Well ladies he’s here
and finally came up with a name meet Oakley Albert Miller, born 04/09/20 at 9:22pm weighing 7lbs 13ozs! So he’s around 24 hours old. Latched on perfectly, I’ve been home since 10am this morning...but a little story for you....my birth was most defintley not straight forward at all.
Well long story short...was bought in to have waters broken at 7:30am yesterday....contracted for ages they were regular and I managed the whole 10 hours from 9am until 7pm...was about 7cms Apparently by 7pm, and all I had was the examinations, then the next midwife came on shift and the contractions were getting stronger...then about 8:30pm I was in agony...took the gas and air...realised i needed a wee...the flood gates opened and I literally flooded the floor took two midwives to wipe it up then about 9pm my contractions were that bad I asked Andrea the midwife to examine me cause I was really bad...so she did...then said the doctor needed to come in...so she came in and said apparently I’m only 5cm!! I was like whhhaaattt! Of course by this point I was high on the gas and air and was pissed off because I’d just spent the last 2 hours thinking I was 7-8cms and I was nearly there.
Then she said you’ve got to go for a c-section!!! At this point the only pain relief I had was gas and air nothing else, kind of wish I’d had pethidine or an epidural at this point. Then I told them not to rush and to get me ready slowly so I don’t feel like I forget the whole experience is going to go really badly, then just as we were ready to be wheeled to the hospital suddenly I had the urge to push!! So from 9pm to 9:15 I’d managed to get to 10cms from 5cms apparently! Wtf! The midwives were shocked at how quick it happened.
Then that was it! I just pushed him out as much as I could so could have a natural birth! And it bloody hurt!!! Like really bad! But the thought of having a section with the girls at home really wasn’t going to happen!!!
It was a total nightmare for the last few hours!! But so glad it’s all over and we’re home now!! And more so I managed it naturally with no pain relief, didn’t tear or have any lacerations it was just up, showered, get myself sorted and then got discharged this morning at 9am!! Was so happy to be home. I will catch up on everyone’s stories. Hope you’re all ok!!
xxx
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