**March 2012 Babies**

[winnie89]

strangely i slept well last night LO still got me up at half 6 to empty bladder but i actually slept for a good 8 hours, what is everyone up to today, i've just loaded dishwasher and now just watching cooking channel

 

[hugsy]

my first day not getting up to go to work , not quite sure what to do with my self for the day.
didnt sleep great so i think just chill and finish off the blackforest birthday cake i made keith yesterday
was so sick all evening i couldnt face any dont know what was up usually with nausea i eat and it helps
but couldnt look atfood yesterday

 

[leannesxb]

AJ had me up twice in the night for a wee!!!!!! Jason is off today so I am under strict instructions to lay on the sofa as I have excruciating pains in my bits. There is a lot of pressure there and everything feels bruised and swollen (and looks it too!). Plus there is a cyst or lump of some kind there that has appeared in the past day which is causing me a stabbing pain when I walk. So feeling a bit pathetic. lol. xxx

 

[BevG]

lol im feeling a bit pathetic too hun but its not the aches and pains its the lack of friends. i sent my oldest friend a message on fb saying i felt like he was ignoring me etc as we havent spoke in a while and he sent me back a 1 sentence reply saying hes not leaving me out theres nothing to tell me. so i sent one back saying there is a prime example, u dont wanna chat u just fob me off and never ask how i am or anything blah blah blah. hes always been like a brother to me but since ive been preg hes been an asshole. noone else i know in the area even bothers to visit me or anything, its been a week since i got a text off a mate even. i currently have spoken to one of my mates girlfriends more than any of my actual friends.
just makes me feel a bit miserable really what with being huge and achey and crampy at night and not sleeping etc so i can totally empathise on the miserable feelings lol

 

[leannesxb]

my mate have been very similar hun. They are all at a different stage in their lives to me and because I can't go out drinking, for lunches and shopping all the time with them they don't even bother telling me about the things any more. I feel down about it but when I spoke to my mum she said that I will be looking forward to a new life chapter which will mean newer friends as I go to baby and toddler groups etc. They will still be there my old friends but just not in the way they were. As long as I have my family and my best friend , my OH , thats all that matters. It does drag ya down hun though doesn't it. xxxx

 

[BevG]

yeah, mostly i never tell anyone that i feel theyre being unfair to me, i just let it slide but this guy i have known since we were 4. i was there for him when he was depressed and when his ex had an mc and then we werent even sure if that was true or what happened and she had been cheating etc. last time i saw him whas when i was about 8 weeks preg and we went to a festival where he said a few things that upset me and acted a tit basically and we have barely spoke since. it just irks me that ive always been there when he needed me and he has been nowhere the whole time ive been preg. i expect it of all my other 'friends' but he is supposed to be like family so it actually hurts. so i thought id actually say something to him about it.

 

[Samsgirl]

hey Bev....symptom twin.....

dont worry about past friends...i know its upsetting and basically its thei loss....once LO is here you will have your amazing little family and get out to as many groups as you can.....i have already made some new friends and got involved with people on my current wave length and baby not even here yet xx

 

[TORino]

I am hank marvin today.

Seriously.

Get...me....food.... lol

 

[Esperanza84]

bevg&leanne: I think that once they start getting their own families, they will understand what it's all about. When I wasn't pregnant, I still tried to include my friends with families. The problem was often, that when I decided to go out for a drink, it was way to late for them to arrange with a babysitter, so they couldn't come a long. I kind of agree with samsgirl, it's their loss! xx

wbm&coolbeans: I'm so sorry you feel this way. Hope you feel better soon! xx

hugsy: isn't it nice to be home? I make schedules/lists every day over the things I want to do - from getting up and eating breakfast to cleaning different clothes etc. It feels like I've done so much when I can cross of the list all the things I've done, even though they're just small, silly things

I've seen mw today - everything's fine, bp is a bit high, but nothing to worry about. Baby's head down, but still not engaged, but she's deep down, so mw told me not to worry! My next appointment is at my due date. I told her I wouldn't be showing up because I would be at the hospital in labour....lol! (fx)

 

[rosiee]

aww bevg thats horrible. I have had friends like that, but its also made me closer to others. I had two best friends from school that i used to be really close to, then we drifted apart when I went to uni. But one has a 9 month old, and the other had a little one three weeks ago, and its brought us back together which has been really nice. but friends i made at uni are suddenly not interested anymore, almost like they dont know how to speak to me or what they should do around me?? its strange how much babies change things!!

im soooo tired!! lol! everythings uncomfortable, babba is very low and walking is such an effort, and my back hurts. I just want her out now!!

