The WTT Chat Thread

[xSebbiesMumx]

Haven't stopped by here in a while so thought id check in while everyones asleep!, but me of course :\

Suffering at the moment with AF, but the lateness seems to be going down!..Last cycle I was late by a week, and now AF was only late 1 day..Im pretty frustrated with OH too, he said quite a while ago we'd TTC by his birthday which this weekend only for him to go back on his word and utter something about 'finances'..Okay, sure, fine I get that we're in the crap with money at the moment but he promised me..I know im probably being stupid over nothing and AF is making me a tad bit irrational..Or doolally!..Take your pick, but i just feel cheated!

Whats makes it worse is he's out nearly every Saturday with his stupid lesbian friend (The one who wanted OH's sperm..Yada,yada,yada im not going into detail)..Im probably being crazy over nothing but..Would you feel hurt if your OH started calling his female friends 'sexy?'..And saying they had sexy boobs and shit!..I mean im downright hurt as he should only be saying those things to me :\..

Sleep deprivation isn't my friend at the moment, its causing me to over think and make myself paranoid

 

[russellmuscle]

The fact that she's a lesbian doesn't give him the right to say she has sexy boobs, atleast not out loud to hurt you!

My OH is on about another already!! Kind of went from never, to if, to when then now its and when the second ones here LOL - however, coil is booked! No more danger pokes for me OH "forgets" to wrap up so its up to me!

As much as a delight J is, I am still far too tired and want to be a working mother, oddly enough? I only work 3h a day though so won't be away too long! My plan was to start TTC when J is 2, 2 & a half.

Congrats on those who have moved, exciting stuff!

Hope everyone else is doin ok!? xxxxx

 

[KarenC]

Sebbie's Mum... I hate to say it, but from all I've read about you and your OH, I think you two have a LOT of talking and sorting out of your relationship to do before you should TTC no.2. Sounds like he needs a bit of a smack around the head and to get his priorities straight. You've got to be a bit more forceful with him and tell him how you feel, what you want and to actually agree on something. His relationship with this lesbian is strange to say the least... I'd be very uncomfortable with it and quite angry. Sorry, I know this doesn't really belong on this thread, but I just want to give you some hugs and support - you've got to work things out though.

Ladies... I don't want a double buggy either. I'll carry one LO in a sling and push the other. That's my plan anyway... aaaaaaaaaaand... my AF is finally here! I'm now on CD5 and will officially be NTNP/TTC now, so I guess it's time I moved on to TTC. OMG!!!

xxx

 

[babybee]

Goodluck KarenC! I hope your stay in ttc is very very short and you're in tri 1 very soon!

 

[KarenC]

Goodluck KarenC! I hope your stay in ttc is very very short and you're in tri 1 very soon!

Thanks, hun! TBH, I'm shitting my pants at the thought of having two, but I always said I'd have them close together. FX it's soon, but not too soon! I need to prepare myself mentally for another newborn. I'd also forgotten how much I hate AF until this week. I was overjoyed to see it, but now I'm wishing it away again xxx

 

[babybee]

I hate it too. Next month it'll be a year since my last one. It's so nice not being pregnant and not having a period (for now). It feels like I'm a normal person again who's not hormonal every other week. How long did it take for yours to come back?

As for 2 babies I can totally understand how you feel. Mine is only 11 weeks and I really want another but waiting till next year. What's worrying is now she's beginning to settle I'm already forgetting about the discomfort of pregnancy and the exhaustion of a teeny tiny newborn! At least with having 2 your eldest can entertain the little one for a bit - that's what I keep telling myself anyway!

I hope it all goes well for you Hun!xxx

 

[Lolly85x]

Oohhh! Good Luck Karen!!!!xx

 

[KarenC]

I hate it too. Next month it'll be a year since my last one. It's so nice not being pregnant and not having a period (for now). It feels like I'm a normal person again who's not hormonal every other week. How long did it take for yours to come back?

As for 2 babies I can totally understand how you feel. Mine is only 11 weeks and I really want another but waiting till next year. What's worrying is now she's beginning to settle I'm already forgetting about the discomfort of pregnancy and the exhaustion of a teeny tiny newborn! At least with having 2 your eldest can entertain the little one for a bit - that's what I keep telling myself anyway!

I hope it all goes well for you Hun!xxx

LO was nearly 10.5 months when AF reappeared last week and she is still exclusively breastfed. I was on Cerazette until about five or six weeks ago, so that might have played a part, but I just stopped it and waited impatiently... Her feeds have dropped down to 4 a day now.

Yeah, I can't quite remember the hell of having a newborn. I think we're programmed to forget to an extent or we'd all only ever have one!

Thanks Lolly. I am terrified of it actually happening, even though T is lovely and I had a great pregnancy and birth. I'm just not that good at coping with stuff. help! xxx

 

[charliebeth]

Hi!

Sneaking in here, I've been away for a long time but we're planning another baby for late summer next year. I just had my implant out yesterday and I'm on the pill for the next 3-5 months and see what happens!

Little bit too excited about TTC again soon!

 

[russellmuscle]

Awwww congrats KarenC xxxxx

 

[Karate Kid]

Yay for AF Karen!! I am going to carry the newborn and continue to push C, not wanting a double!!

