****July 2018 Mummies - Tri 2****

[JaneyJan]

Oooo I've never liked cheese ewwww. Aha. I just miss kebabs with chilli sauce nom nom.

Picked my new pram up yesterday, it can be used as a single aswell so gave it a good clean up and anti bacterialed it, and took dd shopping in it OMG it's amazing never new how shit my other pram was I love it aha.
Went and bought so much more boy stuff I think were done. Just need car seat base isofix thing and were done.

Also is anyone experiencing vaginal ache after sex? OMG I get so sore I can't even stand up for the whole day without being in pain. IDK know why

Aw fab you got your pram! Can't wait to get mine. I can't believe you're done already ...I'm not jealous at all lol

What is sex again? It's been the longest we've ever went haha. I'm finally feeling up to it now what with everyone being ill and decorating and bleeding, etc. You've maybe just irritated yourself? Or a little rough? I'll let you know maybe this week lmao xx

Oh love, tell me all about it. Haven't even tried for two weeks. Last time I was in so much pain I was pouring cold water on myself in the bathroom for a good fifteen minutes and it was anything but rough. It's generally been more painful for me since I got pregnant. Think I'm tighter down there and more sensitive.

PB tell me if you find a fix!

 

[JaneyJan]

My exploding bump! 15w 4d

 

[KHTW]

Wow Jan that's a nice bump for 16 weeks x

 

[Shanivy]

Oooo I've never liked cheese ewwww. Aha. I just miss kebabs with chilli sauce nom nom.

Picked my new pram up yesterday, it can be used as a single aswell so gave it a good clean up and anti bacterialed it, and took dd shopping in it OMG it's amazing never new how shit my other pram was I love it aha.
Went and bought so much more boy stuff I think were done. Just need car seat base isofix thing and were done.

Also is anyone experiencing vaginal ache after sex? OMG I get so sore I can't even stand up for the whole day without being in pain. IDK know why

Aw fab you got your pram! Can't wait to get mine. I can't believe you're done already ...I'm not jealous at all lol

What is sex again? It's been the longest we've ever went haha. I'm finally feeling up to it now what with everyone being ill and decorating and bleeding, etc. You've maybe just irritated yourself? Or a little rough? I'll let you know maybe this week lmao xx

haha Shanivy you do make me laugh; I swear We'd get on great in real life

I haven't had pain after sex as such but I've noticed that I'm generally more swollen down there. If I bend a certain way and my tight jeans rub it hurts a tad. I have a pair of baggy pj bottoms that seems to ride up wrong and I notice it to

I reckon we would too Shep lol

I get what you mean, I'm swollen too a little. Not as horrific as I was 9 months with dd. Yet.

Funny enough OH just asked me when we can have sex haha. He's clearly over the scare the bleeding gave us and wants back to business. He's literally loaded with the cold -sorry man flu- at the minute. I was like umm maybe in the week when you don't look and sound like you're dying? He was like I'll go behind you- like for fuck sake would a little romance kill him?! I do miss my libido though, this baby might have killed it lol xx

 

[malagueta]

Mmm brie. I'm really missing pâté though. I love pâté on crackers as its such an easy snack. I keep saying to hubby that when this baby is out I'm having a medium-rare steak covered in pâté, sushi and all the other things I can't eat atm haha.

I have no desire to have sex lately either. I thought pregnancy was meant to see your sex drive increase as well! Shows how much I knew before all this.

Cute bump JaneyJan!

 

[Shanivy]

Oooo I've never liked cheese ewwww. Aha. I just miss kebabs with chilli sauce nom nom.

Picked my new pram up yesterday, it can be used as a single aswell so gave it a good clean up and anti bacterialed it, and took dd shopping in it OMG it's amazing never new how shit my other pram was I love it aha.
Went and bought so much more boy stuff I think were done. Just need car seat base isofix thing and were done.

Also is anyone experiencing vaginal ache after sex? OMG I get so sore I can't even stand up for the whole day without being in pain. IDK know why

Aw fab you got your pram! Can't wait to get mine. I can't believe you're done already ...I'm not jealous at all lol

What is sex again? It's been the longest we've ever went haha. I'm finally feeling up to it now what with everyone being ill and decorating and bleeding, etc. You've maybe just irritated yourself? Or a little rough? I'll let you know maybe this week lmao xx

Oh love, tell me all about it. Haven't even tried for two weeks. Last time I was in so much pain I was pouring cold water on myself in the bathroom for a good fifteen minutes and it was anything but rough. It's generally been more painful for me since I got pregnant. Think I'm tighter down there and more sensitive.

PB tell me if you find a fix!

