May mummies and rainbows to be :)

[nikkix86]

Well I ended it I'm at that point where I have nothing left to give. All he said was ok if that's what you want so shows how bothered he is about me and his daughter really!

 

[Leighwiltshire]

you do right hun!! you have all the support you need and so do i, if i get to that stage!

my other half would be the same hes very stubborn says to me no woman will ever break his heart etc and he wouldnt cry if i left, yet when we have an argument his work mates tell a different story! saying hes down etc

hes just trying to be the big man! dont let him get to you be strong hunnie xx

 

[nikkix86]

Thanks hun i feel ok at the moment kinda knew it was coming since we found out about the baby think I've been hanging on for her sake really but there's only so much someone can take! Need to find people to help me move now

 

[kabuk1]

That's fantastic news Ery!

Nikki, I'm so sorry you're going through this, especially whilst pregnant. You have to do what is right for you and your daughter. If he can't be supportive and only increases the amount of stress put on you, then it's probably for the best. I hope you find some help with your move and you're able to destress a bit after that.

 

[nikkix86]

Thanks kabuk think I will be much happier once I'm in the new house clean slate

 

[lisey]

Remember that some men love to do the reverse psychology thing, they make out they are not bothered so that it will bother you more and make you feel more vulnerable and insecure and more likely to go chasing them.
I hope that you are ok Nikki, I know that you will be. New home = New start. hope you get someone to help you with the move.
Ery, that is impressive that you have never had thrush! I used to get it alot, horrible xx

 

[BettyHoop]

Bless you nikki, it's really hard right now whilst pregnant. I'm going through some issues with my relationship too so I understand. Having a baby is a make or break situation! Xx

 

[lisey]

Having a baby definitely makes you look at things differently. If I hadn't had my son, we would have stayed together longer as it would have just been me dealing with it but when I knew it would affect my baby, I knew enough was enough xx

 

[nikkix86]

Yeah think that's what made me make the break I don't want to bring a baby into an unhappy relationship him never being here, not putting her first, coming home drunk and throwing up everywhere. She's got all the love she needs from me and her brothers

 

[lisey]

Absolutely. Its not to say it will be easy. When you love someone, you love them! From experience though, its not nice to see your Dad drunk and behaving it those ways. I witnessed it for many years and it affects you for years and years after. Luckily my Dad is sober now but it is really damaging to experience those times as a child xx

 

[nikkix86]

I'm sure I'll feel better in a few days xx

 

[Eryinera]

Bless you nikki. Well done hun on making the leap. You'll get on fine your loved so much by your children and you deserve to be loved my a man not a brat too x

 

[Emily0505]

There'll no doubt be tough times hun, but you know you're doing the right thing for you and your family. You've tried to sort things and save your relationship but he's been so unwilling to change and very selfish by the sound of it. Big hugs sweetheart.

XX

 

[nikkix86]

Thanks girls appreciate it xx

 

[BettyHoop]

I can see it moving from the outside! Sadly oh is more interested in gaming and has never felt or seen it yet so I had to come on here to tell people who care! Xx

 

[Eryinera]

Awww so lovely Betty!

 

[Emily0505]

Awww yay!! I had some haribo last night and she went crazy!! Was wriggling and kicking away!!

XX

 

[lisey]

Amazing isn't it Betty. Some men find it all a bit weird xx

 

[BettyHoop]

Mine isn't interested at all. I hope he gets interested when it's born xx

 

[nikkix86]

Well I've had my emotional meltdown when the kids went to bed need to sort myself out now lol