***July 2016 trimester 2***

[lucylu87]

Do you have a feeling what you are having? I had a guy instinct with both and have been right each time....xx

 

[lucylu87]

Gut not guy

 

[Ttc1234]

I think a girl but my husband thinks a boy!xx

 

[Lou1103]

I feel a bit like that ttc! I've seen my midwife but always forget my questions.. When do they discuss your birth plan?
Good luck today xxx

 

[Elfs Mummy]

Had my re scan today and they didn't give me a picture. I had a consultant scan me so I was really nervous and panicky so didn't say anything :/ xx

 

[Unicorn]

Is everything ok Elfs Mummy? xx

 

[Purple]

Elf's Mummy I wasn't give a pic till I asked. I heard that you have to pay for them now, I was prepared to pay but she didn't ask me for payment . I am prepared to ask for a pic tomo

LucyLu87 I have a feeling that it's boy because I want a girl so badly lol. I have had dreams of a girl though and so have others . even dreams of my girl last night . well.. 1 more sleep till I find out.

 

[lucylu87]

Purple, what times your scan? Hope there isn't any snow near you so you can get there. Let us know when you have been. Fingers crossed for you xxx

 

[Charliebump3]

This snow is relentless lol hope your all safe.

Lou congratulations on your lil girl x yay another baby for team pink xx

 

[Purple]

oh my gosh it's snowing somewhere?? here in London it's sooo sunny! it's 8degrees.
my appointment is at 3:40 but they are always running late. yes will let you guys know

 

[lucylu87]

Yeah it's snowing up north!! Good luck and can't wait to find out X

 

[Purple]

good news is: 100% healthy baby
"bad" news is: He is a boy ... no mistaking!

need to get used to this news.

 

[lucylu87]

Aw congratulations purple. Healthy babies is all that matters boys are amazing. And all us ladies are all so lucky Xx

 

[RoisinC]

Congrats purple 😊
I understand how you feel I really wanted a girl this time and I did feel sad when I found out I'm having a boy. I feel bad even saying that now, and I know not everyone understands gender disappointment - it's not that I didn't want a boy, I just really really wanted a girl. It will get easier - I feel a lot better about it now that I've got used to the idea and I know as soon as I meet him his gender won't matter one tiny bit.
But don't be hard on yourself - we can't help how we feel and hormones etc etc don't help!! Delighted all is well with your little man and welcome to team blue xx

 

[lucylu87]

Love cooking tea only to not want to eat any more after a few mouthfuls!! Does any one else get this?? It happens every meal every day, hardly eating X

 

[Phoenix85]

Congrats purple 😊
- it's not that I didn't want a boy, I just really really wanted a girl. It will get easier - I feel a lot better about it now that I've got used to the idea and I know as soon as I meet him his gender won't matter one tiny bit.

That's exactly how I feel but opposite way.

When I had my 9 yr old I was desperate to have a boy and actually felt quite upset after the scan that she was a girl. Not because I didn't want a girl, I just really wanted a boy. But I got used to it and of course was totally besotted with her & we have a great relationship even 9 years on.


This time round I am happy either way, but I know if it's a girl I'll still have that desire to have a boy as well.

 

[Unicorn]

Ah, I feel really sad to read when people feel disappointed about the gender of the baby they are having I don't mean to critise or offend anyone in the slightest but the concept of rejection of a baby at any stage really breaks my heart. Maybe it's because of the struggle we have been through and being faced with the prospect of not being able to conceive at all, but I am absolutely delighted to be having a little boy, and would have been if we were having a little girl

I am also very disappointed to hear that people have snow I bloody love snow and we never flipping get any xx

 

[Ttc1234]

Well said unicorn. I was so surprised to read purples comment earlier. Xx

 

[Purple]

Congrats purple 😊
I understand how you feel I really wanted a girl this time and I did feel sad when I found out I'm having a boy. I feel bad even saying that now, and I know not everyone understands gender disappointment - it's not that I didn't want a boy, I just really really wanted a girl. It will get easier - I feel a lot better about it now that I've got used to the idea and I know as soon as I meet him his gender won't matter one tiny bit.
But don't be hard on yourself - we can't help how we feel and hormones etc etc don't help!! Delighted all is well with your little man and welcome to team blue xx

Thank you so much Roisin 💓 ; you didn't mind a boy but I actually didn't want a boy ... I love boys alot and I find that my son "bugs" me less than my daughter does but I love the bugging.. oh well.. you are right, I am very grateful and thankful and I know that you are right and we will love them so much the minute we see them. Atleast 1 have one girl already.

Thank you all for the congratulations! Now we need to think of a boy's name *sigh*

 

[Purple]

I get how offensive it may seem to others and I understand that all that matters is a healthy baby. I know that certain people out there would give an arm and leg for any baby at all. I guess you have to go through it to understand.

Sorry if I offended anyone... really didn't mean to.