June mummies loss thread

[millielaura]

Aww Bunny I was so upset with my first af after my loss but it seemed to sort my cycle out again so happy at that!
Been in Venice and ovd yesterday. Loads of ewcm and ov pains om my side with the non scarred tube . And dtd loads . Want a Venice rainbow! Xx

 

[LyndseyB]

How did the scan go snowbee?

Congrats on BFN and AF Bunny, definitely best to get your health back up to scratch I think, even though the 'mistake pregnancy' would have been welcomed.

Millie your body does seem to bounce back very quickly, so happy to hear that you have ov'd and are feeling good I'll keep everything crossed!

I've still got my hopes up slightly until the weekend as I hadn't though about CD1 possibly being between 18th and 23rd and my nausea and pains on the 6th being implantation..? so I'm still in for a few more days (deluded!! but honestly, the dates work with when we DTD too!) - and please don't encourage me lol I need no encouragement xx

 

[snowbee]

Ohh Millie hope you bring a special souvenir back home with you

Sorry to hear AF has arrived for some of you, fingers crossed all your cycles are reset now and ready for those 2016 babies. The festive time is great for a spot of BDing though so at least there is some good news there! I was at the fertility clinic today and it is full of signs saying this is the most popular time of year to get those bfps, hopefully we can all join in.

Lyndsey that would be amazing news if that was implantation, best of luck!

I had my first follicle tracking scan today, not that great. I have several small ones but none are anywhere near big enough. I have to go back again Monday and see if any have grown. I'm hoping there will be one or two big ones by then but I'm not really expecting there to be. I'll still be disappointed though as we are really pinning our hopes on my body responding well and kicking out a top quality egg. I can't bear to wait another 18 months for my next bfp (if indeed I ever get another) and then have it snatched away and having to start again - again.

 

[Eryinera]

Lol don't think any of us need encougement atm lol. I'm still hoping despite no sex a neg blood test a neg hpt no positive opks AND af

 

[BunnyN]

Lol don't think any of us need encougement atm lol. I'm still hoping despite no sex a neg blood test a neg hpt no positive opks AND af

lol, yeh, I get that

 

[BunnyN]

Aww Bunny I was so upset with my first af after my loss but it seemed to sort my cycle out again so happy at that!
Been in Venice and ovd yesterday. Loads of ewcm and ov pains om my side with the non scarred tube . And dtd loads . Want a Venice rainbow! Xx

I'm not too upset because I'm fed up with the on and off bleeding and spotting and not knowing what is going on with my cycle. I'm hoping this will bring it back to normal.

Hope you get your venice souvenir.

 

[Eryinera]

Lol don't think any of us need encougement atm lol. I'm still hoping despite no sex a neg blood test a neg hpt no positive opks AND af

lol, yeh, I get that

Lol I've got as much chance as a Virgin in a convent..... bit if Mary had Jesus it's the right time of year for miracles!!!

 

[snowbee]

Well it has happened, out with friends tonight and one announces she is 17 weeks pregnant. Poopers. I should be 17 weeks tomorrow. Pleased for her but wondering why we can't catch a break and have the same. Then I've stupidly mentioned it to my oh and now he is crying.

 

[LyndseyB]

Oh snowbee I'm so sorry, do the group of friends know about the troubles you've been having?
I really do hope that you both get your miracle very soon xx

 

[snowbee]

No, noone knows. I can't decide if people knowing or not is a good thing. What has everyone else here done? Do people know about your mcs? If so had you already told them about your pregnancy beforehand? I don't know if we should tell people sooner if we get a next time.

 

[Eryinera]

I only told a few that i was pg but told them to spead the word after the mc. I found it easier this time ppl were very supportive and it helped a lot. The first mc no one knew I was pg but a few knew I lost it. the 2nd a few knew I was pregnant but I didn't tell them about the mc I was too upset and that was the worst when they asked about what happened. The 3rd no one knew I was pg or I mc that wasn't that bad nor was this time as I was showing (bloat) lots were suspicious but hadn't said anything so that meant they stopped asking me or jibing me as most know I wanted another baby and some knew we were trying.

