Chart Stalkers May 2008

[sookie]

Loola I PMed you back.

Thanks for the best wishes and babydust ladies. I really hope we caught the eggie too!

Tasha - looks like we'll be testing together. FXed for you.

ROM - how's the diet going? Good luck with the weekend.

Locachica - as Loola said it's not temps on their own that count but the pattern you see. Once you have charted for a few months you know what to expect from your own temps. I know that I haven't Oved unless my temp goes above 97.7. But everyone is different. The changes in cm and ov pain etc can be very subtle. And I never seem to get a +OPK. My ferning micro never works properly either It can be hard to detect ov for me. But now that I am on drugs - progyluton which is HRT (estradiol and progesterone) and clomid, things are much simpler for me. My cycles could vary between 39 and 55 days in the past.

 

[Locachica]

Sorry again girls- my head is wrecked today. Now I have lots of creamy CM and also Middle of womb pain (Sorry if TMI re CM)

I'm getting really upset here as I don't know what is going on

 

[rach]

hi all hope your all ok still keeping an eye on you all
xxxxxxxxxxx

 

[reallyoldmum]

Morning ladies - hope you are all keeping well.

Sookie cant wait to see your temps today after that lovely rise yesterday.

locashica it takes a while to see your pattern with charting but it is worth it in the end

Loola how are the wedding plans going? When are you expecting your dress to be delivered?

Welshpolly hope you are OK honey x x x

Well its day 5 of my diet and I have new sticks to pee on!!! They show if you are in Ketosis and I am!! It appears this is the key to the CD so thats good news - it also means you feel less hungry (although breaking the habit of wanting to actually eat something is harder!!!) I had the first night out with the girls last night - what a nightmare, my friend has split up with her boyfriend of 4 years so we all go around to support her - they are drinking wine and I'm on the water - anyway the children are all playing outside when they come back in all excited as two amberlances were in the drive - anyway to cut a long story short her neighbour had slit her wrists and my poor friend ended up in the bathroom with her trying to pursuade her to go to hospital. Her husband refused to go with her and he ended up sitting with us crying his eyes out - apparently she self harms and he can take it no longer........ What a night it was better than eastenders.....

Anyway catch up with you all soon and hope you have a lovely bank holiday weekend. x x xx

 

[Loola]

OMG ROM!!! That sounds like an incredibly stressful night Hope your friends neighbour is ok?
You must be a little psychic I reckon as I received my wedding dress yesterday It is really lovely and it does really suit me, the only problem is the bust is a little high. I havent been able to try it on properly as I cant do up the corseted back by myself, so it may be ok really, but from what I can tell, Id need boobs up by my chin for it to fit properly I guess I have a longer torso than most Chinese ladies. My boobs arent sagging around my waist or anything! They arent big enough for that! This is a copy of a dress from Maggie Sottero, the great thing about this now is that I know Id love the real version and Im sure it would fit alot better, so Im going to do my best to get it! The material on the dress I have is a little cheap feeling. Im glad Ive done this though as now I know exactly what I want and how I will not compromise when it comes to my dress. Especially as my Mum has offered to pay for it!

Locachica - any news today? Quite a few women have had lots of creamy CM around the time they found out they were pregnant, however, I get creamy CM before AF arrives so I dont think CM is an indiction of pregnancy really. Hope you find out soon hun

Sookie - How are you today?

Hope everyone is well and having a good Bank Hol weekend - if you are In the UK of course!

Mike and I are babysitting my Niece and Nephew tonight. They are 4 and 2 yrs old. It should be great fun! They love Mike so much because he is so silly with them. When I see him with them it kinda makes me sad, but in a happy way, as I know he will make such a good father. He is silly, he has no shame so he will make an idiot of himself which everyone finds hilarious. Im not like that, Im way too reserved. I can already see that Ill be the one that tells our kids off and he will be the one that lets them do naughty things like eat sweets instead of their dinner. But I also know that they will know they are in trouble if Mike tells them off. It was the same with my Dad, my Mum told me off all the time but I took no notice after a while, but when my Dad told me off I knew Id been really bad and would feel scared! Not because he would hurt me or anything of course but because I respected him so much I guess. Oh I so want this for us. We would make brilliant parents