Watch the pain during sex for thrush though JaneyJan, it can a bitch to get rid of in pregnancy

Beautiful bump btw xx

 

[Shanivy]

Actually hubby is quite funny. He keeps saying that now he is well outnumbered and apparently we need to get another male cat (we have 1 already). I find it hilarious

Lmao mine said this! What is it with men? We have a male cat too because he spread said he was outnumbered before. Compromised in getting a male dog eventually haha no more kids for me xx

We said we would stop at 2 for financial reasons but to be honest I am not saying a definite no. I am 32 this year so still have a little time lol. But most probably we will stop at 2. Hubby said that if we wanted 3rd one he already knows it would be a girl haha

Yeah we said the same for stopping at 2. Plus we only have 3 bedrooms and I'd not want to move again. Sounds so maternal haha. If money was no object I'd definitely have 3, maybe 4 lol xx

 

[Shepherdess]

lovely bump janeyjan! very prominent

my libido is quite high atm but I'm with whoever said man flu is off putting haha.

had a lovely moment before, DD was sitting on my lap for story time, baby was kicking my belly and I could basically feel it kicking DD but obviously she couldn't feel it yet. I've been smiling since thinking it shouldn't be long until she can feel it to

I've no desire to have more then two, I just want to adore the two I'll have and not be pregnant again haha. when DD was born people were asking me when I'd have another before my stitches were even healed. I can't wsit to respond this time "nope I'm done". I've been impressed with husband he's been very open even with his rowdy mates that'd he's getting the snip

 

[Mexico2014]

I could of wrote this myself shepherdess!! We are stopping at 2 and hubby is getting the snip! And the same people asking when he next ones popping out when you’ve only just had he first!! I can’t wait to drink alcohol and not feel worried you might be pregnant etc! Xx

 

[PeanutButter]

Me and hubby want 4. Well hubby wanted 3 but because of all the mcs etc he said we can have 4 now lol. 2 boys 2 girls would be perfect!

I don't have a fix Jan Mine is finally starting to ease off 12 hours later. Felt like someone had repeatedly kicked me in the vag and was so bruised. It always happenes after sex now. Told hubby no more now! He isn't very sympathetic tbh lol.

 

[JemRose]

Can I ask for some advice ladies?
I am so so ill again with this ear infection. It's really taken it out of me. Obviously I'm going to do my best tomorrow to go to work, but what do you think? I'm worried to ring in sick, but I have also got the doctor at work saying it is pregnant related... So technically I can't get into trouble?? I don't think I'll feel up to going, but I'm so worried about everything with that place

 

[Shanivy]

Don't go in if you feel you can't Jem! You can't be disciplined for a pregnancy related illness. Otherwise it's discrimination. Fuck them if you aren't able, you aren't able. Let them know when you phone it's from your ear infection that is due to pregnancy. Hope you feel better soon xx

 

[JemRose]

Thanks Shan. I just worry as I'm just about almost caught up from being off before and I just think they're gonna go mental x

 

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Thanks Shan. I just worry as I'm just about almost caught up from being off before and I just think they're gonna go mental x

If they go mental, you go mental back. You have an ear infection and your work requires you to wear a headphone! I think not!!

JaneyJan, what a lovely bump. Amazing.

No libido here. No time and too bloody tired. Lol

 

[JaneyJan]

Oooo I've never liked cheese ewwww. Aha. I just miss kebabs with chilli sauce nom nom.


PB tell me if you find a fix!

Watch the pain during sex for thrush though JaneyJan, it can a bitch to get rid of in pregnancy

Beautiful bump btw xx

Thanks Shan, have been successfully treated now for thrush, I hope it does one and never comes back. Ugh.

 

[JaneyJan]

Me and hubby want 4. Well hubby wanted 3 but because of all the mcs etc he said we can have 4 now lol. 2 boys 2 girls would be perfect!

I don't have a fix Jan Mine is finally starting to ease off 12 hours later. Felt like someone had repeatedly kicked me in the vag and was so bruised. It always happenes after sex now. Told hubby no more now! He isn't very sympathetic tbh lol.

Yup no one tells you how much your sex life will be affected by Pregnancy... I've been having that pain since I got pregnant... Gonna try again tonight since I've been to the doctor and had the all-clear. Fingers crossed cuz if it doesn't work, hubby is going to remain frustrated for the next five months. Hopefully it wears off during this second trimester? OH was counting on 2nd Tri to be his magic ticket.. Thinking my libido would just come back in leaps and bounds...

Jem - officially you cannot be disciplined or discriminated against for pregnancy-related sickness. Ring in sick, tell them your doctor has told you you have a pregnancy related infection, and put the phone down. If they try and get in a discussion with you about it, cut them off and say you'll be happy to discuss it more in person when you're fit to return but at the moment you are not well. They've been terrible with you!!

 

[JaneyJan]

Ps Jem I wouldn't even say it's an ear infection cuz their first reaction will be, how's that pregnancy related. Just say it's a confirmed infection, you're not well, DR says it is pregnancy related, end of conversation. Don't even let them go mental on you. Are you part of a union? Next sickness meeting, get someone to come in to support you.

 

[JemRose]

No I'm not part of a union. I've just spent like 10 mins hysterically crying over my ear hurting so bad... Ugh I just wish this wasn't happening
I really don't think I can go in tomorrow, they'll just have to deal with it!

 

[KHTW]

No I'm not part of a union. I've just spent like 10 mins hysterically crying over my ear hurting so bad... Ugh I just wish this wasn't happening
I really don't think I can go in tomorrow, they'll just have to deal with it!

Ear infection hurts like hell!!! Honestly, if you wake up this morning and you are in no state to go to work then DON'T GO!!!!

I am the worst for going in when not feeling well cause I don't like calling in sick but if I had an ear infection I would not set my foot in the office.

How are you feeling?? x

 

[KHTW]

Libido? What is that? Can somebody remind me lol! Just like when pregnant with DD I lost it completely.