I keep having moments where it hits me that im having a baby and I feel so happy and lucky, and then its like i cant really believe it and its not actually going to happen!! it all feels so surreal! I think ive been waiting all the way through the pregnancy to be told actually, your not, or for something to go wrong. and now its so close its starting to hit me this is really happening!!! haha, i probably sound like a crazy person

I can't wait to get my little Lily here now! x x x

 

[littlemuffin]

Hi Girlies,

I had a surprise baby shower on Saturday, my sister arranged it. The theme was books, so I got around 100 baby books, ok not that many. But loads. It was brill, and I had a fun time.

It's my last week at work, and I can't bloody wait, to lay in next week.. I am sleeping all the way through at night, and loving it.

My parents have gone on holiday today, so I am about 5% worried something might happen, but I don't think it will, the baby will be late.

Don't worry girls about the friends issue, I only have one main friend, and I rather have someone I love and trust as a friend, than loads I don't.

 

[Esperanza84]

Rosiee: I know! It's so surrealistic that there will come a baby out of my belly - that I'm carrying her around and that she's with me at all times will be so great to meet her!!!

Littlemuffin: that so sweet of your friends!! Books is a good thing to have

 

[TashaWink]

Hi ladies still haven't got Internet, just at my mums so trying to catch up. So much has happened...it's hard to read it all! Hope you're all well.

My mum and sister threw me a surprise baby shower Saturday too... Hadn't had a clue it was being arranged my OH is so rubbish at keeping it a secret I am very surprised!


I had period type cramps the other day I was getting a bit excited but it was nothing.


Been waking up with an achy bump, anyone else? Feels like I've been doing sit ups all night!

 

[Esperanza84]

Yes, my bump is very achy and sore from time to time. I also got the period type of pains, but I try to not get my hopes up, as I know it's just a part of the process of preparing the body for labour. I think that when it happends for real, we will know it

I got up early this morning, ate some breakfast, and went to bed again. I had been sleeping so bad this night so couldn't get myself to do anything:S Oh well, I guess I shouldn't feel bad, because if there's a time of my life that I can sleep whenever I want, it's now...lol!

 

[Nurse 26]

hey ladies! hope your all well, not alot going on with me, had my 36w midwife appointment today and babies head is very low now she said, which i guess is good, back again in 2 weeks time

my bump has not been too achey really but still getting the stretching type pains from time to time, legs get really stiff now too if sit down for too long, but i seem to be sleeping better at nights now.

Anyone still got shopping to do or are you all set?

We have antenatal class on thursday so looking forward to that xx

 

[leannesxb]

got period type pains today and aching in my bits and a very sore bump like I have done a 100 sit ups. Ouchy!!!!!!

 

[Applecider]

Hey ladies!! Hope your all good!

Have many people had their March babies?

Not much to buy just the wardrobe and chest drawers! I love the mamas and papas range but they so expensive and they not even real wood?! Argos got a solid pine range half the price, I was thinking of adding my own handles to make it our own?? What have you done?

Esperanza not long!! I'm waiting for the text!! xx

 

[Samsgirl]

Wonder if I am going to be a feb baby! Xx

 

[BevG]

im getting so tired now. yesterday it hurt to walk the worst it has so far, been getting worse the last 2 days, my bump and foof are sore as hell by teatime and im actually contemplating not going to college tomorrow cos it hurts to walk round so much (i'll go anyway cos i have an assignment to hand in). since i went to OH's dads last night it all seems to have kicked off here lol. my symptom twin having her booboo as we speak! that could be me in a couple of days lol. its all getting scarily real and im already getting ppl asking if ive popped yet!

 

[Esperanza84]

Nurse: my baby is also very low down, so that's a good sign!


Clare (samsgirl) will have a februrary baby - she's in labour now...eeeeek...how exciting! Rachel also had her baby!


I know, not long now But I have a feeling she will come near due date - if she comes before, I will be shocked...lol!


Since I started my ML, the days seem to be flying by! lol! Of course, I'm just doing whatever I feel like, relaxing, sleeping, watching tv series etc. Really enjoying the last weeks before my little girl comes