 

[reallyoldmum]

Loola if you know what dress you want and you have a bit of time then there are a couple of places you can watch out for it - ebay of course but I will PM you a link to my husbands website - in his links page there is a girl who sells 2nd hand dresses - they are listed by designer and size - might be worth a try Spoke to my friend this morning (my ear aches as she was on the phone for over an hour!!) They ended up kicking the neighbour out - he had been drinking before it happened and got stuck into her gin - started being a bit strange so one of our other friends told him he had outstayed is welcome!! Brave of her as he was about 20 stone and 6 foot!! Anyway we are now on shifts with DF as she is very low - god men can be arses!!! She is such a lovely person and has given this bloke everything (he had just gone bankrupt when she met him 4 years ago) She let him move into her house and was happy for his children to come 50% of the time even though her son is 21 and left home but she loved him........ He has sorted out his business now and has got a bit of money in his pocket and now has told her they want different things!! Just upped and left on Wednesday!!! Bless her so is so down and knowing him like we do everyone thinks he will come running back when he has "put it about a bit!!!!" and has run out of cash! The only time he has rung her since Weds was yesterday when he asked if he could have the nector card as he wanted to take the girls to Alton Towers!! This is a bloke that never paid for a thing - no rent, no food nothing!!!!! Good for her she told him she was going to use the points to go on a spa weekend!!

 

[sookie]

OMG ROM What a nightmare! You did really well not to have a drink when you got home after all that! Your will power is inspiring.

Loola - you and Mike will get your time, eventually. My DH keeps saying that to me, and it's annoying I know. But true I suppose. Someway you will have children. Even if it's through IVF. A friend of mine emailed me last week to tell me she is finally pregnant after 3 years of trying! Bloody brilliant news. After 2 years they discovered that she had a strangely shaped uterus and they operated on it to correct the deformity. Now she is pregnant. There's always hope. And you are far from that yet.

Hi to everyone else

Locachica - I also get creamy cm before AF

Well my temp rose again today. Nothing like yesterday, but I think given the scans and last month's timing it is safe to say that I oved on CD16. Do you agree ladies? So I couldn't wait for FF to give me crosshairs until tomorrow, so I used user override and set the coverline at 97.67. What do you think girls? I will remove it in a day or so and see what FF thinks.

We also have a bak holiday here this weekend. We actually had a holiday on Thursday for May 1st, and then Monday is for something else. The rotten school wouldn't give us Friday though, otherwise would have been 5 days!!! Most other schools got the day off. Oh well, I can't complain really

Have a great weekend!

 

[Tasha20]

Blimey ROM thats eastenders, hollyoaks and corrie rolled into one! I cant believe you managed to not drink either!

Loola I am glad your dress looks lovely on

Sookie, i hope you get your bfp hun.

Hello Rach hope you feeling well

Locachica I hope af will come soon or you get your bfp, its horrbile playing the waiting game

Well we only managed to do bedding the night before ov OH was in a mood so didn't manage in the day, so our chances are very slim

Hope everyone else is ok

 

[Locachica]

Hi everyone,

Sorry I didn't reply earlier I was out.


Loola_ Enjoy your time with the children

ROM- That was a tough evening you had, I hope you're ok now



Welshpolly, Sookie, Rach- Hope you're all well today

As for me well I'm dying with hayfever here so, I'm not in very good form

I don't know what's going on with me chart- I get the exact same tem nearly every morning- hoping it's going to change soon.

