Hi ladies, just wanted to update you. Was at the docs tonight and discussed what happened, and she reckons it wasn't a chemical pregnancy but an actual miscarriage just down to the way it happened. Right enough it was different to the cps I had before. Don't know what it means to define it one way rather than the other, but she put a positive spin on it.
In a way it's a good thing she says because it means it's not happened due to recurrence, but just because of 'one of these things'. I was worried that she was going to say it might be a recurring thing, but she says she finds no medical reason to suggest it is likely to happen again, and in fact there's probably only around a 20% chance of it happening again. I like those odds, much better than the 60% chemical pregnancy odds.
This probably all sounds like gobbledigook I'm not really making much sense right now I don't think!!
She also referred me to a support group/counsellor thing, because I've not been handling it very well emotionally, and DH is really worried about me. I can't believe she was so helpful, she really validated my emotions and concerns about the whole thing far more than I expected.
Feel a lot better tonight, and hopefully going to feel a bit more positive about next month.
it's a horrible thing to happen and I'm glad ur gp was so good and understanding. Just tkie it easy on urself as its not an easy thing to go through. Xxx
