**** June & July 2013 Mummies and Babies ****

How's everyone getting on with sexytime?

We had one attempt at 3 & a half weeks pp for about 5 minutes, and nothing since as it really hurt! Its like its become "too tight" - I thought it was suppose to be the opposite! I'm thinking of trying again this weekend...

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at 4w 6d first time, loads n loads of foreplay does the trick without it's uncomfortable but we co-sleep no so it's a bit tough to find time for some action and this bloody mini pill makes me bleed randomly! -.-" And if you don't feel comfy don't do it, you don't have to rush into it ;)
 
I'm on the minipill too, it seems to be working well for me but I am ebf so that probably helps!

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I haven't even tried yet.. I was planning on doing so last weekend as it was oh's birthday, but he had a huge colesore so I didnt go there! Haha.

Sarahlouise I read that breastfeeding makes u dry down there so that could be why it hurt/feels tight so they advise using some lube. I'm quite nervous about it hurting, but more nervous about being 'wider' down there and oh thinking its rubbish ;-( this is baby number 2 for me xxx
 
Agree Claire! Don't worry about that tho espesh if you do your pelvic floors right! ;) I had to stop ebv cause nothing came out but watery milk he came every half n hour and couldnt eat well, its drivin me mad I want my yasmin back!
 
I'm scared things are not what they used to be ! How offen are you doing pelvic floors ? How many you ment to do .. I'm rubbish at them
 
I never do them :blush:

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I'm lucky if I remember to do one set aday ..they make me ermm feel funny down there lol
 
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Think me and hubby will be trying sexy time on Saturday. We are off out for a meal and drinks. Emily is having her first sleepover at Grans!

I thought with having a section sex will be no bother but as my friend kindly reminded me I have had forceps and other things up there so it may still be tender! We shall see! Lol x


 
Ooopsy i dnt do pelvic floor squuuueeezes either lol!
 
We dtd on day 19, think we have done it 3times since baby being born and my sex drive has disappeared for some reason. i had the implant in 2weeks again and have been on my period since, so that's not helped! :-/

How's everyone's babies sleeping now? My lg is doing really well! Bath at 8, followed by massage, bottle and bed by 9. Normally, (9/10) she will sleep till 5am!! Then will do another 2-3hrs after a bottle. Although this morning was AMAZING and she slept till 845!! :D xx




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I haven't been doing pelvic floors either :/ xx


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Harrison is still only going 2 hours between feeds in the day & 3 hours between feeds at night so sleep is still a bit of a distant memory...

I'm so jealous of the amount of sleep you get! Although on the rare occasion he has slept more than 3 hours I wake up with the most painful engorged boobs anyway so its not worth it haha!


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Josh's sleep is all over the place - some nights it's every 2 hrs, another night we might get a 5 hr stretch. Problem is if he goes to sleep to early I can't wake him for the dream feed and then he's up at 1am!

Sounds like you've for it sorted Bek! Are you breastfeeding?

I still can't get Josh to take a bottle, he managed 2 oz tonight and was not a happy boy :-/
 
My bleeding seems to be unstoppable or is coming thru now and really a period is coming and then I can get it over with am so fed up! with this tiny bits on and off!! If it doesn't change too much after this or these strips I've got left I might just go back with my yasmin sack it!
 
Noah is sleeping by 10pm last bottle about 9.30/10pm.
Then night feed about 2/3am but hell be up for a gd hour having bottle n bum change.. and then hes up about 6am and will bod bk off for an hour or so.. But the 6am feed he will NOT go bk in his crib so hes sleeping in my arms and im having to stay awake lol, on the odd occasion ive put him on bed and lay beside him but i cant even nod bk off myself!

So i get. Few hrs but everyday i feel 3433832 times worse and more tired!!! Xx
 
I stopped bleeding at some point in week 3..
Now its just normal discharge awaiting my period!

Im going bk on the pill at my 6 week check up next thursday xx
 
Does anyone know if I can get the coil put in at my 6 week check? I've got it on Friday and that would be ideal seeing as I'm already there!

Sleep... I fantasise about having lots of sleep but it's not happening. Max feeds at least every 2 hours during the day and every 3 hours at night, but each feed is at least an hour long so doesn't leave much time in between! I am soooo tired. He doesn't even sleep during the day so I don't understand how he isn't as shattered as me! He's really clingy as well so I can barely put him down without him crying. Got a baby gym today which entertained him for about 10 mins and it was heaven! Haha! Xxxx
 
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Girls.. I have a lil feel ' up there ' ... My cervix is still open id say 1-2cm!? And very low!! Like very low ! Lol..
Dnt think its possible to even attempt sex!

Im to scared! Plus i had my MMR jab last week and i cant NOT get pregnant for a month ftet it cos itll do damage to baby (dw im not looking to get preggy for another 2yrs lol) need to get my arse bk on the pill.

But yeh.. Anyone else had a rumage up there??? X
 
Sounds like you might be about to ovulate Dani so definitely make sure he wears a jacket if you decide to do it!

Gotta admit I had a little feel in the bath but no idea what I was looking for.. Was more feeling to make sure it wasnt still stretched to babies head size..*shudder*...
 

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