Hello every one. Hope we are all doing well.
Blake is now 7 weeks and such a joy...until bedtime! He's such a grumpy guts. Nothing we do will settle him. From around 8pm till roughly 11/12 Pm he just cries. We have a routine of Bath bottle and bed so that he gets into a routine of knowing it's bedtime which I feel is working but only after he settles around 11. He's then sleeping till around 4 but a couple of nights he's gone till 6/6.30am but that's only been a couple times but even sleeping till 4 ish is good going it's just not benefitting me cos I'm not managing to sleep til around 1am or later due to the pain I'm in with my back. I already had back problems prior to pregnancy (slipped disc, bulging disc and lower arthritis in spine) doc thinks that bulging disc has now basically ruptured due to being in 1 position for 24 hrs after complications during section and put too much pressure on it...so awaiting mri.
Anyways, during day my Lil man is hardly getting peace to sleep during day due to his tornado big sister and nursery runs etc poor thing. Seems I just get him fed etc and then having to scoop him up to then take Lil miss to nursery then I'm on the go all day with her and my 11 year old ...The house is crazy! Bedtime is mental. Cos I have Blake being a grumpy boy then I have my Lil miss who shouts on us all the time, she doesn't understand to keep it down! She's high volume all time so I dare say he would probably settle quicker if we didn't have her shouting "mum dad need a peeeee, mum dad dwink " etc.
But Blake is full of the smiles when you speak to him. Loves a nap on your chest and rarely cries when it comes to needing a feed, I know the sounds he makes when he's starting to want a feed so I manage to get him changed and bottle made before he kicks off properly, just seems to make up for that at bedtime! .
He was weighed on Monday past and is now 12lb5oz
so im doing something right.
Things finally came to blows with my family but that's a whole other thread, so basically doing this all myself with no help from anyone other than my OH who is constantly working. Last week he went to Aberdeen for a whole week leaving me in charge of the children house and animals and not once did I get asked if I was coping or needing anything etc by "them".
My sis however has now not been in my life for 3 weeks and it's been heaven not having to look after my own kids as well as hers. She has finally given birth to her 3rd boy (she's gutted not a girl) and he was 11lb5oz and 57cm long, he's a whopper! I haven't met him and probably won't either. I still gave a gift despite us no longer speaking (a poddle pod) and I have had no thanks for it...charming.
Anyways, love to all xx