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Good luck xx
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*** APRIL 2021 testing thread ***
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Lucie12344
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So I couldn’t wait to test.. I’ve gone longer than I normally do, usually testing every few days after I get my peak haha. I tested 1/2 days before AF was due and i got my BFP!! I can’t believe we’ve managed to conceive naturally! Hoping this little guy sticks around! Sending baby dust to you all xxxxx
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Congratulations xx
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Aww wow congratulations x
First BFP for April x
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Well AF has arrived in forced today 
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So this has been a difficult month for me. My OH has told me he doesn't want to TTC anymore. There is no way of changing his mind, I've tried but he's not budging.
I wish you all so much luck for those who are still to test this cycle and to those that are unfortunately going into the May thread.
Thank you for all your support over these past 5 months xx
.So this has been a difficult month for me. My OH has told me he doesn't want to TTC anymore. There is no way of changing his mind, I've tried but he's not budging.
I wish you all so much luck for those who are still to test this cycle and to those that are unfortunately going into the May thread.
Thank you for all your support over these past 5 months xx
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Thanks everyone, I’m shocked after 5 years trying to conceive our first baby this is soo surreal! Just hope he sticks around!
@flowerbomb I’m so sorry
what’s made him feel that way, TTC is so very stressful xxx
@flowerbomb I’m so sorry
what’s made him feel that way, TTC is so very stressful xxx
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Congratulations @Lucie12344 its great to see a BFP on the April thread!
I’m trying to wait until next Monday to start testing as my AF isn’t due until near end of the month.
aww @flowerbomb why has he decided that?? My hubby has said if it does t happen for us fairly soon he isn’t keen to keep trying due to age gap from our oldest and us getting older. I’m trying not to think of it as just makes me feels stressed about it happening!
I’m trying to wait until next Monday to start testing as my AF isn’t due until near end of the month.
aww @flowerbomb why has he decided that?? My hubby has said if it does t happen for us fairly soon he isn’t keen to keep trying due to age gap from our oldest and us getting older. I’m trying not to think of it as just makes me feels stressed about it happening!
Love a digi positive. So lovely to see it in writing! Congrats
Well AF has arrived in forced today
So this has been a difficult month for me. My OH has told me he doesn't want to TTC anymore. There is no way of changing his mind, I've tried but he's not budging.
I wish you all so much luck for those who are still to test this cycle and to those that are unfortunately going into the May thread.
Thank you for all your support over these past 5 months xx
I'm so sorry. It's really difficult isn't it. I'm really pushing it with my OH, he was all set to book in for a vasectomy but last minute I asked him not to because I don't feel done, but naively I thought I'd have fallen pregnant the first cycle because it's happened very quickly for us before. I think this needs to be the last cycle for us before the wedding but I know if we stop, I'll have a hard time convincing him to try again because there will be a huge age gap. I never realised how hard it would be to have opposing feelings to your partner on something like this.
I hope things change and he changes his mind about the decision. Lots of love and hugs to you
Awe I’m so sorry I wish you all the best xxxWell AF has arrived in forced today
So this has been a difficult month for me. My OH has told me he doesn't want to TTC anymore. There is no way of changing his mind, I've tried but he's not budging.
I wish you all so much luck for those who are still to test this cycle and to those that are unfortunately going into the May thread.
Thank you for all your support over these past 5 months xx
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He feels he's too old now (43). He wants to enjoy life with the 2 boys we've got. He said we'd need a bigger house and a bigger car....both of which is on the cards anyway, regardless of us having another child.
He just keeps saying he wants to enjoy life with the boys and be able to spoil them etc....
Theres no changing his mind. Even in my TWW he wouldn't have sex with me because we had no protection. X
He just keeps saying he wants to enjoy life with the boys and be able to spoil them etc....
Theres no changing his mind. Even in my TWW he wouldn't have sex with me because we had no protection. X
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My hubby is 43 and can’t wait. Maybe he just needs a break hun x
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Congratulations! Hope you have a sticky baby and a smooth 9 months!
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Congrats! Love seeing a digi positive! It's so much more satisfying I think.
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Im so sorry
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Sorry @flowerbomb I know how hard it is my hubby is saying the same thing and wants to wait after this cycle.
My youngest has some developmental delays and husband is thinking we should stop trying incase delays continue and my son needs more help. We are seeing a specialist next month, I’m not sure if he will want to keep trying after that or wait.
I was in tears all night but now I think I’m being selfish for wanting another child, who thing emotional rollercoaster x
My youngest has some developmental delays and husband is thinking we should stop trying incase delays continue and my son needs more help. We are seeing a specialist next month, I’m not sure if he will want to keep trying after that or wait.
I was in tears all night but now I think I’m being selfish for wanting another child, who thing emotional rollercoaster x
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Well, I tested this morning with FMU at 12DPO and got another BFN She was pretty white looking, so not even a squinter. Ugh, frustrating. I am trying not to focus on it anymore (since I know you can trick yourself into looking for symptoms) and just wait another two days when AF is suppose to arrive before I test again.
With my other two, I got clear BFPs by 11DPO so thinking I might be out this cycle. But we shall see.
Anyone else testing this week or showing any symptoms?
She was pretty white looking, so not even a squinter. Ugh, frustrating. I am trying not to focus on it anymore (since I know you can trick yourself into looking for symptoms) and just wait another two days when AF is suppose to arrive before I test again. With my other two, I got clear BFPs by 11DPO so thinking I might be out this cycle. But we shall see.
Anyone else testing this week or showing any symptoms?
