Thank you, keeping sane sounds like a good plan. I haven't got a date to test in mind yet, although i am going to try to not test early but i find it very hard not to - its like impulsive when i do and i can't control it lol!
Also last month I lost my mind a little too as I was 4 days late and entered a whole new realm of torture - pregnancy tests were negative but maybe not enough hormone (didn't realise that was a thing - you just hear so many stories of early BFPs that i hadn't even considered being late & getting BFNs!!!!) Negative tests should have been the give away really that i wasn't pregnant but I've been off the pill 3 months with 2 perfect 28 day cycles to jump to 32days (even before i was on the pill i was like clockwork) so last month has set me back in confidence!
I'm so glad i am/was doing the OPKs as my app then re jigged my cycle for this month to ovulate on CD16 - but I got strong positive OPK on 'CD12'!!!! which was actually exactly 4 weeks to the day i got a positive OPK in last cycle - so i really don't know what happened last cycle!
sometimes i wish i wasn't so aware lol but then don't want to miss the opportunity! i am also enjoying sticking my sticks in a little notebook now