it's a carry cot, buggy, car seat and raincover he wants to look on ebay! not sure if he's winding me up lol. better thanks hun he came over on Friday and we spoke for 2 hours about everything, things we wanted to change, he's agreed to move to another house here which is good I'm taking him to see it later and he's said he can start be in happy about the baby now we've spoken about everything. he doesn't find it easy to talk so think it did us both good. he's going to try and make amends between me and his family as well. we all went to see the fireworks last night and he's agreed to sit down later and write out a list of what we need for the baby