i'm so sorry to hear about what your going through.
i'm sure your sister in law to be didn't mean to upset you with her message... but it was insensitive and i'm sure you don't need negativity around you right now.
Wishing you the very best of luck and i pray it's good news for you.
thanks a lot hayley means a lot and yeah i dont think she meant to upset me i just dont think she thought it out before writing it! spoke to my OH half hour ago on the fone he said "just ignore her they're all doom and gloom are my family" lol and he's right so least my lovely OH has made me feel better xx
Aw ignore her hun until u know for sure whats happening, Im sure she didnt want to upset u and its hard to know how to take what people say through texts! Dont worry about it, just take it easy and fx for u for tomo xx
Sounds like she is just trying to prepare you for the worst hon although in a slightly insensitive way. I'd guess from the tone of her message she would be mortified if she thought she'd upset you. x
yeah i dont think she was meaning to sounds nasty and god she would b mortified if she knew she had upset me, i just think its an insensitive thing to say when no one knows anything just yet etc! think i am just being silly and hormonal and peeved that things arent going as smoothly as i had expected and maybe with tomorrow looming it is beginning to hit home that i might not get good news, think i have just been putting on a brave face for too long! really hope i can pick up that phone tomorrow and say "ya know what everything is fine" but i just dont know which way this is going to go all i can do is hope and pray that its fine. thanks for ur input and well wishes everyone, its just what i need xxx
remember if its bad news, then at least it was early rather than in the later stages after you'd seen a fully developed baby. and you can always try again.
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