* OCTOBER 2019 - Testing Thread *

[Jac2019]

@Jac2019 - so sorry hun. Massive hugs coming your way from me. I hope you get your rainbow soon. You deserve it.
Regarding egg quality, you need to be taking ubiquinol, 400mg a day. 200 with breakfast and 200 with lunch. It’s not cheap but it’s known to help egg quality and the book I am reading about ivf said it’s a definite before going through ivf to make sure your eggs are the best they have ever been xxx

Thank you so much @chattychar1990 I don't mind the witch here as least I know that's it over but wowww never had cramps like this in my life.
Only thing I want to try is helping strengthen the eggs over next few months as I seem to be able to get pregnant just can't keep it. Also taking your advice from Monday after cramps ease going to get healthy again. Focus on me physically and mentally then be back trying. Will try what you suggested thank you do you buy it in shops or online? . Hope you are okay and fingers crossed for you xxx

 

[Littleperson]

BFN for me! Think I just need to cut my losses this month! I don’t normally tell my OH when I test but this morning he saw them in the post and asked if he could read the result. I felt terrible when he saw it was negative! That’s the most involved he’s really been so far and I could see the disappointment on his face. On the plus side I’d waited years for him to tell me I could come off my pill so it’s nice to see that he really is on board now and that he wanted it to be two lines too! still 3 days til AF is due but I really don’t think it’s this month xx

 

[SockVortex]

Sorry Littleperson

 

[Natalie8964]

Thank you so much @chattychar1990 I don't mind the witch here as least I know that's it over but wowww never had cramps like this in my life.
Only thing I want to try is helping strengthen the eggs over next few months as I seem to be able to get pregnant just can't keep it. Also taking your advice from Monday after cramps ease going to get healthy again. Focus on me physically and mentally then be back trying. Will try what you suggested thank you do you buy it in shops or online? . Hope you are okay and fingers crossed for you xxx

I'm sorry Jac, massive hugs. I think you're right, take a break and just focus on yourself. My focus is getting my body healthy and strong too. Putting as much good stuff in as possible! And taking time everyday to do my yoga, something for myself

 

[CrazyChic]

Can I ask all you ladies 1 thing. What can help an egg? I think I want to try help my eggs be stronger in hope when try again that might help? Xxx

I take coQ10 but I only take 200mg in the morning after reading Chars reply I'm gonna start taking one at lunch too. I also take myo inositol for my PCOS xx

So sorry it was a BFN @Littleperson xx

 

[Jac2019]

I'm sorry Jac, massive hugs. I think you're right, take a break and just focus on yourself. My focus is getting my body healthy and strong too. Putting as much good stuff in as possible! And taking time everyday to do my yoga, something for myself

That's what I think best getting my body strong again... Punished it enough over last year to get a baby. Never ever had cramps so bad like this. Happy to see you too are trying to get into a positive mind and body state. Hope when time comes you get your rainbow baby xxx

 

[Jac2019]

BFN for me! Think I just need to cut my losses this month! I don’t normally tell my OH when I test but this morning he saw them in the post and asked if he could read the result. I felt terrible when he saw it was negative! That’s the most involved he’s really been so far and I could see the disappointment on his face. On the plus side I’d waited years for him to tell me I could come off my pill so it’s nice to see that he really is on board now and that he wanted it to be two lines too! still 3 days til AF is due but I really don’t think it’s this month xx

Sorry @Littleperson. So good to know you have the support with him knowing. My OH telling me also to look after me first to order anything he will pay and few months time can try again xxx

 

[Jac2019]

I take coQ10 but I only take 200mg in the morning after reading Chars reply I'm gonna start taking one at lunch too. I also take myo inositol for my PCOS xx

So sorry it was a BFN @Littleperson xx

Where do you buy it from? I will start taking that and do you take all month round? xxx

 

[Littleperson]

Thanks girls! Feeling a wee bit sorry for myself but we are still early on in this journey! This will be cycle 5! I think it’s just hard because I’ve been waiting years for the opportunity! My son is 7 and I thought I’d have given him a sibling by the time he was 3! Split from his dad when he was just 1 and got together with my OH before he was 2! So was never meant to be in the stars that he’d have a close age gap but now he will be at least 8 and he’s forever asking when it will happen. He has a lot of love to give, as do we! Never wanted to rush into having a baby with my OH but also didn’t think it would take 5 years for him to give me the go ahead lol! Now that he has I just want it to happen so badly! Xxx

 

[Jac2019]

Thanks girls! Feeling a wee bit sorry for myself but we are still early on in this journey! This will be cycle 5! I think it’s just hard because I’ve been waiting years for the opportunity! My son is 7 and I thought I’d have given him a sibling by the time he was 3! Split from his dad when he was just 1 and got together with my OH before he was 2! So was never meant to be in the stars that he’d have a close age gap but now he will be at least 8 and he’s forever asking when it will happen. He has a lot of love to give, as do we! Never wanted to rush into having a baby with my OH but also didn’t think it would take 5 years for him to give me the go ahead lol! Now that he has I just want it to happen so badly! Xxx

Awwww sending you massive hugs. We are all here for you. I did this morning but only as period pain really bad this morning. Use to get this in early 20s so long time ago.
I totally understand how you are feeling and how difficult it is. Cry let it out and keep giving your OH lots of hugs xxxx

 

[Littleperson]

Awwww sending you massive hugs. We are all here for you. I did this morning but only as period pain really bad this morning. Use to get this in early 20s so long time ago.
I totally understand how you are feeling and how difficult it is. Cry let it out and keep giving your OH lots of hugs xxxx

Thanks jac! Can’t get over how supportive this forum is and how strong all you incredible women are! Xxx

 

[Jac2019]

Thanks jac! Can’t get over how supportive this forum is and how strong all you incredible women are! Xxx

It really is. None of my friends or family would understand. You are very strong also don't ever forget it xxx

 

[CrazyChic]

Where do you buy it from? I will start taking that and do you take all month round? xxx

I got them from amazon. Yeah I take it all month round. I'll continue to take myo inositol through pregnancy but will stop coQ10 till 20 weeks then start taking it again xx

 

[chattychar1990]

@Jac2019 - I get it from amazon. I can send you the link if you want in a private message.
Make sure your getting ubiquinol and not coq10. Ubiquinol is a form of coq10 and absorbs much quicker xx

 

[Jac2019]

@Jac2019 - I get it from amazon. I can send you the link if you want in a private message.
Make sure your getting ubiquinol and not coq10. Ubiquinol is a form of coq10 and absorbs much quicker xx

Thank you I'd appreciate that I saw it came in different forms but wasn't sure best one to go for when looking. Thanks for everything

 

[CrazyChic]

This is the one I have xx

 

[chattychar1990]

This is the one I have xx

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Exactly the same one as I have @CrazyChic xx

 

[CrazyChic]

Great minds think alike haha xx

 

[xMillie]

Your tests were looking promising, so sorry @Jac2019. I always thought after 3 losses it could be investigated further? So you should check with your doctor, maybe there’s something that can be done to help next time you catch? xx

 

[Jac2019]

Your tests were looking promising, so sorry @Jac2019. I always thought after 3 losses it could be investigated further? So you should check with your doctor, maybe there’s something that can be done to help next time you catch? xx

Thank you @xMillie. I am going to try phone doctors on Monday. Kept test so can show them I was above 25 at one point again. Hope can help me this time as every other time just sent me away never taking bloods or anything. Hope you are okay xxx