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Yeah the whole telling you how to sleep sucks. I prefer right side and often wake up on my back. Tri 3 will be fun... not!

Glad you are better now x
 
Oh Shep that's not good!! Hope it passes soon x
 
Ladies I need opinions because I'm livid. I'll read through the posts in a sec. but I'd like your opinions before PB comes on with her gender scan details

So Dd was supposed to be picked up today by the inlaws. Mil never turned up because she was at her mums ...again. So my FIL came by himself and said they were going there too. I gave him money said ok pass through McDonald's drive through and grab her a happy meal on the way to her great grans. for now cause she was saying she was hungry. I said go through drive through since he was in his own but instead he took her in and ended up leaving her by herself when he went to the toilet.

She's four. And I'm fuming that she was on her own even for a minute. She's never on her own and she's the one told me about it because she said she didn't like being left by herself in the restaurant. Anything could have happened. Am I being over dramatic that he just left her sitting in a busy restaurant? ?
 
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GG that's sounds awful. Sounds like sciatica too with the fire feeling. It's the worst pains I've ever had, worse than labour so I hope they have a good plan for you xx

Laura 7th Feb noted! lol exciting and not far away at all xx

Shep that's rubbish hun don't you have ibs? I hope it passes honestly it it's not constipation it's the shits. I can never decide which is worse. Hope youre feeling better soon. That's fab about the baby kicks though, every cloud xx
 
Shanivy said:
Ladies I need opinions because I'm livid. I'll read through the posts in a sec. but I'd like your opinions before PB comes on with her gender scan details

So Dd was supposed to be picked up today by the inlaws. Mil never turned up because she was at her mums ...again. So my FIL came by himself and said they were going there too. I gave him money said ok pass through McDonald's drive through and grab her a happy meal on the way to her great grans. for now cause she was saying she was hungry. I said go through drive through since he was in his own but instead he took her in and ended up leaving her by herself when he went to the toilet.

She's four. And I'm fuming that she was on her own even for a minute. She's never on her own and she's the one told me about it because she said she didn't like being left by herself in the restaurant. Anything could have happened. Am I being over dramatic that he just left her sitting in a busy restaurant? ?
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I'd be beyond pissed if that happens with DD!!! 4, 5 or 6 year old! You don't leave a child ALONE full stop. Did you tell them off? X
 
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Shanivy said:
Ladies I need opinions because I'm livid. I'll read through the posts in a sec. but I'd like your opinions before PB comes on with her gender scan details

So Dd was supposed to be picked up today by the inlaws. Mil never turned up because she was at her mums ...again. So my FIL came by himself and said they were going there too. I gave him money said ok pass through McDonald's drive through and grab her a happy meal on the way to her great grans. for now cause she was saying she was hungry. I said go through drive through since he was in his own but instead he took her in and ended up leaving her by herself when he went to the toilet.

She's four. And I'm fuming that she was on her own even for a minute. She's never on her own and she's the one told me about it because she said she didn't like being left by herself in the restaurant. Anything could have happened. Am I being over dramatic that he just left her sitting in a busy restaurant? ?
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I'd be beyond pissed if that happens with DD!!! 4, 5 or 6 year old! You don't leave a child ALONE full stop. Did you tell them off? X
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Ive been calling the house so waiting until he's back home. I'm so fuming mad I can't even describe it xx
 
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Thanks shanivy, yes I have lbs but this is so much worse and the pains are so so different

any way... my god id be livid with your FIL. as well as all the big horrible things that could happen for a four year old even someone bumping into her or speaking to her would cause great alarm! not okay at all. that would be a ban on looking after her in my book. I'm really angry for you
 
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Yes Shan you are completely right!!! Did DD tell you about it? It must have been significant enough to her to mention it to you x
 
Thanks ladies. I spoke to him. I said we'll speak about it properly face to face.

Yes Jem it was her who brought it up or I wouldn't even know. She said she didn't like being left in McDonald's all by herself while grandad went to the toilet. I was like wtf? Xx

He said he asked the manager to keep an eye on her. I was like I don't give a fuck, anything could have happened. I didn't give her to the manager of fucking McDonald's I gave her to you. What if he'd been called away? Not to mention that's not good enough. Plus I never got any change so he obviously took her in so he could also get a McDonald's too. He obviously couldn't rock up to his mother in laws house with one for himself from the drive through too. I'm so mad. Oh went off his head about it. He'll never get her again thats it. I'd never trust him again. I'm going to have nightmare about it tonight I just know it. Ugh!
 
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I feel awful because I know I'd be the same I'd have nightmares and not be able to stop thinking about it
 
Shan I hate to say it but in any other case someone could have called the police if they saw a child left on their own and all sorts of services would be involved then!! Utterly irresponsible :( so sad for her and you, bless her xx
 
Shep I can't stop thinking about it. I literally went on and on until my head was just about exploding.

Hope that eases up. I've never had pains like I have pregnant when it comes to constipation or diarrhoea. Hopefully it's a passing phase xx
 
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Honestly Jem see the amount of children I've found in Asda etc and taken to their parents or security. It takes a second for them to disappear. Not to mention she was anxious and uncomfortable at the time being left. Stupid fucker I swear xx
 
I'll stop going on about it though cause I'm sure PB will be on soon telling us about her scan so I don't want to bring it down. God help my inlaws tomorrow when I see them though all I can say. My mum was ready to get on a plane over it lol xx
 
Us mother are great at creating what could have happened horror scenarios!!! I hope you can forget about it AS SOON AS you spoke face to face with fil... Honestly how old is he 15?! X
 
PB will you hurry please, my thumb is about to fall off from all that refresh page pressing :D
 
not to keep going on but I watched patriots day last week with husband and spent the evening crying because of the scene where the dad gets hurt and loses his little boy in the crowd. I was like "whatever situation you don't ever let go of her" to my poor husband. I make myself ill worrying
 
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