That's what I keep getting from people recently. I'm 19, and I have two kids with one on the way (obviously), and everybody who I talk to always says how young I am to be having so many kids, and looks at me like I'm some tart who throws herself at every man around. I don't! I'm married, and all three babies are by the same father - My husband. Okay, 19 maybe is considered too young to have three little ones, but is it really any of their business when both I and my husband are mature enough to decide how many kids we have ? It really pisses me off, as when they see I'm pregnant, they are fine about it until they find out it isn't my first. Oh, and for the record, they aren't all "accidents", we planned the first two (even though I was 16 at the time), and although this one was technically an accident, we planned another one anyway, just not this soon.