May 2018 Mummies....Tri 2

[GBLiz]

Hmm, maybe it is, after a quick google. I just knew that for the birth centre i used you were not supposed to be over 40

Oh wow really ? Will you have to find another place then ?

This was last year, they let me go there I think partly because i had an uncomplicated home birth previously, and partly as i had no risk factors at all other than age. unfortunately i cant go there this time, as I've moved to near glasgow and there are NO small midwife-led birth centres!! I'm faced with a choice of larger hospital or homebirth ! Gutted...

 

[claire_louise9]

I started off at the midwife led birthing centre but got rushed to the big hospital for a emergency c section. It would have been so much easier if I had her there as it's not far from where I live.

 

[kaypee]

Just been catching up ive been at work constantly the past 2 weeks so just work/eat/sleep. Off this weekend so going to chill! So exciting finding out genders! We are staying team yellow but so tempted. I also am worried i am gona see something on the scan!

Cj hope you are ok xx

 

[GBLiz]

there's a lot of you staying yellow, i'm very impressed with your ability to delay finding out!I couldnt even wait til 20 weeks let alone 40!

 

[holli]

Kaypee if you tell them at 20 week scan you don't want to know sex they just let you see top half of baby at the scan then tell you to look away as they check everything is fine on babies bottom half - well they did that for my cousin but every scan they had the staff would call baby he/she as they said they didn't like saying it xx

 

[claire_louise9]

My 20 week scan they didn't even say anything about gender, she was miserable cow anyway lol . Tbh I didn't know what I was looking at lol and the other scans I had to have just only said "baby"

 

[holli]

Sooo tired... lanes at work doing extra so I thought I'd Hoover and dust all house and put all decorations up whilst listening to Christmas songs will probably get told off by lane for carrying it all down and climbing on a table to reach top of tree but I'm such a big Christmas lover and it's a fab feeling knowing this is our last Christmas as us two and next Christmas we will have a 7 month old with us... any of you put your tree up yet? Think I'm guna get a hot chocolate and watch a Christmas movie xx

 

[claire_louise9]

I'm hoping to put ours up this afternoon , but have to wait for my oh to come home to go on the loft and get the tree and decorations out. Me and Emily have our christmas jumpers on and we have just made some christmas cards . This year she is so into christmas she keeps saying she's excited for Christmas. I love it !

 

[holli]

Aww it makes it so magical when children are at that age to enjoy it and have the Christmas spirit belief, we have non uniform day at work on 14th so I'm looking at snow men or Santa t shirts for pregnant women as I will be far too hot to wear my Christmas jumper as heating is on all the time xxx

 

[claire_louise9]

I'm hoping I will be able to fit in my christmas jumpers at christmas still . I've got a chritsmas pudding one I think I will wear on Christmas day I think it will be very fitting as my tummy looks like a christmas pudding atm lol
You could always look on ebay for mens christmas tshirts holli instead of paying loads for maternity stuff as it will only be used this year .

 

[holli]

That's a good idea thankyou will have a look now xxx

 

[Sparrow]

Sooo tired... lanes at work doing extra so I thought I'd Hoover and dust all house and put all decorations up whilst listening to Christmas songs will probably get told off by lane for carrying it all down and climbing on a table to reach top of tree but I'm such a big Christmas lover and it's a fab feeling knowing this is our last Christmas as us two and next Christmas we will have a 7 month old with us... any of you put your tree up yet? Think I'm guna get a hot chocolate and watch a Christmas movie xx

This was me last weekend, I cleaned the whole house and then put the decorations up, OH was not too pleased I went in to the loft without him but I just couldn’t wait. It’s so weird to think Hay next Xmas we’ll have a 7 month old baby!

 

[holli]

Iam getting sooo big now my ass is growing too! The father in law calls me a harpoon the swine I seem to grow every day (that's probably stupid thing to say course that's guna happen) xxx

 

[holli]

Urghh my landlord just been round he's creepy as it is and tried it on before but today he's been talking about dogging and spit roasting and asked me to show him my camel toe I was like errr no I'm pregnant and I'm best friends with your wife he even said when he's sleeping with her he's trying to imagine me luckily I was sick infront of him so it shut him up and he soon went... he's 51 my best friend is 50 we was work partners when I worked on end of life team for 3 years and we just bounced of each other and been good friends ever since - she even mothers me! He's coming back tomorrow but he will get a shock as I didn't tell him I'd be at work and lane is off as having new sofas delivered bet he doesn't hover then xx

 

[GBLiz]

thats really sick. Does your friend know he does this?

 

[holli]

No ive not told any one not even lane. I darent. Lane would kill him and I can't stand the thought of him going to jail I haven't told my friend cos it will be my word over his and I have no proof they are also our landlords so I don't want us to be homeless and I don't want to split their family up as they have just had a grandson in September, I was hoping he wouldn't say anything knowing I'm pregnant and can see my belly but he was like pregnant women are mega horny I was like this one ain't love! He really creeps me out.. we was on about looking at getting another house before Willow is here so I might try and push it abit more with lane xxx

 

[claire_louise9]

Eww that's gross, I really would tell Lane and maybe look for somewhere else to live . You need to think about yourself and your saftey , you really dont want him turning up when little Willow is here especially when you are home alone.

 

[GBLiz]

i would have to tell the friend because i couldnt live with knowing how disloyal a friends partner is, she should know what he is doing behind her back.

 

[holli]

I don't think she would believe me she's always bigging him up and loves him loads. They've always reminded me of teenagers when I've been with them they are touchy feely kissing a lot and when we worked together they always sent soppy texts, they've been married 30 years so I think she would take his word over mine xx

 

[claire_louise9]

I would just think about yourself and your family . Sod your friend if she won't believe you . You don't need that creep around you . I bet he feels like he has the upper hand as he's your landlord . I would tell Lane and look for somewhere else to live .