****July 2018 Mummies - Tri 2****

[JemRose]

My sister didn't say much tbh about why they've sent her home. Just a wait and see job it sounds like.

Weighed myself today and wish I never did. I've worked so so hard to not put on weight but clearly I'm cursed and it doesn't matter what I do. Fuck it all, worst mood ever

 

[sarah1986]

Sorry if it's TMI but does anyone know any safe cream during pregnancy to treat Hemorrhoids? ����

 

[KHTW]

Thanks ladies. BUT i feel like the worst mother on the planet!!!! It turnes out DD has a bladder infection and was just sorted with medication How could I not notice earlier?!?!?!? Shitty shit shit shit week!!!

Shan I really hope you don't have that and your blood pressure and urine show improvement x

Sarah there is a few cremes you could use. I have had this problem since DD and don't see it going away anytime soon x

 

[sarah1986]

Thanks ladies. BUT i feel like the worst mother on the planet!!!! It turnes out DD has a bladder infection and was just sorted with medication How could I not notice earlier?!?!?!? Shitty shit shit shit week!!!

Shan I really hope you don't have that and your blood pressure and urine show improvement x

Sarah there is a few cremes you could use. I have had this problem since DD and don't see it going away anytime soon x

I may pop the pharmacy tomorrow then, it's really painful tonight! Hot bath in order I think xx

 

[Shepherdess]

I've suffered with a hemorrhoid since having DD to. I'm naughty though I tried treating it but gave up since it wasn't bothering me too much. It is now though and I wish I'd tried harder. You may have motivated me to buy some cream

Don't be too hard on yourself KHTW I'd say it would be much hard to pin point a bladder infection when you're not at home in your normal routine

Shanivy I really hope it's not pre-eclampsia. I've mentioned before when pregnant last time I started measuring small from 30 weeks, I measured 3 weeks behind but I declined a scan and had a healthy 8lb 2oz baby. You've been so poorly and not put much weight on, that's the likely reason

I've had a lovely day with DD today, really hoping for a good sleep tonight

 

[PeanutButter]

Sarah, put salt in your bath with help i had it really bad after birth, bath helped soo much x

 

[Shanivy]

Sorry if it's TMI but does anyone know any safe cream during pregnancy to treat Hemorrhoids? ����

I think germaloids is okay? The chemist will advise you though or just phone your community midwife number and they'll give you a name of one. I got one after birth but it was a random hospital one couldn't even tell you which. I know this is super gross but if you have any Vaseline or anything like that they told me you can *gently* try to push it/them back in to help ease the pain. You're definitely not alone I think I'm getting them again and I meant to ask them today but go to distracted :/ fucking pregnancy.

Gonna sort it though before they start again because the only thing worse than getting piles is having to put your legs in the stirrups for stitches knowing you have them haha. What an image! Xx

 

[Shanivy]

Haha seems we have a piles club

KHTW you are definitely not a bad mum. These things happen. She's sorted now so don't even dare beat yourself up about not noticing. She's been acting up with a different routine in a different place being spoiled by family.. An infection is the last thing anyone would have thought xx

Shep thanks hun I do reckon the measuring behind will be my lack of appetite too. I'm making up for it now I swear to god lol. Glad you had a nice day, fx for a decent night think most of us need it! Xx

Jem don't beat yourself up too much hun. No matter what we put in there's plenty of time to lose it when baby comes. I know that's not exactly helpful but there's not much we can do now. You're eating for your son what else can you do? Xx

I'm actually thinking I may have a urine or kidney infection now. Which would explain the protein. It's funny how when she's asked me I was like nope. But now I've actually took notice of how often I've been peeing today it's possible it's not just normal pregnancy stuff. So I'm not as stressed as I was earlier about it all. The bp by itself without the protein won't be so bad

 

[sarah1986]

Thanks for the advise.

I had a nice bath and I read sudocrem can help as that was the only thing we had in I put some of that on it seems a little less painful today but think I may still pop to the pharmacy later.

Haha Shan thanks for the info I did try this with the Vaseline so will see what happens. Xx

 

[Shepherdess]

Sarah it's definitely worth popping to the pharmacy as it'll probably get worse the further on you get

Jem I hope you're in a better mood this morning, try not to focus on your weight, everyone has down but it's not forever

I've had a brilliant sleep! Yay! Although these light mornings are making DD wake up earlier, 6am today! I'm off to by a gro blind today haha

Can anyone here cross stitch? I remember doing it in middle school, aldi had some nice Peter rabbit baby name ones so I picked one up but now looking at it I can't remember how to do it haha I guess I'll have to get on YouTube

Oh and I tried to start a tri3 thread yesterday but it wouldn't copy and paste right, sorry technology in our house is just so far behind

 

[Shanivy]

Ahh fuck sake. Worst case of baby brain happened to me yesterday I'm so mad at myself. I booked the WRONG holiday for next year!!. literally booked up a holiday and realised it wasn't even one we looked at, wasn't even the right place or anything similar ?! Have to try and sort it now I could cry ffs. I'm an idiot!

