Naaat
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So basically, is anyone here or have they ever been through pregnancy quite young?
I'm 19 and pregnant, I know these days people have kids younger than that, but seriously, sometimes older people make me feel like complete crap for being pregnant in my teens.
Sometimes when I go to the clinic, there'll be some older pregnant women there, and some of them just look at me like I'm dirt.
It's like, ugh you don't even know me or my story, so why judge me straight away?
Believe me, I couldn't be happier to be pregnant, and I don't think 19 is too young to be pregnant. I think everyone is different and know when they are ready to have a baby. No one should say "You are too young to be having a baby!" because everyone is different, in my opinion. So everyone matures at different time. And if they feel they can handle a baby, then who are we to stop them? It's their decision.
It's just horrible when I come across some snobby woman who thinks I'm an irresponsible little girl for getting pregnant while I'm still young. Believe me, if I felt I wasn't ready to have a child, I wouldn't be having one.
I guess my point is at the end of the day, some people can make me feel really bad, and lower my self-esteem so much, and it's just not fair. They don't know me, or what happened, or what I've been through. They have no right to judge. Even my mother sometimes makes me feel bad, she won't mention to anyone that I'm pregnant. People find out from other people and before that she'd be like "Don't tell anyone!" as if it's some big deal that will bring shame upon the family or something. Don't get me wrong, my mum is excited about the baby, and she is happy, but I think she's also embarrassed about it sometimes. I don't know.
So yeah... lol sorry for the long post. XD
I'm 19 and pregnant, I know these days people have kids younger than that, but seriously, sometimes older people make me feel like complete crap for being pregnant in my teens.
Sometimes when I go to the clinic, there'll be some older pregnant women there, and some of them just look at me like I'm dirt.
It's like, ugh you don't even know me or my story, so why judge me straight away?
Believe me, I couldn't be happier to be pregnant, and I don't think 19 is too young to be pregnant. I think everyone is different and know when they are ready to have a baby. No one should say "You are too young to be having a baby!" because everyone is different, in my opinion. So everyone matures at different time. And if they feel they can handle a baby, then who are we to stop them? It's their decision.
It's just horrible when I come across some snobby woman who thinks I'm an irresponsible little girl for getting pregnant while I'm still young. Believe me, if I felt I wasn't ready to have a child, I wouldn't be having one.
I guess my point is at the end of the day, some people can make me feel really bad, and lower my self-esteem so much, and it's just not fair. They don't know me, or what happened, or what I've been through. They have no right to judge. Even my mother sometimes makes me feel bad, she won't mention to anyone that I'm pregnant. People find out from other people and before that she'd be like "Don't tell anyone!" as if it's some big deal that will bring shame upon the family or something. Don't get me wrong, my mum is excited about the baby, and she is happy, but I think she's also embarrassed about it sometimes. I don't know.
So yeah... lol sorry for the long post. XD