October testing

Hi hon, sorry but could we still have the number of BFP's in the thread title? It saves me having to check it every single time i log on. Thanks! x

Then it's a BFP announcement in the ttc section (not allowed) and everyone in the section can see "30 people got a BFP this month and you weren't one of them" everytime they log on (makes them feel like crap).

The totals are just on page 1 so eay to find :)

To be fair I don't agree with that Louise, I can understand people not writing posts and chatting about being pregnant etc but I think to see the amount of BFPs does give you hope and you are happy for the people who have them? I'd rather see them than a load of witches any day!

Hope you are ok hun and not getting too stressed with things xx
 
To be fair I don't agree with that Louise, I can understand people not writing posts and chatting about being pregnant etc but I think to see the amount of BFPs does give you hope and you are happy for the people who have them? I'd rather see them than a load of witches any day!

It's about choice.

Choose to see them, choose not to see them.

I'm surprised you'd rather put your own convenience above the feelings of others.

Not everyone is happy happy happy all the time and it doesn't mean they are resentful of people getting BFPs.

The ttc section is a mix of sickly sweet happy emotions and super sour bitter twisted emotions and how people feel on any given day changes and the ttc section is supposed to be somewhere for them to come free from ANYTHING pregnancy related just incase they are having a bad day.

Sorry if i prefer people to have to put one extra click into their forum visit rather than expose people who might be quite upset to something that might upset them further.

I don't rant on people that post BFPs unwittingly into the ttc section because once i know it's there i can choose to avoid it if i want to. It's all about choice.
 
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Oh bugger, I've just re read the posts and realised that you mean if it's not in the 'TITLE' as in the title of the thread.

I thought you meant the :bfp::bfn: counter at the top of the page!!

I understand now, if you don't want to see you don't have too.

Sorry Hun wasn't trying to be controversial!

Sorry everyone!! xx:dohh::dohh::dohh::dohh::dohh:
 
Woah, woah, woah!!!!

I have an easy solution! Star fish (and anyone else who wants it) I will send a private message saying new :bfp: on the October Thread when I get notice of them. That way, it isn't in the thread title and it saves you scrolling through it.

I am sorry Spinneygirl! I hope November will be your month!!

Samsgirl, it is easy to become a POAS addict, I still am! ;) Hope the witch stays away!

Binzy, your dates are changed!

Roo3, Congrats for September, I have moved you off the thread! :)

NaomiN...Well Done!!! :):dance:

Sparkle82, I have put you down! :)

Good luck to all of you testing!!

xx
 
Thanks....the one bit of great news for me today is that my very first cycle after being on the pill for 18 years was exactly 28 days!!! Day 28 today and AF arrived....!! I was actually pleased to see her cos that's one worry off my mind...now just the 12 days to go til i start to test for ovulation....just to see if that bits working next :eek:) xx
 
Feeling so tempted to test early. Somebody talk me out of it.

We were out in the car earlier after doing some work in the garden and I was just sort of imagining myself pregnant while I was daydreaming out the window.

This time last week I was picking up a faint line on the OPKs so I think I just missed it when I started testing, not I'm not getting anything so I'm really hopefully that I've OVed this month.
 
hiya kizzibea, your af due date is the 20th, i wouldnt do a pregnancy test for a wee bit yet! Stay strong :) Hope you get your BFP this month! Best of luck.
 
YOu'll only get a BFN if you do it now! It will depress you and be a waste of a test. Hold off honey!! xx
 
Woah, woah, woah!!!!

I have an easy solution! Star fish (and anyone else who wants it) I will send a private message saying new :bfp: on the October Thread when I get notice of them. That way, it isn't in the thread title and it saves you scrolling through it.


xx

Ah, ever the peacemaker. Good suggestion x
 
Thanks guys. I've resisted. Felt awful this morning, was fine when I got up to go to the loo at seven but felt really nauseous after about an hour and have been feeling dizzy on and off all day.

But I'm not going to test unless I have FMU, and the tests are in a drawer in the bedroom so there's no way I can get at them without OH noticing.

I will resist until after the weekend. :lol:
 
Woah, woah, woah!!!!

I have an easy solution! Star fish (and anyone else who wants it) I will send a private message saying new :bfp: on the October Thread when I get notice of them. That way, it isn't in the thread title and it saves you scrolling through it.


xx

Ah, ever the peacemaker. Good suggestion x

Well there is enough stress with TTC without arguments as well. You should all be making love not war! (couldn't resist that one!)

xx
 
I'm sorry :withc: got you samsgirl! At least you know where you are cycle wise now!

Good luck for November!

xx
 
I'm just bumping this thread up girls. Remember to keep me updated on any test results, arrival of the witch etc.

Good luck!!

xx
 
Sorry Flopsy I completely forgot about this thread! Could you put my BFP on it when you have a mo please?

Thanks xx
 
Not tested yet :witch: due yesterday but not getting hopes up for , I'm just glad the Angus Castus seems to be increasing my LP
 
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