I think you will know best what's right for you and I'm sorry you have uo go through a close friends pregnancy. Esp one eith a similar due date X x

 

[LyndseyB]

I had told a couple of girls at work and one of my friends I was pg (no family at all!) so I told those same people about the mc and also my mum and sister. I have found it really difficult not telling my in-laws as we see them a lot, they didn't know we were ttc and we still want a pg announcement to be very exciting for them so we will tell them about the mc a short while after we share good news...

I hope you and your OH are doing OK today snowbee, not long until your scan on Monday and I hope to hear it went well then, got everything crossed.

Who is it that is getting married next year? Eryinera and also someone else around the same time I'm sure?

I'm on CD1 today, obviously disappointed that I'm not pg but very glad that my cycle seems to be OK on its own - and our little twixmas getaway falls right in the middle of my FW ;o) xx

 

[Eryinera]

Millie is getting married around the same time as me x sorry af appeared but glad your cycles are kinda normal hope you enjoy your fertile holiday!

 

[LyndseyB]

Thank you!

Oh how exciting, how are you both getting on with wedding plans? Is your wedding in June Eryinera? I got married in July this year but it still only feels like it was a few weeks ago!

 

[millielaura]

Yeah it's me lol I'm getting married 9th July
All my friends knew! I posted it on fb after my 11+5 scan!! I told close friends what ha dhappened but then I just took it off facebook and not brought up the m/c to anyone else and only will if they ask or I speak to them etc!xx

 

[Eryinera]

Im getting married 21st may x so far.... I have my dress. ... but I found a nicer one that's almost identical. ... so if I'm too fat i have a backup lol. We need to cone up with 5 songs apparently for the ceremony... I'm 70% sure on..... one..... 90% sure on 2..... and the other 3... . Yea......... no! Lol. We are catching a bus to a restaurant after the wedding..... though... that's not booked..... and maybe depending on dates..... I think a new marvel film is out around that time lol.


How's your plans millie?

 

[millielaura]

My mums making my dress! She's starting at some point this month lol!
Got the song for walking down the aisle, for during vows, for walking back down the aisle, for first dance, for father daughter dance and then got one for me and my sis haha. Just need the cake cutting one I think and maybe another for during ceremony. Walking down aisle to instrumental of taylor swift-love story. During vows having ed sheeran-tenerife sea. Walking back down to instrumental of the greatest day. First dance is kodaline-the one. Father daughter dance is I loved her first. And me and sis dancing to my wish by rascall flats
Chosen a roast for the day meal and then sausage sandwiches for the evening :
Will prob stay at a local hotel the night after. Should prob book that soon lol!! Then may have a couple days away in the lakes. Don't wanna book anything yet before knowing whether I'll be preg etc. Hen do 26th june
Xx

 

[BunnyN]

All these weddings are exciing!

As for telling people. My first loss was early so no one but me and OH knew. I found that really hard as is almost like I was never pregnant and I had no support except from OH which I found really lonely. We got pregnant again the next month and started telling people right away. I knew if I had another loss I wanted people to know. As it was I was very sick with morning sickness so there is no way I could have hid it for long and I needed family support to get through the early weeks of pregnancy. Happily that pregnancy went well. This loss we started telling people I was pregnant but not everyone knew yet. Everyone knew after because I almost died during the MC and was on bedrest after. It was really nice to have the support. In some ways it was easier than my first loss because of that. I did dread telling people the news we had lost the baby but OH or our family told most people. There were some awkwardness and a couple of daft comments that were hurtful but well meant but on the whole I am really happy people knew as most were lovely and several shared their own mc stories which is nice to talk to people who get it. Not sure what we will do next time. I would like people to know but might kind of feel like keeping the happy news to ourselfs to start with because after what happened this time everyone is going to be stressed about it. I think we will just wait and see how we feel at the time.

 

[LyndseyB]

Oh I love the wedding chat. It sounds like you are both quite on the ball so far, your are such a diva with 2 dresses Eryinera haha.

Millie I had tenerife sea for my walking down the aisle song and we used greatest day too (for after ceremony) so I do like your choices our first dance was Jack Johnson better together.

It will be a bit difficult not knowing if you'll be preg or not but everything can be worked around that, definitely xx

 

[Eryinera]

Our first dance is seal - kiss from a rose. I think I'll be walking down the aisle to in this moment - all for you

Im 100% having 2 dresses maybe 3 at this rate lol the one I already have was £40 my 2nd definite one is £99. So cheap diva lol. But other than that I'm not sure on anything lol