Xx

 

[xSebbiesMumx]

Sebbie's Mum... I hate to say it, but from all I've read about you and your OH, I think you two have a LOT of talking and sorting out of your relationship to do before you should TTC no.2. Sounds like he needs a bit of a smack around the head and to get his priorities straight. You've got to be a bit more forceful with him and tell him how you feel, what you want and to actually agree on something. His relationship with this lesbian is strange to say the least... I'd be very uncomfortable with it and quite angry. Sorry, I know this doesn't really belong on this thread, but I just want to give you some hugs and support - you've got to work things out though.

Ladies... I don't want a double buggy either. I'll carry one LO in a sling and push the other. That's my plan anyway... aaaaaaaaaaand... my AF is finally here! I'm now on CD5 and will officially be NTNP/TTC now, so I guess it's time I moved on to TTC. OMG!!!

xxx

Thanks Karen!, nah your right..I totally agree there are things and people we really need to talk about and banish (would be a fine thing, i know but meh! lol)..Im a hormonal mess tonight and seeing those words he typed make me feel so nauseated and angry!!, i dunno if he means well by what he says but those kinda' things just make me stop and wonder!, i guess i am the jealous type after all!..And we said to each other at the beginning of the relationship that neither of us would be the jealous, clingy, needy type and i feel like im turning into that

I just feel so down right unattractive at the minute because of this!, its very rare i get called 'sexy' or be told i have nice boobs!..But to say it to that!?!?!..It makes my blood boil!

 

[KarenC]

Thanks Karen!, nah your right..I totally agree there are things and people we really need to talk about and banish (would be a fine thing, i know but meh! lol)..Im a hormonal mess tonight and seeing those words he typed make me feel so nauseated and angry!!, i dunno if he means well by what he says but those kinda' things just make me stop and wonder!, i guess i am the jealous type after all!..And we said to each other at the beginning of the relationship that neither of us would be the jealous, clingy, needy type and i feel like im turning into that

I just feel so down right unattractive at the minute because of this!, its very rare i get called 'sexy' or be told i have nice boobs!..But to say it to that!?!?!..It makes my blood boil!

Oh hun, I don't think that what you're being is needy/clingy/jealous - what he is doing is downright WRONG by saying things like that about other women, lesbian or not. It is very inconsiderate and hurtful and it's totally understandable that you feel the way you do. He needs some sense beaten into him. I don't know how to advise you, because only you know best in the end, but I want to send you hugs. It's not a nice situation to be in at all. Hope you work things out so that you're happier very soon xxx

 

[TaffyRose]

Not been in here for ages so thought I'd check in. Yay for af Karen, I can't believe you're moving to ttc! Our plan is still to ttc next year for no 2. We were chatting about it today and I said to my OH I was thinking of coming off the pill around march, to which he replied 'tbh you might as well come off it in jan'

Sending a big hug to you sebbiesmum xxx

 

[KarenC]

Not been in here for ages so thought I'd check in. Yay for af Karen, I can't believe you're moving to ttc! Our plan is still to ttc next year for no 2. We were chatting about it today and I said to my OH I was thinking of coming off the pill around march, to which he replied 'tbh you might as well come off it in jan'

Sending a big hug to you sebbiesmum xxx

Thanks, hun. I'm not going to be trying very hard, to be honest - no tracking cycles or OPKs or stuff like that. I don't actually want to be PG immediately, so I'm just taking it easy - more NTNP than TTC, really. We'll just see what happens. Last pregnancy, I fell after my first proper AF after stopping the pill, so on my second month. I have NO idea what my cycles are like so I'm happy to continue in my ignorant state and let nature take its course.

That's a very positive response from your OH, hun. Very exciting! xxx

 

[Hope81]

Karen you are one BRAVE woman lol 2 Tillys sounds exciting!!!! Maybe a tilly and a milly Ha ha I can't wait

 

[CARNAT22]

I nearly had a heart attack to see you in here Hope???

I thought you'd changed your mind about wanting another

I would love another although I know it wont be easy regardless of how long we wait for number 2.

I spent an hour yesterday with my nephews (sis has two boys 4 and 2. Bro has 2 boys 2 and 5 months) I don't know how people actually cope with more than one??? James looked terrified with all the chaos and noise bless him!

xxxxxxxxx

 

[KarenC]

Karen you are one BRAVE woman lol 2 Tillys sounds exciting!!!! Maybe a tilly and a milly Ha ha I can't wait

LOL. Two Tillys will send me to an early grave. I must be mad... xxx

 

[xSebbiesMumx]

Feeling much better now AF has cleared right off!..And thanks for the hugs guys

We're supposed to be going out for a drink tomorrow as its OH's birthday on Sunday..But he's gone and invited 'the thing'..I really dont want to go but everytime I say i dont know whether i want to or not he gets the major huff :\, so i suppose ive got to go to keep him happy i suppose, im in no mood to drink and i dont really want to be a wet mop on the whole occasion!..Add in nothing to wear and im back to feeling very unattractive again indeed!..Maybe ill be stuck in WTT for the rest of my reproducing days..Its caused so much hassle and arguments between the two of us that its hardly worth throwing a 3 year relationship away over...

I just ache as my babies getting older (1 in June) and i long for that tiny baby again ..And im sick of those bloody monstrosities you call condoms!..Well aren't i the bundle of laughs tonight

 

[LikeJohnnYoko]

Still, not had AF visit - 2 months since my last one.