****July 2018 Mummies - Tri 2****

[PeanutButter]

Lasinoh best thing ever made for nips. Saved me when BF, helped them stop bleeding! Recommend getting a ton to anyone of planning on BF. Mine keep itching to.

 

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I've been feeling baby! Last night there was loads of fluttering going on. But baby is very very active... Every scan, every time I do Doppler it's zooming around ha dd was so lazy, never saw her move on a scan I went into Hosp 9/10 times cos of reduced movement, even now she's just chilled out aha. But I know how it feels cos I've only just had one! Lol x

I agree with shan, Dan sounds lovely! The best thing hubby said to me recently, if we didn't have such a young baby I reckon people would tell your pregnant, cos I think you look pregnant not just fat ahaa. Oh so romantic aha.

Pass the tissues PB that's the most romantic thing I've ever heard! Haha! I think mine is a lazy baby tbh.

Said to my oh the other day I look fat and instead of saying "no you're glowing, you look great, not fat at all, beautiful" he went well just pretend you're more pregnant than you are then. Cheers babe I feel so much better now haha xx

Hahaha, that would be a Dan response too, lol. He'd probably say to blame it on a food baby, lol.

Lol men! He honestly looked proud of himself liked he'd solved my issue too haha. His backtracking is always entertaining. Standing there with his shovel digging himself further.
No but you look great..like good pregnant.. I mean skinny..well not skinny obviously cause you're pregnant...but not *stutter stutter stutter* FORGET IT BABE IM NOT EVEN IN THE ROOM ANYMORE haha bless him xx

Hahaaa!

Two weeks after Dan moved in, I properly made him squirm. He'd been coming home from work every day with some form of chocolate. He'd hide his hands behind his back and ask me to pick left or right. If I picked one I didn't like, he's always swap.

Two weeks in, no sweets or chocolates, just told me to close my eyes. He presented me with a bright pink T-shirt with "GINORMOUS INNUM" written on the front. I have large boobs so thought it was very funny. We were still just new friends at this point. I opened it and saw that the label said "large". Never one to miss an opportunity, I went deadly stoney faced and said, UM....LARGE? FUCKING LARGE? WHAT ARE YOU TRYING TO SAY?"

Oh my god. I thought he was going to due. His face dropped, total panic all over it. He struggled to speak to SAY that he didn't think I was large, "You're not large, you're lovely, you're little...you just have big"....he couldn't even say boobs. He kind of just gestured boobs with his hands and carried on desperately trying to dig himself out of a hole.
I fucking cracked up laughing. We still laugh about it now, 10 years later. He saw me laugh and said, "Well, FUCK YOU then!" Haha. We laughed about that all night. He's still proud of me for it.

 

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Lasinoh best thing ever made for nips. Saved me when BF, helped them stop bleeding! Recommend getting a ton to anyone of planning on BF. Mine keep itching to.

Lots of itching here too but the worst is when they get cold. I literally sat on the sofa and cried in pain for an hour before Christmas!

 

[PeanutButter]

Oooo iknl the pain all to well. It's worse when your out. When I'm home I get changed straight into pjs and a dressing gown, heating on the hubby foes a fire when he's home. Always cold!
Dd woke up at 2am because of the cold again, forgot to put heating on timer usually on from 1am till 4 but obviously never came on so she had to come in bed with us. X

 

[Shanivy]

Lasinoh best thing ever made for nips. Saved me when BF, helped them stop bleeding! Recommend getting a ton to anyone of planning on BF. Mine keep itching to.

Second that! That stuff works miracles. Mine feel like someone is scratching them with sandpaper anytime anything brushes against them right now xx

 

[Shanivy]

I've been feeling baby! Last night there was loads of fluttering going on. But baby is very very active... Every scan, every time I do Doppler it's zooming around ha dd was so lazy, never saw her move on a scan I went into Hosp 9/10 times cos of reduced movement, even now she's just chilled out aha. But I know how it feels cos I've only just had one! Lol x

I agree with shan, Dan sounds lovely! The best thing hubby said to me recently, if we didn't have such a young baby I reckon people would tell your pregnant, cos I think you look pregnant not just fat ahaa. Oh so romantic aha.

Pass the tissues PB that's the most romantic thing I've ever heard! Haha! I think mine is a lazy baby tbh.

Said to my oh the other day I look fat and instead of saying "no you're glowing, you look great, not fat at all, beautiful" he went well just pretend you're more pregnant than you are then. Cheers babe I feel so much better now haha xx

Hahaha, that would be a Dan response too, lol. He'd probably say to blame it on a food baby, lol.

