Ladies doing IVF or IUI - 2015 (9 BFPs!)

[MariaIsabella]

Thanks. Yes but only "normal nurse" and they said to still take it 9 but still dont feel at ease. What if it gets delayed Monday, will i be ok if it would be 37,5 hours?

 

[Blueflower]

I think 38 hours would be ok. Why don't you post in the Long Term section and ask for others opinions as more people look in there?

 

[phonixgirl]

Hubby has decided he is going to a fancy dress party next Saturday. I hate fancy dress parties but it will only be three days after my scratch and around four days before IVF too (maybe even sooner as the scratch can make your period come early). Oh, and it's with his ex.

This has really upset me. I thought he'd be with me throughout this but she says "jump" and he says "how high?" I feel totally inadequate compared to her anyway but this has really, really shocked and upset me.

Am I being harsh like he makes out? X

 

[Blueflower]

I would be annoyed too. My DH always arranges for us to stay with his mum or have her here before ivf which is really stressful but he doesn't see it like that, he sees it as getting her out of the way before it starts. But for me it starts when I start the pill. They want to carry on as normal and don't want to miss out on anything. If it was him starting some treatment would you go? I bet he would ask you not to!
But don't feel inadequate about his ex cos its you he's with.

 

[phonixgirl]

Thank you so much xxx

I don't think he actually realises how much it is going to take out of me emotionally and how the drugs will probably make me feel physically ill. For me, it starts the day of the scratch as that's gearing my body up for it. And we are going to be spending money on the optional extras so can't really afford to go to a party that I absolutely do not want to go to anyway. I think he thinks, "ooo, party" and then has a very one-track mind. He doesn't think of the consequences or what other people may want and if we had kids then he wouldn't just be able to go out like that. In that respect, he is very immature and likes to think he's still 18.

But that's enough of my moaning. I can't stop him going. X

 

[Blueflower]

Does he know you are likely to feel ill? I was ok the day after the scratch but didn't fancy going out. We went out for drinks last night and I felt fine but a party (especially fancy dress!) would have been too much.
What about if you suggest to him that you both go but leave early if you feel ill?

 

[MelC2011]

Men! How inconsiderate. Sometimes they just don't think.
I've kinda hidden away this past week and not wanted to venture out with friends.
I'm thinking if you're up to it just got for a couple then leave early.

Good luck today Maria xx

 

[Blueflower]

Good luck Maria!
I think AF may have arrived early, expected Thursday or Friday. Could be just from the scratch, we'll see!

 

[Laura07]

That's such a man thing they just don't seem to be able to see it from the other side I'm sure they just don't think!!

How are you getting on niknak how many days past transfer are you?

Good luck today Maria your going to do great

I have my info session this afternoon so hope to get an idea of time frames, I'm going to see if they will do a scan to see if anything happening because the sooner I can have the nk cells test the sooner we can crack on I just hope this cycle doesn't take forever because I've only had clomid this mth and it doesn't work well with me xx

 

[Blueflower]

I think AF is here so I need to ring the nurses to arrange everything!
Can anyone tell me what the appointments are for a frozen transfer please? Is it just one scan then the transfer? We're having the embryo testing so there's that as well but should just be a phone call. Are the drugs just the progesterone? I have to take steroids from day 7 I think and then Clexane afterwards too. Might also need some Ovitrelle so they can time when to defrost the embryos!

 

[kkheartsbaby]

Hi Blueflower... I wrote out my fet cycle for Jade on the thread below x


http://www.pregnancyforum.co.uk/fertility-issues/478489-length-timescale-fet-cycle.html

 

[Blueflower]

Thanks that's really helpful, so just 2 scans then. I don't think I'm doing buserelin etc as I only had the embryos frozen 9 days ago & transfer will be in about 3 weeks but I will check with the nurse.

 

[MariaIsabella]

Thanks for the messages! In recovery now and total 12 eggs.. Is that good? My DH has improved morphology to 7 % so will be normal IVF. I hope they will survive!! So tired and in pain but happy its over 😊

 

[Loubalouba]

That's great Mariaisabella rest up and the best of luck!! Xx

 

[Loubalouba]

Blueflower will you be a natural FET then? It's countdown now your period is here I think the FET's are better than fresh cycle it was for us, ok it was a chemical but it implanted and I think my body was more recovered and in better state.

Have everything crossed for you! Xx

 

[Niknak82]

Hi there. I am doing ok thanks Laura. 7dp5dt at the moment. Just feeling very washed out each afternoon. I put that down to the pessaries and steroids.....

 

[Niknak82]

The tww is dragging though and don't be testing until sat when hubby is home. That's if my period doesn't arrive first!

 

[Niknak82]

Main different thing I've had over the last few days is the urgency in going to the toilet. I drink a lot anyway so used to regular toilet trips but can normally hold it in for a bit but now I'm noticing that I suddenly just have to go and can't hold it. Does that make sense?

 

[Niknak82]

Sorry, don't know why I can't post lots in one entry. Really trying hard to remain postive. I want this so much! Really hard to not to sympton spot isn't it! Sure everything is down to the pessaries and steroids though!

11 eggs is great Maria. Well done!

Hope everyone else is doing ok? xx

 

[phonixgirl]

Well done Maria, it sounds great to me!

Blueflower - it's all starting now. That came around quickly!

I had a tiny bit of spotting today... Reaaalllyyyy hoping they can still do the scratch. Hubby knows I will feel ill now as I told him everything. X