*** June 2015 Mummies ***

[Pismo]

Lol Belfa, it does seem to become a chore. We have dtd maybe once a month since our BFP, I try and make sure he is taken care of in other ways but that is getting less and less too. Strangely I am the most attracted to OH than I ever have been and whilst in my head I will gladly do the nasty with him my body just won't tow the line.

I joke that he got me pregnant too efficiently - if he'd played his cards right he should have dragged it out a little longer

I need match sticks! Donations welcome! Did a night shift last night and DS is on easter holidays so no sleep for me until tonight. I probably look like a zombie. Have taken him to a soft play area so that I don't end up nodding off at home.

Welcome over in tri three nomad. Is that all of us now?

X

 

[buggy1]

DD is better thank you but not 100%

We dtd a good few times with our first. Doggy was the only thing that worked really. This time we're not allowed so takes the pressure off lol

 

[Bethyboo87]

Still not dtd, not since bfp in October haha! I'm not really opposed to it so much, we're just a bit scared after it triggering the bleeding for my m/c last time. Completely irrelevant really as baby had stopped growing 3 weeks previous, but not good memories. I said to oh last night, only two months until we can have sex (will be about 37 weeks then), he didn't sound that impressed lol. I hope I don't chicken out! Xx

 

[Lucyboo]

Welcome to Tri3 nomad.

We have dtd 3 times. It's not the same as normal and I tell him not to do his thing in me..lol we do it side on seems to work but he is scared to please me too much in case it affects bubba. Not long now. Just over 7 weeks and he can go for it too get bubba ready lol

Knackered today. Always sleep badly when due back in work
Was awake at 4 am. Got up at 5 am. Blah. The hour affected me yesterday big time x

 

[Nomad]

Think I left tri 2 at just the right time - it's all kicked off in there over the past few days!!

After my productive weekend I'm really tired today! Have only walked to the shop and back and that's me wiped out for the rest of the day! Wrote out my to do list last of everything I want to get done before baby is here...it's very long so don't fancy my chances of getting it all done!

 

[Nomad]

Oh and we haven't dtd since our bfp, it doesn't appeal to me in the slightest and oh doesn't seem to mind!

 

[buggy1]

*rushes to Tri 2 for a nosey*

 

[Lucyboo]

Oh I saw that post nomad. It's defo gone a bit crazy. Ppl need to be careful what they say though.

 

[Bethyboo87]

Oh, I saw it had kicked off over the weekend, didn't know it's kicked off again. Well I'm glad we all get on anyway! X

 

[buggy1]

Seems all a bit of a storm in a teacup to me! On one side you've got to expect people to give their opinions and say things you don't agree with and on the other side you've got to try and not offend people with your opinions. It is a difficult one, things can come over wrongly when it's just written, it's down to the reader isn't it?

Quite often I type things out, then think,.. hmm this may not be well received! .. So I delete

 

[Nomad]

Pregnot does have a habit of rubbing people up the wrong way. She was around when I was pregnant last time and she was the same then! I think some people take the "I'm entitled to my opinion" line a bit too far - if you know your opinion is likely to cause offence then surely you at least tone it down (or at least don't be surprised when people are offended!). Anyway..didn't mean to drag it over to tri 3!!

 

[buggy1]

Haha that's ok! Yes I was around at that time too so I remember her. I'm not very easily offended but I try to remember that everyone is different.

Had my whooping cough jab today, I've already got a nasty cough so bound to end up feeling worse!

 

[xxcharliexx]

Ooh just caught up on the drama! Just no need at all!

I'm just in the cinema sipping on a tango ice blast Mmm delicious! Been to matalan and got some amazing little boy outfits!! Check out these shoes!!

 

[Heres Hoping]

Yeahh the July mummies thread has started!! So excited to see it...means we move up the waiting list Scarey to see some of the April babies arriving in March, wonder how many of our june babies will come in May (but not too early I hope)

Im feeling bit better than I was thankfully, not feeling as stretched so hopefully baby has got in a better position. Have noticed im really out of breath now like most of the time, could barely talk on the phone yesterday cos of it. Would love to get a good lungful of air but no chance of that happening for the next few weeks. There has been some crazy movements over the past few days as well, even oh looked a bit freaked out by the shapes my bump was throwing!

Oh and my crib & bedding has arrived . Still in box, going to wait to lo is in bed before opening. Cant wait to have it all sitting pretty x

 

[buggy1]

Cute Charlie, I wish I could go to the cinema!

 

[Coletteypie]

Hi girls.

I read the offending thread too. I think telling a person with potentially mental health issues to pull themselves together and quit the drama is pretty out of hand. If the person is annoying you with their worries and concerns then don't read their posts! There always tends to be one or two folk who post new threads about something silly several times a week - and is their right to do so. Is such an anxiety ridden time for all of us, never mind if you already have issues!

I had the worst sleep ever last night. I literally couldn't sleep on left side - i kept getting palpitations. It was horrible. But my baby doesn't like my sleeping on right side, so kept kicking me all night - i was wide awake tossing and turning ahhhhh. Phoned midwife who was a bit useless and said maybe I am stressed!!! I was like ehhh why don't i get palpitations when I sit up or on my right side??! Its clearly the pressure from weight of baby on my ribs pushing into my heart when i lie on my left. I just wanted a health professional to confirm this grr! Tri 3 is turning into a bit of a monster for me

omg Charlie....those wee shoes!!!

yeah i know here's hoping - july mummies are arriving - - eeeeek! I actually would love to become a May mummy! I dunno how I will be coping at 40 weeks if this is me at 30-31 weeks!!!

 

[emmababy1]

I'd love to be a May mummy too though not too early. The other half is on a stag do in Germany in early May and I dread him not getting back in time!

 

[Lucyboo]

Love the shoes charlie. Very cute. I want to get the baby converse booties.

July mummies, wow... We have been bumped up the list...eek!!

You defo have to be careful how you approach people with mental health issues whatever it is. My brothers wife had some serious ones in her last pregnancy and could have really affected my niece...she was premature partly due to this and other complications. Anyway im saying no more in the subject as we don't want this carrying on it Tri3 as we have a lovely bunch..

I cant seem to lay on anything other that my left side now or almost upright on loads of pillows. I feel really uncomfortable on my right up until the last few days.. Almost like I'm being crushed. Hope you are ok collettypie.

Home now and knackered, but need to do some ironing as go away to see family over easter. Last break before bubba and about 6 more weeks at work x

 

[babyscotcher]

Going to have to have a look in tri 2 and be nosey now.

Feels like the post was ages ago but just thought i would coment on Belfa' post too. We have dtd all the way through probably twice a week. Getting harder to find the right positions but OH seems to find my new body even more sexy than normal and I am not against it all either. Think probably easier as we never had a break from it really. Think it is harder to get back in the swing when it has been a while as body changes so much in a short time.

I dont start my maternity leave until 29th May so hoping not to be a May mummy. Will be exciting when the first of us start having our LO's though. Can't wait to read the labour threads. X

 

[buggy1]

I go on leave 29th too babyscotcher! Work from home mostly anyway so may as well carry on til late, but I can always change the dates if baby makes an early appearance. I would mind having baby early as this pregnancy is rough! Anything after 37 weeks is fine by me!