Let us know how you get on baby maker. I also have a scan again but next week.
Can I please have some advice on this:
We told hubby's family about my induction date should I turn up and my sweeps. They said let us know when she is on her way so they can come down. Now they live 2 hrs away and if I have induction It can take 5 days or end in a section. Also the risk of assisted delivery goes up. Now this is first and I feel like I don't want people there if I have a really tough time.. my family are 1 min away from hospital so if they came they would leave again if I asked even after say 30 mins as there so close. His family will obviously want to stay longer, the day probably. Which I understand as it's a long way to come. I just feel it means I have to entertain or even talk to them when all I may want to do is sleep or I might be in pain. I feel I'm being selfish but I feel it's my right to say who comes and goes.y hubby says if my parents see baby then his family should be able to. I agreed but tried explaining that my family will leave pretty fast as it won't bother them only coming for a short time. I can't ask someone who travelled 2hrs to leave after 30 mins. So now we are having words lol and I feel his not taking my well being into consideration. Also if induction takes 5 days I might just want to get home and if they come the first day we are back I feel we have no time as a family. I'd also like to have a shower here and chill out a bit. Am I being in unreasonable in saying I don't want people to come straight away especially his family. It's purely as they will stay so much longer and I want peace not lots of noise and all that.
As I say this is our 1st so maybe I'm wrong in how I will feel after that's why I'm asking for your opinions. This is slowly turning Into a row.x
Let us know how you get on baby maker. I also have a scan again but next week.
Can I please have some advice on this:
We told hubby's family about my induction date should I turn up and my sweeps. They said let us know when she is on her way so they can come down. Now they live 2 hrs away and if I have induction It can take 5 days or end in a section. Also the risk of assisted delivery goes up. Now this is first and I feel like I don't want people there if I have a really tough time.. my family are 1 min away from hospital so if they came they would leave again if I asked even after say 30 mins as there so close. His family will obviously want to stay longer, the day probably. Which I understand as it's a long way to come. I just feel it means I have to entertain or even talk to them when all I may want to do is sleep or I might be in pain. I feel I'm being selfish but I feel it's my right to say who comes and goes.y hubby says if my parents see baby then his family should be able to. I agreed but tried explaining that my family will leave pretty fast as it won't bother them only coming for a short time. I can't ask someone who travelled 2hrs to leave after 30 mins. So now we are having words lol and I feel his not taking my well being into consideration. Also if induction takes 5 days I might just want to get home and if they come the first day we are back I feel we have no time as a family. I'd also like to have a shower here and chill out a bit. Am I being in unreasonable in saying I don't want people to come straight away especially his family. It's purely as they will stay so much longer and I want peace not lots of noise and all that.
As I say this is our 1st so maybe I'm wrong in how I will feel after that's why I'm asking for your opinions. This is slowly turning Into a row.x
Just popping in to say good luck to all you June mummies, and also congratulations on the babies who have already come into the world!
I was one of the unfortunate people who had a miscarriage (June 9th was my due date), I am however 22 weeks pregnant now, so I have a little september baby on the way, Im obviously very happy and feel very fortunate to have fallen pregnant again so quickly.
But I just wanted to say hello and wish you all the best of luck, looking forward to seeing all the baby pictures xxxx