i know i can't say much as i am unemployed (until jan 2013) and my partner doesn't work (he starts new job in september as a eca) and we have 3 children between us, both of mine i was on contraception when i got pregnant. implant and depo both unplanned but none the less wanted.
its not fair that everyones tax pays for us i worked til i was 6 months with my daughter through and agenency and my Oh worked up til november 2010 he had to leave his job as he ex complained about his hours.
we don't want to stay on benefits and have been working out the cost of childcare for where we are as we had to move a distance (130 miles) for daughter safty. and we know its going to be on hell of a stuggle. we know that we cant afford anymore children for quite a few years. we have both been looking for work my partner is starting as an emergency care assistant i have found loads of jobs i can do, just need one that can keep us afloat its the problem with having children well on benefits.
this women shouldnt be wanting IVF for another, mine were accidents but planning is different thing. its wrong x x x
its not fair that everyones tax pays for us i worked til i was 6 months with my daughter through and agenency and my Oh worked up til november 2010 he had to leave his job as he ex complained about his hours.
we don't want to stay on benefits and have been working out the cost of childcare for where we are as we had to move a distance (130 miles) for daughter safty. and we know its going to be on hell of a stuggle. we know that we cant afford anymore children for quite a few years. we have both been looking for work my partner is starting as an emergency care assistant i have found loads of jobs i can do, just need one that can keep us afloat its the problem with having children well on benefits.
this women shouldnt be wanting IVF for another, mine were accidents but planning is different thing. its wrong x x x