 

[reallyoldmum]

OK ladies you are not going to believe this I can see me being reported as a fake but hey here goes - just got back from "supporting" my dear friend and Han arrived home, the phone goes and it is my DH best friends wife hysterical from London, she and Nick had a row last night and as they were driving home she says he hit her!! She drove straight to the police station and when they pulled up he ran - the police followed and arrested him They kept him over night and he has to appear in court on the 16th May - he is not allowed back to their house. She is Brazilian and very hot headed and more than a little bit bonkers to be honest so I am not sure whether he would have hit her or not but she has definately convinced the police he did. She also slipped into the conversation that she was still married when they got married!!! and she is worried he will report her for bigamy!! I eventually get her off the phone and he rings - god he sounds awful - this is a guy I would trust my life with and I have known him for 12 years and at no time have I ever seen him lift a finger to a flea.... Anyway his now driving up here as he has nowhere to go - he cannot go near their house without a police officer present. Diet my arse someone pass me a large glass of wine!!!!

Anyway I just had to tell you as I sort of feel I'm in the middle of soap land..... Report me if you will but honestly its all true

 

[sookie]

Gor Blimey ROM!!!

Certainly sounds like one interesting weekend. We all have times when drama after drama just seem to keep on coming. I felt like my life was like that when I first started on this forum, and I kept posting with dramas. We know that you're not a fake

Well I don't have much experience with Brazilians, but after a year and a half in Colombia I could believe just about anything about Latina women. The things I have seen here I wouldn't have believed if you had told me. Mind you, I'm not saying that she is lying. You just never know do you?

 

[Trudyscrumptious76]

I'M BBBBBBBBBBBBBBBAAAAAAAAACCCCCCCCCCKKKKKKKKKK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I've not had time to stalk but wanted to say hi. I got in late yesterday so will sit down with a cuppa and read through all the things I missed. Hope everyones ok.

 

[reallyoldmum]

Welcome back Trudy - we missed you

 

[Locachica]

Hey Trudy welcome back love and I hope you're well today

Hmmmmmmmm my temps have been the exact same 3 mornings in a row now!!!

I'd love to know what I'm doing wrong!

Hows everyone else today?

 

[sookie]

Locachica it's possible that you are not using your thermometer properly. It's probably a good idea to get the instructions out and read them again.

 

[Locachica]

Hey Sookie,

Ye I did have another look at the little manual I got with it and I'm doing everything right so far. It's amazing because when I'm awake I take my temp (ie middle of day) and it's completely different.

 

[Tasha20]

Locachica I dont think its anything to worry about, I have seen it quite often actualy.

Trudy welcome back I hope you had a lovely time

Sookie Your temps are looking great hun, you get your bfp


Loola Ihope the af withc leaves you alone soon and you catch your eggy

ROM How is your diet going? hope the drama that is surrounding you settles soon and keeps you away from the alcohol

Welshpolly How are you? hope you are well


Lisa-Marie Looks liek you may ov soon! what a great dip!! get bedding as much as you can

Kittykins Hope your ok

Chill How are you hun?

And everyone else hope your all ok too


Well me I am very doubtfull already its only 2dpo ( well ff hasnt picked it up yet ) and I have nothing apart from cupious amounts of lovely thick minging cm

Well I am only 2dpo

 

[welshpolly]

Loola - I haven't heard of those tests before. I hope this cycle will be the one

Tasha - I hope you caught that egg!

Loca - I hope AF stays away! Good luck at the doctors

Sookie - YAY for the rise!!!

ROM - You're doing great with the diet! Are you finding it really hard? So much drama as well! WOW!

Trudy - good to see you!

I hope everyone else is ok!


oooo I had my prediction back off Cheri and she said a BOY and the month JULY!

I haven't been online as my dog Nelson is in doggie hospital! He started to feel poorly on his birthday on Thursday - he was 9! He is on a drip and iv antibiotics and they're not sure what's wrong! Rich thinks it could be a water infection. Hopefully we'll find out some more tomorrow!

I think I've had all my tests now! They couldn't do a proper CD21 as it fell on the Saturday so if I get another CD21 before the clinic appointment on June 11th then to ring them! Rich has his SA on May 15th!

 

[Tasha20]

Sounds really exciting Welshpolly

Well ff has picked ov up

I hope I caught my egg!

 

[welshpolly]

I hope everyone's ok and has enjoyed the bank holiday! My little Nelson is still in doggie hospital and as Rich is back in work I am home alone

Sending lots of babydust to you all!