• May 2016 Mummies •

[kanga86]

Jojo, It doesn't sound like you will make it to your c section date! Hope it's not too bad.

Glad you feel good this morning Jenni, I feel better than yesterday but not energetic enough to worry about any jobs today. I might hoover and that's it lol well and look after 2 boys.

Emmam I hope the meeting goes well today and it is as straightforward as ticking a box and they don't overwhelm you. You have such a lot on your plate at the mo, do you have much family support?

I have my physio appt today for my sciatica and pgp although not sure how much they can do to help. Was tempted to ask to have a ctg done whilst at the hospital as baby had a slow day yesterday, just loads of hiccups but he seems to be back to normal this morning. Will see how I feel when at the hospital this afternoon xx

 

[Emmam1982]

Hopefully they can give u something to help Kanga.

I have my mum n dad n my sisters all local but my parents refuse to talk about anything regarding my relationship with Chris so I don't mention it. My sisters aren't too bad but my youngest sister tends to get on her high horse but basically she's lived in an emotionally abusive relationship for 10 years but her husband won't get help or even admit there's a problem so she just puts up with it so it does my head in. Already been in tears once this morning just at the thought of this meeting x

 

[babyslog]

Carli91 is doing well. She had waters broken this morning and contractions r picking up alot.

Shes getting checked at 10am. Another May baba on the way!

Sure ahe wont mind me updating you all. Obv let her annouce when hes here Xx

 

[Jojo84]

I was wondering how she was getting on.
Sounds like hers is going better than mine did

 

[kanga86]

That's a shame your family aren't willing to talk about it, sometimes that's all we need so that it doesn't end up all bottled up. Really hope it goes well.

Exciting for carli, can't believe we have May babies arriving. Can't wait for an update xx

 

[Emmam1982]

Well it was awful....Chris couldn't keep his mouth shut and had a full blown argument with the child services worker in front of my midwife, health visitor, representatives from the kids schools and family support. He ended up walking out-I felt like an idiot because we've addressed this issue so many times (him stopping over) but he has a bee in his bonnet about it and the new meds aren't helping his frame of mind.
Health visitor mentioned that she'll see me again on my 10 day postnatal visit then added-in about a fortnight looking st you.
Everyone else was lovely but all I needed was Chris upsetting child services over something that I really don't care too much about.

 

[Jojo84]

Sorry it didn't go better how long has he been on his new meds?

 

[Emmam1982]

Only since Friday so it's very early days and he's waiting for therapy etc aswell.
He just doesn't seem to be able to listen to authority-makes it very awkward and embarrassing for me, once he'd ranted and left the room I told the woman that I agreed with her and that I'd told him this already this week. Problem with authority is something that goes along with his bpd.
Makes me mad though because they've already said he's not a risk to the kids and that his parenting skills are good-it's just that he's a risk to me-I can see why he gets frustrated but it's just something we have to deal with.
I don't even want him staying at my house, I like having my own space and that 'me' time.

 

[Emmam1982]

Any updates on carli?

 

[Jojo84]

Forgot to b mention that I'm.now cooked,
My back is aching and cramping, my BH are mad and I hurt today.

 

[babyslog]

Any updates on carli?

Just msged her to come online when she has a few mins spare

 

[bobkat]

Sorry it didn't go well Em, as his meds settle hopefully he'll be better able to get through what must be a stressful situation for you both.

Congrats Jojo on being fully cooked! My bh have ramped up past couple of days too, baby is what I can only describe as currently burrowing its way lower, getting loads of pressure and electric shock type pains round the tops of my thighs and hips. So I've been into town today to finally get the last few bits for my bag, baby's is all done now too.

 

[Kitten1991]

Getting super jealous of all you ladies! Little madam just keeps switching from one transverse position to another -.-

Apparently she is a long baby... which is causing the rib pain to be so horrid!

Sending big hugs to everyone!

 

[Jojo84]

I've been sorting sons sock drawer out... He has 34 socks... THIRTY FOUR... That don't match. I don't know how this happened!

 

[Emmam1982]

I've been sorting sons sock drawer out... He has 34 socks... THIRTY FOUR... That don't match. I don't know how this happened!

My teenager wears them odd so I don't bother sorting his out anymore....I just dump a pile of odd socks in his room and let him pick which 2 he's wearing lol-life's too short for matching socks although littlies are always matching (unless I have a moment and they end up with different coloured toes) lol x

 

[babyslog]

Odd socks make me anxious ahahahaha!!
Even odd black aocks that r diff length i cant handle lmao!

 

[Eaw123]

Up in Bristol with Stanley. He's a little better than yesterday but still very poorly. I will get a picture for you all now he's looking more perky.x

 

[jenni16]

Glad to hear he's getting a little better already I love the name Stanley too how are you feeling? Xxx

 

[babyslog]

Aww hun! Eaw how are you feeling?? Ailly question really I know.. I hope ur ok.

Glad hes more alert and perky today! Xxxx

 

[Emmam1982]

Up in Bristol with Stanley. He's a little better than yesterday but still very poorly. I will get a picture for you all now he's looking more perky.x

Pleased he's looking a bit better-fingers crossed he improves quickly. He's in the best place. Hope you're managing to recover xx