Hi ladies. Not sleeping
Can't get comfy at all! Keep waking up with really sore hips despite lovely pregnancy pillow.
Ended up having an 'argument' with a cashier in a supermarket yesterday. The normal, "How long do you have left?" Then the "Wow, you look so big, like you're ready to drop!" comment. I quickly jumped in with, "Yes, I am sure I am only having one." Then she continued with "I can't believe you're sooooo big." "I'm not too big. I am just the right size." (I couldn't stop myself at this point because I am not upset, just sick of it happening all the time!)
This lady did not get the message though... "There's another lady who's expecting and she's too big too..." "I'm not too big!" "Well you look it to me. Well, as I was saying, this other woman who was too big had something wrong with her." I just had to tell her not to carry on and that I was fine... But she carried on anyway until I asked her to stop. She said, "I am just trying to show some interest but what do I know, I will never find a man or have a baby."
Guess I felt badly for her there, but some people just don't know when to stop. She was ignoring the next person in the queue too. As I was trying to get away, she shouted, "Bring the baby in for me to cuddle!"
Feel for her, but I think I will avoid her till again. Pregnancy hormones are in control currently and I might say something I regret!
From a colleague telling me I should count myself lucky to have conceived naturally (after two years of trying and a miscarriage which she knows nothing about) because she is going to try soon and knows she will have to have IVF to random ladies I played for in a choir saying I ought to get myself checked out because they think there could be something wrong as I was just soooo big, it's been a little annoying! My other colleagues have been amazing, but some random strangers have been a nightmare. Talk about pregnancy, but don't think that saying anything you like to pregnant women about their size/baby's health is ok. It's emotional Enough being pregnant without additional annoyances!
Rant over. Strangers, steer clear with your "You're too big" comments! Haha.