May mummies and rainbows to be :)

[lisey]

Ery, thats terrible.

Nikki, give them a call if you feel you need to. That is what they are there for. Hormones will of course make things worse but I don't think your OH has been behaving as he should and its no wonder you feel down with it all.

Kabuk, if you need a few rest days then take them. Your job does sound very difficult xx

 

[nikkix86]

I understand some men don't feel involved in pregnancy but I feel like I'm completely on my own, he doesn't really want this I'm not really sure why he didn't leave when we had that break. feels like he is constantly hiding stuff, hiding his phone etc, not wanting to buy anything for the baby, the way he is when he goes out plus my hormones and paranoia it's all getting too much think he thinks the world revolves around him but apparently buying his own house and holding down a job makes him a grown up

 

[Emily0505]

His attitude and behaviour has been awful hun. Just the excessive drinking and bed wetting alone is not on, let alone the rest of it!

I'm sorry that he's being this way and you're feeling bad. It's the last thing you need in pregnancy.



XX

 

[gesic]

on the good side midwife app went well, active baby and am sure I feel it more today. BP ok but after last week and everything else she recommended I be signed off till the NY. Getting referred to someone who deals with depression in pregnancy as really not keen on pills and things have got worse.
Organised that, spoke to work and they seemed a little off with me which I found hard as feeling bad enough already.
Still having the odd day of vomiting, today being one of them and the sad thing is I find it annoyingly reassuring?!
Received my 1st pair of mat trouser/jeggings from asda.....love them!! So comfy, I wish I bought more than one pair and so much warmer than leggings.

 

[nikkix86]

I've chosen the hauck travel system but can't decide what colour! cam you help? lol

 

[Emily0505]

I prefer the second one.

XX

 

[lisey]

I prefer the second one too

Gesic, try not to worry about work, I have felt guilty too...I have been off ages though but when it comes to it, you and your baby are far more important xx

 

[nikkix86]

think the dots is the one I'm leaning towards lol

 

[snowbee]

I like the dots too Nikki

Happy 17 weeks Dovekie and happy 19 weeks Ery! I can't believe it is December and I've been pregnant since August! Weird. Having said I wasn't showing at all yesterday I had a bit of a shock last night when I saw myself side on in the mirror. I said to my husband when did that happen?! He said two days ago lol! I didn't even notice, I thought my jeans were a bit tight though.

I've been off food again. I'm hungry but only want to eat random things, I'm pretty much living on satsumas, rich tea biscuits and branflakes.

 

[lisey]

Awww snowbee I really love having a bump, I get a lot of the 'when are you due?' questions and I always think they expect me to say I am further along than I am but I don't mind.

I can still be funny with food, I love satsumas too, not something I usually like xx

 

[nikkix86]

I'm obsessed with satsuma's seems to be my thing when I'm pregnant lol.

I'm going to get the dots lol going to see if it's on sale in January but it's only 250 pound so good price

can't believe how far along we all are now. I normally end up in hospital at 36 weeks so trying to make sure I have everything sorted by then just incase so I'm a bit more prepared but hoping I might have an easier pregnancy this time so far so good! looking forward to my scan in 2 weeks and can make sure baby is still a girl and they didn't get it wrong lol

 

[lisey]

Wow that is a really good price Nikki. Is that for a full travel system?

I have my scan on Tuesday, I keep thinking they might say its a boy!!! Most of all, I just want bubs to be healthy and growing well. Her kicks are definitely getting stronger now xx

 

[nikkix86]

yeah it's for the stroller, carrycot and car seat and raincover. the only thing I don't get is a footmuff I think.

after moaning about not feeling anything I've been feeling her constantly the last few days

 

[kabuk1]

The dots one is cute Nikki.

I get on food kicks, and at times I never seem to know what it is I want. But coffee is the only thing I'm completely off again.

I felt a proper kick today! I was sitting in the office chatting after work with my hand on my belly and got a startle. I felt the baby kick with my hand. I got so excited that I startled everyone else. They were all so excited too. So much baby talk and tracking of pregnancy with 4 of us pregnant and everyone else is so interested.

I can't wait to those stronger kicks are more regular. I want my dw to be able to feel them.

 

[nikkix86]

I can't wait for other people to be able to feel them especially the kids can't remember how far I was before they could be felt from the outside

 

[lisey]

I have had a few already that could be felt from outside. I didn't expect it this early. I had one that made me jump yesterday and OH has felt a few. Quite subtle still at this point. A couple of bigger ones but they are not consistent yet. It is the best feeling ever xx

 

[Eryinera]

Yea im waiting for it to be more consistant. Keep worrying ive not felt it but i feel so heavy lol people guess im due march for some reason lol. Had xmAs linch at work today bab squggked at the xmas pud lol

 

[kabuk1]

It really is the greatest feeling in the world! I just couldn't believe. With everything I've read and been told, I wasn't expected that for another few weeks at least. I just want them more frequently so I can share the experience with my oh!

 

[Loubalouba]

It's amazing how much movement everyone is feeling nikkki sorry you are down... You have a lot to contend with at the moment! Just ask yourself is your OH just actually making you more unhappy... You deserve more! I hope you find a way to feel happier xx

Happy 17 weeks dovkie and 19 weeks ery xx

Finding it hard to keep up with everything so sorry if I am falling behind! I do try and read everyone's post even if I don't always comment!

It's a bit strange for me with having everything and a nursery set up to get involved in all the discussions on baby buying!

It's great u have a bump snowbee you will soon be out of those jeans


I am not feeling well today, very breathless, not sure if it's anxiety. Meant to be going out with friends tonight but after much deliberating I cancelled because I just feel rubbish!! Feel really uncomfortable and hardly felt any movement if any today!

Xx

 

[nikkix86]

I think I'm starting to think does he actually bring anything to my life and the answer to that is no I don't think so.

aw lou baby is probably just having a quiet day or might of moved back