*** November 2014 Mummies! ***

[mellie_88]

I dont think im any different pregnant, I get annoyed by a lot of things normally so it definitely hasn't changed while pregnant!
I hate it when people take my stuff, when I was at uni I could buy ingredients for a lovely dinner, go in the kitchen half hour later to find half of it missing. And milk used to REALLY annoy me. They used to take it all without even leaving me a drop for a cup of tea.

Now I'm getting mad remembering it all! Haha

I can't stand Facebook dramas I just tend to delete the people, or block them so I can see them but they can't see what I post. There's a guy on mine who likes to start arguments with almost everyone. Fortunately he doesn't with me as he knows he's got no chance! Haha

 

[babyphoenix]

Haha I don't think it's hormones, I think it's more of a realisation of, well, now I've got more important things in my life going on than your shitty little need to cause drama!

Also for ladies due the same day as me...

http://www.timeanddate.com/countdow...0=136&fg1=d390c2&fg2=99dbd4&msg=Viability+Day

 

[mellie_88]

Some people just have nothing better to do with their lives than cause drama and arguments!

 

[babyphoenix]

So true lol. Yet if I confronted him about causing shit for no reason he'd probably go "wah I might not be able to have kids wah stop using your pregnancy as an excuse not to have to put up with my shit"

lol. Can you tell I'm so done? lol. I'm removing myself and baby from OH's brother and his fiancée's lives altogether apart from big occasions where they can't be avoided because of the way they've consistently treated me. Still have that news to break yet though :s.


Just worked out 91 days until I'm full term! Eek

 

[Kaa286]

Can't stand drama like that. Have a friend who creates so much drama it's worse than any soap opera and I have no time for that!!!

Is v day 24 weeks or 28???

 

[babyphoenix]

24

 

[Kaa286]

Thought I'd read 28. Making me feel like I have no idea what I'm doing haha z

 

[katiee24]

Hope all you ladies are fine!! Can't believe there's only 16 weeks left until baby gets his eviction notice! Where has the time gone?

My nan is still currently with us.. But very upset.. The awful auntie I have that accused me of stealing has been kicking off a fuss with everybody! We promised my nan today that we would get her out of hospital so she can be at peace and hopefully pass in a better environment.. So the hospital rang today to say the funding has accepted all we have to do is pick a home for her to be transferred 2.. There is only 1 suitable in the area for everyone to get to when the time comes to say goodbye but obviously it is a decision all the family should make.. But not in my aunties eyes.. Hubby has done nothing but stress and ring to try and get a bed for my nan and we've had it thrown back in our face today as my auntie said "she will make the decision when she's had a look herself".. Basically pushing her 2 brothers and everybody out! Even her own kids can't stand her! My poor nan is so fed up, she can't talk or move but can communicate through nodding or shaking her head.. So we told her today she doesn't need to worry anymore about my dad and that I will look after him and asked her if she doesn't want to be in hospital or fight anymore and she shook her head to say no.. She's so fed up she even had tears roll down her face heartbreaking to watch!

You'd think my auntie would stop being childish and fighting until after my Nan's passed! :-/

 

[Kaa286]

Oh Katie your aunty sounds such a vile woman ur poor Nan

I hope she comes to her senses asap so u can get ur Nan sorted. Either that or all go against her n give her no choice!!! Hope u manage to sort something out its so unfair to ur Nan suffering this upset at this time thinking of u all huni xxx

 

[katiee24]

Unfortunately she just likes to take control of everything! She told the sheltered accommodation that my nan was living in before she became ill that we were not allowed to see her.. She took Over all my Nan's shopping and money etc.. But my uncle decided he wanted all money to go to solicitors to stop her spending any money herself and what a suprise she now can't afford to run her car! We couldn't get hold of my uncle to tell him what's going on but other family members are aware and very annoyed at it! We just don't know what to do as my uncle lives an hour away and my dad drives up and down the country so can't really be ringing around different places to sort it

What fun were going to have when it comes to funeral arrangements

 

[Applecrumble]

Katiee..such a sad situation. Xxxx

I had workman working in the office next door to our flats working till midnight and then starting again at 5am...not happy!

Happy friday people.

 

[katiee24]

I know - this morning we found out she has taken our numbers off the contact list at hospital as well :-/

On a brighter note I've reached the 24 weeks mark! Happy V day to me! & I've fully transferred to a different hospital and they are already taking good care to me as they have referred me straight away to a fetal medicine hospital to keep an eye on baby's kidneys xx

 

[babyphoenix]

V-day for me too wooooo!

 

[Applecrumble]

congrats girls!

 

[katiee24]

Just had a phone call! Got to go to fetal medicine hospital on the 23rd! Day before my birthday! & she said I will get another chance to see him on scans and be told a plan of action of his care! Not even been under the new hospital 24 hours and they are already doing a better job!

 

[chazhavnfun]

Just popping in to say happy vday babypheonix. Hugs to you babe.
Tried to keep busy best I can this week with the kids but it's going to be so hard on wed saying goodbye to my uncle dreading it more for my gran and grandad. Not sure how much our family can take. Burried our cousin last yr and my little cousin is still battling lukimia too. Please pray for my gran and grandad at this time xxx

 

[Kaa286]

Katie great news on the hospital front

Happy vday girls!!!

Chaz I'm praying for all of u huni :-/ hope ur ok xxx

 

[mellie_88]

Happy v day babyphoneix. Means mine cant be too long away now!
Katie thats fab news on the hospital, good to hear some are capable.
Chaz, you're in my thoughts, best thing to do is to try and stay occupied with other things, even though its hard.

My cravings have been starting, yday all I wanted was pasta. Today I wanted stuffing (which luckily the work canteen managed to satisfy.) Then I wanted apple crumble and custard, just got home to find my OH had made me a big apple crumble, even though he hates it. He's amazing

 

[Kaa286]

Oh mellie u have made me want Apple pie and custard now. I bought some rice pudding the other day as really fancied it. I seem to want pasta all the time at the min. I can't get enough. Beetroot is awesome too. But pasta is the one thing I would say I'm kind of craving as in really fancying it most of the time haha.

Not felt baby much since the crazy hour full of kicks and wriggles on Wed night. I want my baby to move about tonight so hubby can feel it. :-/ got a big kick in my bladder earlier n nearly peed myself haha xx

 

[mellie_88]

I just love food, having to stop myself eating everything because I don't want to have loads of baby weight to work off.
I find baby mainly moves when im relaxing, either on the sofa or in bed. But the first time my OH felt him move he didn't even realise. Think he was expecting a massive jab and it was just a tiny thing. Told my mom she needs to come round in the week so hopefully she can feel him move too.