Sarah haha glad I helped! And good luck at the chemist. Agree with Shep it definitely gets worse so best to sort it now xx

Lol Shep 6am start for us too. DD insists it's time to get up since it's sunny lol. I'm dreading it in a few weeks when I have to try and convince her to go to sleep for nursery when it's still light. At the minute here it's dark by 7 so she's fine xx

 

[Shanivy]

Oh as for tri 3 thread just start it new and have everyone give you their dates again. There's a lot of ladies who I don't think are in the thread anymore anyway hun xx

 

[LuckyLaura]

Laura your mum is a piece of work. I really don't know how you lasted under the same roof for this long. Keep going back to the council. Do you have a friend you could crash with for a while? X

Shep I would forget tax returns and just get some rest on the sofa. Hope DD lets you sleep tonight x

GG i hope you and Dan will cope ok today, sad sad day. Sending hugs x

I think 37 weeks gives you plenty of time off. This time I am taking a month off before due date. I just feel I need more time with DD1 before DD2 comes x

Speaking of DD1... she has been a total nightmare and been acting like a spoilt brat. I don't recognise my own child. I have never shouted at her so much EVER!!! But I just can't handle her behaviour anymore. Even her granny stopped interfierning. A bit too late i think. 3 more days and we will be en-route home.. to our routine. Can't wait... really!!! I am exhausted and this has honestly been the worst vacation ever! x

Nah I don't have friends hahahah

Sorry to hear your dd1 is acting up. I'd take it as a point to mention to the granny that she shouldn't interfere cuz this is what happens if you don't do it your way. Make it seem like the confusion of mixed messages from grandma caused it haha xz

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[LuckyLaura]

Khtw, do you think shes being worse because baby on the way? Getting your attention now. My little sister (6) is an absolute nightmare when we go round with baby and alyways smacking my stomach now. (i kno it isnt the same as shes my sister and nlt my kid but never kno).
Laura, you can get help with debt. Google it theres loads of advise.
Feel totally drained today, not wanting to do anything lol x

Thanks but we don't really need help with it as such... Like it's organised and being paid off but just slowly lol xx

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[LuckyLaura]

I just caught up. Khtw sorry about your dds infection but at least now you can get it sorted. It's not surprising with everything going on you missed that so don't worry and I'm sure your dd just needs her wee routine back.

Jem I hope you're feeling better. Don't be too hard on yourself cuz you're trying and that's all that you can ask for. Xx

Shan I really hope your results come back and it's not pre-eclampsia I don't know much about it but I do know it's not good. Also we've been told by 3 people that our baby is measuring small, it's a terrible worry isn't it? But we are just rolling with it she will be the size she is and other than continuing to cook her and eating well there's nothing we can do!

Sorry if I missed anything out. I woke up like death again today. Missing a uni tutorial cuz I'm just not up to it and have to go meet my friend at the mortgage shop about options so feeling a little nervous xx

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[PeanutButter]

Ugh in a massive mood today because i have no clothes that fit me and fed up of looking like a tramp all the time. Hubby is now pissed off because im pissed off. My hormones dont give me an excuse tp be a dick... :/
Sarah glad its abit better.
Jem i havent even weighed myself , last time i did i put on a stons that was weeks ago. Will have a break down. Just remembwr youll drop loads once baby, placenta, extra water and extra blood comes out x

 

[Shanivy]

Your hormones do give you an excuse! I'd like to see men deal with the hormones and see how happy and full of sunshine they are. I'm with you on the clothes though. Officially have no choice but maternity now and I'm dreading our weekend away in 2 weeks. My weight hasn't changed much but it must be going on in weird places because nothing looks right or good on me now. And I have this weird fat roll all of a sudden under my boobs/above my bump. Where that's came from I don't fucking know. .

Treat youself to a new maternity wardrobe and tell OH to suck it up! xx

 

[_GG_]

Totally understanding the clothes thing. We're off to a wedding reception in Manchester later and I have no idea if the dresses I have in mind will actually fit or not and of course, being my useless non-girly self, I haven't bothered getting them out and trying them on in advance to give myself time to shop if they're no good!

Things have really changed here with baby. I lay on the sofa last night when I got home and the fire was on so it was really warm. Trousers got discarded and I ended up reclined back, belly exposed and baby started moving....and I saw it. I was so excited. Dan started looking as well and blew a raspberry on my belly at the baby...started again. Been like it ever since. I can clearly see my belly move when baby does now and I have no idea why, but I thought I'd have to wait a lot longer for this. It's wonderful. Weird, but wonderful.

 

[Shanivy]

GG aw adorable. I love seeing baby move. I don't think you ever get used to it to be honest, even in subsequent pregnancies. DD thinks it's fascinating lol. Midwife tried to get her position yesterday but couldn't tell because she was moving so much, even saw a kick. Honestly I think I was later with dds anterior so it's so great your seeing baby already, then again she was such a lazy baby in comparison. But it just may not make a slight bit of difference to your pregnancy now. Good luck with the wedding, you're crazy not to have tried the dresses on haha ! xx

 

[_GG_]

GG aw adorable. I love seeing baby move. I don't think you ever get used to it to be honest, even in subsequent pregnancies. DD thinks it's fascinating lol. Midwife tried to get her position yesterday but couldn't tell because she was moving so much, even saw a kick. Honestly I think I was later with dds anterior so it's so great your seeing baby already, then again she was such a lazy baby in comparison. But it just may not make a slight bit of difference to your pregnancy now. Good luck with the wedding, you're crazy not to have tried the dresses on haha ! xx

I know. I'm a bit of a twat to be fair, lol.