non committal about the whole thing.

He doesn't say yes or no - I feel like I'm in limbo


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[CARNAT22]

I must be in the minority as AF has been fine since James (granted I only had two before I went back on pill though but they were cool??)

Tweety, maybe you need to be more direct and ask him. Ask him when you can TTC and see how he answers.

My OH shocked my on Monday, we were talking about a holiday next year and he said 'well you might be pregnant again by then' which is news to me

We'll NTNP in about 13/14 months time I think. I want a good few months back at work and we also need to move.

I am sorting out all my baby stuff for my sister - who has had baby number 3 confirmed as her 3rd boy - and I so want another one!!

xxxxxxx

 

[xSebbiesMumx]

My muscles are really painful tonight!..Finally jogged around the block today to get the feel of it again and my god i really am unfit ..I got half way around before i had to stop for a breathe..I really struggled to catch my breath ..But to jog again after 3 years felt pretty awesome so im going to jog a little more tomorrow while OH and MIL are out!

Im determined to shift some of this spare tire ive got going on!

 

[LikeJohnnYoko]

My muscles are really painful tonight!..Finally jogged around the block today to get the feel of it again and my god i really am unfit ..I got half way around before i had to stop for a breathe..I really struggled to catch my breath ..But to jog again after 3 years felt pretty awesome so im going to jog a little more tomorrow while OH and MIL are out!

Im determined to shift some of this spare tire ive got going on!

Are you off to TTC now your OH's birthday has been and gone?

I'm okay, chugging along. Doing work on my weight at the moment *sigh* still no AF ( according to period tracker I am a woeful 39 days late for my last period (April))

 

[tweetyfoo]

I must be in the minority as AF has been fine since James (granted I only had two before I went back on pill though but they were cool??)

Tweety, maybe you need to be more direct and ask him. Ask him when you can TTC and see how he answers.

My OH shocked my on Monday, we were talking about a holiday next year and he said 'well you might be pregnant again by then' which is news to me

We'll NTNP in about 13/14 months time I think. I want a good few months back at work and we also need to move.

I am sorting out all my baby stuff for my sister - who has had baby number 3 confirmed as her 3rd boy - and I so want another one!!

xxxxxxx

I have asked him directly - he says things like "I've not thought about it".

I'd really like to start thinking about it soon tbh, I think I'll get him drunk and jump him

 

[NinjaKitty]

I must be in the minority as AF has been fine since James (granted I only had two before I went back on pill though but they were cool??)

Tweety, maybe you need to be more direct and ask him. Ask him when you can TTC and see how he answers.

My OH shocked my on Monday, we were talking about a holiday next year and he said 'well you might be pregnant again by then' which is news to me

We'll NTNP in about 13/14 months time I think. I want a good few months back at work and we also need to move.

I am sorting out all my baby stuff for my sister - who has had baby number 3 confirmed as her 3rd boy - and I so want another one!!

xxxxxxx

I have asked him directly - he says things like "I've not thought about it".

I'd really like to start thinking about it soon tbh, I think I'll get him drunk and jump him

Do it muhahahahaha


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[Frankie_Lou]

Tweety you may need to be careful, looks like NK's still hanging about with that turkey baster!

Lol I miss it in here , might have to start lurking again

 

[NinjaKitty]

I'm constantly lurking for new recruits.


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[tweetyfoo]

I'm constantly lurking for new recruits.


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Recruit me recruit me!!!!

Made some progress tonight.

He's still not come to terms with Aaron having DS. And the thought of having to go through it again scares him, but he would like another, and he's probably going to come around to my ways of thinking (I want to ntnp in september)

He wants me to look into genetic counselling to see if we have a genetic reason that Aaron has DS or of it was just fluke




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[CARNAT22]

Are you happy with the progress Tweety? It sounds fair enough to me.

Will you look into genetic counselling?

My Oh would get me preggers tomorrow if it means he gets a shag

xxxxxxxx

 

[Lolly85x]

How do you feel about the genetic counselling tweety? Is it something you want to do?xxx

 

[tweetyfoo]

I've been on the fence about genetic counselling, because I don't want to attribute blame to one of us.

I do t even know who to ask! A girl I know who lives nearby just had her baby and he has ds, she was offered genetic counselling - so I'm not sure. I'd ask my HV but we've already established she's useless

DH is still really struggling with the diagnosis, which is a shock to me, but there's not much else I can do to help him

I can't believe we've only got 4 months to wait though!

I want to get my body back into shape before falling pregnant again though. a lot of lessons learned from the last one

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