Lol men! He honestly looked proud of himself liked he'd solved my issue too haha. His backtracking is always entertaining. Standing there with his shovel digging himself further.
No but you look great..like good pregnant.. I mean skinny..well not skinny obviously cause you're pregnant...but not *stutter stutter stutter* FORGET IT BABE IM NOT EVEN IN THE ROOM ANYMORE haha bless him xx

Hahaaa!

Two weeks after Dan moved in, I properly made him squirm. He'd been coming home from work every day with some form of chocolate. He'd hide his hands behind his back and ask me to pick left or right. If I picked one I didn't like, he's always swap.

Two weeks in, no sweets or chocolates, just told me to close my eyes. He presented me with a bright pink T-shirt with "GINORMOUS INNUM" written on the front. I have large boobs so thought it was very funny. We were still just new friends at this point. I opened it and saw that the label said "large". Never one to miss an opportunity, I went deadly stoney faced and said, UM....LARGE? FUCKING LARGE? WHAT ARE YOU TRYING TO SAY?"

Oh my god. I thought he was going to due. His face dropped, total panic all over it. He struggled to speak to SAY that he didn't think I was large, "You're not large, you're lovely, you're little...you just have big"....he couldn't even say boobs. He kind of just gestured boobs with his hands and carried on desperately trying to dig himself out of a hole.
I fucking cracked up laughing. We still laugh about it now, 10 years later. He saw me laugh and said, "Well, FUCK YOU then!" Haha. We laughed about that all night. He's still proud of me for it.

Haha that's awful! In the trying to win you stage too hahaha! Xx

 

[Shepherdess]

I went through lots of lasinoh last time, great for babies cracked lips to. my SIL popped by yesterday and have me a box of breast pads she hadn't needed as she's formula feeding, she was like "I don't know if you'll need these but thought I'd offer before binning them" I burst out laughing "thank you so much, if you have another 20 boxes I'll take them to" breast pads and lasinoh, essentials!

my phone hadn't refreshed properly so I missed all the posts about your lovely oh's. Dan does sound super sweet, sounds like we're all lucky ladies. my husband isn't particularly romantic or sweet but he does take care of me in his own way and the little gestures I get from him mean loads. Good support is so important for us right now

 

[KHTW]

Yes your OH's sound like nice guys! It is nice having someone you can always count on x

 

[JemRose]

Rub it in guys haha

 

[KHTW]

Rub it in guys haha

You can always upgrade, remember!

 

[PeanutButter]

Jem, my sister is in a relationship like yours. Been trying to get her to leave him for over 10 years. She's miserable... She's not young anymore, he said he doesn't do the family thing, we've never met him she's never met his family.. It is abuse and shes scared of being alone so won't leave. He threatens to leave her all the time she breaks down at family parties cos he's texted her nasty stuff. He abandons her on xmas day. He looks at other woman and tells her she's ugly and shes not really a woman. But it started off like your relationship now it's escalated to her walking out at 1am getting mugged and beat to shit and he didn't even care said it was her fault for walking out.

 

[JemRose]

Jesus PB that's awful for her, bless her x

 

[Shanivy]

I'm going to lose my mind

Just had bright red bleeding a little clotty. They've told me wear a pad and lie down and if there's anymore to phone back to check checked out. I'm freaking out I can't calm down

 

[KHTW]

I'm going to lose my mind

Just had bright red bleeding a little clotty. They've told me wear a pad and lie down and if there's anymore to phone back to check checked out. I'm freaking out I can't calm down

Can you tell a white lie and get scanned now?? You want be able to calm down otherwise!

 

[PeanutButter]

OMG shan, have you had sex or anything else that could cause it??
I'd go to hospital, maybe they could get you in for a scan as your in the second trimester?? X

 

[Shanivy]

No nothing oh just came home from work as it started. Went for a pee wiped and there was blood. They said since it was on wiping I'm like what? I don't know what to do I didn't expect this at this stage. I can't stop crying

 

[KHTW]

I am so sorry hun! Maybe do lie down for a bit and if next time you pee there is still blood go straight to hospital? x

 

[Shanivy]

It's already stopped but I don't know. If I sort of feel up there's a few clots come out. Small but there . Sorry I know I shouldn't post this in 2nd tri. I don't know why I am I'm just panicking

 

[PeanutButter]

Go to the hospital. They will arrange a scan for the next few days maybe earlier as you this far along. X

 

[KHTW]

Don't be silly - post away, we are here for you! Do what feels right, if you don't think you can calm down - go to hospital x