May mummies and rainbows to be :)

[Dovekie]

Congrats Rachel! Merry Christmas ladies and babies xx

 

[Dovekie]

Any one else been applying this useful trick??

Oops it's upside down!

 

[Eryinera]

I've mentioned it to friends worried about eating too much over Xmas but ive been in maternity pants for the past 13 weeks or so

 

[Dovekie]

Im eating less than I normally do. I'm too uncomfortable when I'm full

 

[Eryinera]

I wish I was like that lol. All I can think about is food. But I do get this very sudden "I'm full" where mid mouthful I feel like I'm going to be sick lol. I think my "full" signal has broken

 

[Loubalouba]

Merrychristmas may mummies X hope u have all had lovely days xx

 

[Eryinera]

George Michel has died.... I can't shout at him during labour this time round! (I had a 30 min tirade against him when I was in labour with my son when his song came on the radio)

 

[Eryinera]

So I'm lay awake and you know when thing's come to you and then you dwell on them I'm having one of them. Yesterday at work I was serving this couple. They must have been 50 or 60 and the husband kept touching my boobs. It was as if it were an accident the first time I was like oops and stood back but it happened like 6 or 7 times and ow I'm lay awake thinking how wrong he was and if I should have told someone!

 

[Dovekie]

I'm up with my hip pain! Oh dear - I'm not sure. Hopefully his wife noticed and he got a telling off from her!

 

[Eryinera]

Hopefully but I doubt it. He was yelling at her for not understanding something. I don't know. I'll mention it tomorrow when I'm next in work in my normal store

 

[Leighwiltshire]

My full and hungry signals are broken!

 

[BettyHoop]

Can anyone do anything about it now though eryinera? God the way I'm feeling right now I would have broken his arm for you!

Going to my folks for Xmas hasn't helped. I've just been repeatedly told that I need to lose weight whilst pregnant, been called a ****** and hardly had any contact from oh so not sure where he is or what he's up to. I've been made to feel like it's my fault I have a few pregnancy issues that are giving me pain which has made me retreat into myself and feel like I have to lie and pretend there's nothing wrong. Oh also said just before holidays that he gets cold with me because I'm in pain all the time, that he doesn't see the need for another scan and I'm now thinking I don't want him as my birth partner if that's how he feels. It's only the last few decades that have seen men in delivery rooms anyway, I think he'll just end up stressing me out with his coldness.

I guess I was expecting support from my mum this Xmas as I'm lacking it from oh but I've been made to feel like I'm doing it all wrong and all she can focus on is having a snip at me for my weight and my pain. I feel absolutely awful and like crying all the time. I feel like buggering off to live somewhere away from all this. Xx

 

[nikkix86]

hope you all had a nice Xmas girls. my kids were spoilt! 20 weeks today and scan in 2 days!

 

[Eryinera]

Ill update the front page tonight x

Sorry your not habing the support you need betty x sod what iothers say and think although its hard i know. If therecwas axmagical thing you could do to stop brung in pain you would obviously do it!

As for the guy we can put his face on our watch list from the cctv footage so hes watched around store so he cant do it to anyone else should he come back.

 

[BettyHoop]

Oh well then I would definitely say something, that's not appropriate behaviour and should be treated as such xx

 

[lisey]

Betty that is just awful and I am sorry, anyone that uses the 'r' word is not nice at all in my opinion. I hate The word with a passion.
This is a time when you need support and kindness. I really hope you're OK and they realise you deserve more xx

 

[Dovekie]

Aww Betty. I know how it feels to want to escape it all. I'm sorry you feel that way. I think it's made worse by the time of year! X

Baby moved today and I've felt lots of kicks just above my left hip. We even saw some of them!

 

[kabuk1]

Betty, really sorry to hear that. You deserve better. No one, especially a parent, should treat someone like that.

That's fantastic Dovekie. Mines been like a little martial artist in there this weekend.

 

[Eryinera]

I had a good half hour full of kicks after I had a KFC for lunch. Think I found what lil Erin likes lol. It began to hurt though after a while!

 

[BettyHoop]

I just feel so tired and emotionally exhausted. I long to just get away and be on my own but at the same time feel like I should be doing more to just be happy with what I have and be less sensitive. For so many years I have dreamt of having a little family and now I have it I feel so ungrateful! I just didn't expect to feel so undervalued and unsupported. I expected to be given a break whilst pregnant if not at any other point in my life but I thought wrong. I am literally at my wits end. I feel on the edge of either bursting into tears or having a massive shout at someone all the time. Does anyone think I may be having a girl lol?! Xx