*** march 2015 mummys to be ***

[Podpie]

I hope so haha.

I'm trying not to stress over it. Unfortunately the only stress I have at the moment is the in laws again. They planned to come for a week on Sunday and if baby hasn't come by then which is very possible I'm not looking forward to being induced while they're here.
OH spoke to his mum yesterday and said when baby arrives we want at least one day at home by ourselves to settle so we might suggest if I get an induction date that they delay their visit for a couple of days. Her reaction was very defensive and "Well we're coming on the 15th. It'll be fine." oh and they're bringing their dog which I'm not happy about, but my mum has said she'll have our dog for the week to stop them causing stress together. I just think she's being so stubborn and not considering how we'll be feeling at all. If I do need to be induced I want at least a day with my partner and my baby when we come home just to be alone. I don't care what she wants, and if she wants to carry on being inconsiderate I'll just have to be firmer.

 

[Cakey]

Oh Podpie, that's awful :/ do you think maybe your OH isn't being firm enough with her and you need to say something? My MIL thought she could come to the hospital when I was in labour and I quickly shut that idea down because there is no way I want her there, she panics at anything and I know she would make me panic. Are they staying with you or somewhere else? Xx

 

[Podpie]

OH tried his best bless him but she's very stubborn. I know that when push comes to shove and I tell him in no uncertain terms that if I'm being induced I do not want them all here he will be on my side and be more firm.
They're staying with us but I don't really have a choice about that...

Just keeping fingers crossed that baby comes and we don't have to go down that road!

 

[Cakey]

Oh dear sounds like you're just both going to have to put your foot down and be firm. I really don't understand why people feel they can intrude when a baby is born, I wouldn't dare just tell someone I was turning up, no matter how close we are.
Have you got a birth ball? I know that when I got mine I went from baby not being engaged to being 2/5ths engaged in a week and I'm sure that helped. Might help encourage your baby to get a wiggle on xx

 

[Podpie]

I think he's moved right down now, I'm just waiting for the next step!

For months now my OH and I have been convinced he's coming on the 11th lol don't know why. Just have a funny feeling about that date. My auntie agrees cos it's her birthday haha and one of my OH's colleagues said today she reckons it'll be the 11th. Will be exciting if it is

 

[Cakey]

Oooh exciting would be good if he came on the 11th now! I'm convinced mine is waiting for the 30th March which is my dad's birthday.
I'm going to go buy some pineapple though, if he came earlier I wouldn't complain

 

[TTC no2]

Ooh podpie.. she isnt taken ur or her sons feelings on board at all.. I would never do that to anyone. Nor would our ones impose themselves on us like that. So annoying I bet.. and taken her feckn dog aswel. . No no.. that do my head in.. these first days are bout uz gettng to knw ur new baby. Pity she wouldnt see some sense and come and stay when uz have settled abit

 

[Niknaknoo]

So had an assessment at the hospital today, midwife asked if I had been having pains,I said no to which he was very surprised as I am 4 cm dilated!!!! He also said it could stay that way for another week... But had sweep done and hoping that things get a move on now. It nothing happens I have induction appointment at 11.40 Friday 13th....Really not impressed about the day/date!!

 

[Podpie]

Wow how exciting!! With being that far dilated already I'm sure the sweep will get things going!!

At this point I'd be glad to have an induction date so at least I'd know for sure I'd have a baby at some point. All I've had today is some mild period like aches and back ache.

 

[TTC no2]

Ooh brill niknaknoo... my sweep worked for me last pg lets hope he does for u too especially as ur already 4cms..

 

[TTC no2]

Wonder how rachy is...

 

[Niknaknoo]

Hopefully Rachel is too busy having cuddles to think about us!
Podpie we are in the final stretch, it has to happen soon!! Won't be long before you get a date too or hopefully go naturally! X

 

[i.love]

Exciting stuff ladies!!

I spent the day in the bed feeling rubbish. So luck that my parents are helping with my older lo...

 

[tiggy85]

Woo that's good nicknaknoo.., I'm sure it'll just kick off soon.

What's up iLove? Hope you have had some rest. I've had a lovely day and walked to town and went for cake and coffee this morning with MIL and my little boy. Although now this afternoon ive been feeling shivery and nauseous. Haven't eaten since this morning and really don't fancy anything! Not sure if I'm coming down with something. I also feel like going to bed and that I could just go straight to sleep!

 

[Podpie]

Hope you feel better soon i.love never nice feeling chappy let alone at this stage either!

OH and I went telly shopping after work and I've talked him into taking me to pizza hut for tea hehe! Luckily I have the fact he wants to watch the footy later on my side to barter with

 

[Demaris]

Niknaknoo that sounds promising! I.love hope you feel better and not worse and get some rest despite OH being away.

I have had the crappiest hormonal day ever! Have felt totally overwhelmed by PMT like feelings, tearful, grumpy, stroppy and just generally like I got out of the wrong side of the bed. My poor husband came home from work asked me if I was ok and my answer was to break Down into floods of tears. Even chocolate isn't sorting me out today. Another day tomorrow as they say....

Early night and a soppy book I think! Xx

 

[i.love]

Thanks ladies! I feel for all of you who didn't have the best day - hope tomorrow is better for us all!

Tiggy I have a bad cold with horrible sore throat. Have no voice either. Not fun

 

[tiggy85]

Awww poor you iLove. Hope you have a good night sleep tonight and feel better in the morning.

IM still feeling really sicky and had (normal) bowel toilet trips-three times in the last two hours....I normally go every other day sometimes just once every day! Hormones I don't know!

 

[rachelb]

So my best friend has just had her baby....4 weeks early. Healthy little boy. So why am I crying my eyes out?! Im obvs happy for them...but cant help think it should have been me first....

 

[Nonabean]

I hate when people skip the queue Rachel! It's totally natural to feel upset and frustrated. My cousin has 2 kids under 2 and didn't make it to her due date with either of them xx