*March 2019 Testing Thread*

[Kickingk]

I can really see why you feel like that, i think i need to get some courage and do that myself! Being a big scardy cat! Haha. Well shall see what doctors have to say Weds like ive said before tho, May be latest now. I think a failed bfp for a Dec and Jan baby is ganna be it for me

I did just get to the point where I was thinking if there is something wrong, knowing means I may be able to change something and if there is nothing wrong then at least i know I am not going thru the emotional rollercoaster for nothing. If they come back and say ‘it is never going to happen’ then at least i know and don’t waste another few years getting upset every month. Even though that will be the worst thing to hear I would rather know and be able to deal with it.

I am both excited (to be getting somewhere) and extremely nervous for next week.

FX a bfp will come your way soon xx

 

[Maximus17]

I spoke to my doctor abit this today and she didn’t recommend it

Thank you April. I was in 2 minds but I won't take it just incase. I am having a lot of cramps especially around my uterus like burning. I can't wait to be at least 6 weeks and see a heartbeat.

 

[EmmaN27]

Hiya
I think I still have 3-4 days left to AF
The only symptoms was shooting breast pain and nauseous

It's a good line for so early, will you test again tomorrow morning? x

 

[Maximus17]

It's a good line for so early, will you test again tomorrow morning? x

I did a digital this morning and it said Pregnant 1-2 weeks so it's good to see it written down, but I have been here before twice already so I really can't get happy till 6 weeks

 

[SugaryIris]

I did a digital this morning and it said Pregnant 1-2 weeks so it's good to see it written down, but I have been here before twice already so I really can't get happy till 6 weeks

I never had a digi come back as positive when I had my chemicals, it’s a good sign. It’s going to be a slow few weeks for you I know but I have everything crossed for you x

 

[Maximus17]

I never had a digi come back as positive when I had my chemicals, it’s a good sign. It’s going to be a slow few weeks for you I know but I have everything crossed for you x

I even had a pregnant 2-3 weeks with my first miscarriage. Than all of a sudden boom all gone. I wish I never had miscarriages as it kind ruins the whole happiness of a positive pregnancy test

 

[Maximus17]

I never had a digi come back as positive when I had my chemicals, it’s a good sign. It’s going to be a slow few weeks for you I know but I have everything crossed for you x

thank you SugaryIris

 

[soffphie]

I did just get to the point where I was thinking if there is something wrong, knowing means I may be able to change something and if there is nothing wrong then at least i know I am not going thru the emotional rollercoaster for nothing. If they come back and say ‘it is never going to happen’ then at least i know and don’t waste another few years getting upset every month. Even though that will be the worst thing to hear I would rather know and be able to deal with it.

I am both excited (to be getting somewhere) and extremely nervous for next week.

FX a bfp will come your way soon xx

FX everything comes back ok for you - I'll try be brave soon and just go get tested. What happens tomorrow will be big so-

 

[soffphie]

I did just get to the point where I was thinking if there is something wrong, knowing means I may be able to change something and if there is nothing wrong then at least i know I am not going thru the emotional rollercoaster for nothing. If they come back and say ‘it is never going to happen’ then at least i know and don’t waste another few years getting upset every month. Even though that will be the worst thing to hear I would rather know and be able to deal with it.

I am both excited (to be getting somewhere) and extremely nervous for next week.

FX a bfp will come your way soon xx

Do you have any obvious issues at all? like are you cycles normal, always ovuate etc?
Its quite sad that had we sucked it up, been brave, we could know by now.. i dont know if ill ever come to regret not just going for it and testing. How did you chose the clinic? have you chosen based on who you intend to go with if ivf/iui needed? im not sure how easy it is to transfer the results over if for example you test with one but decide later this clinic is better as cheaper/multi cycles etc... we have 2-3 we could go to.

 

[babylove2016]

Sorry ladies rant Alert!

Arrrrgh this TTC journey is poo!
So I used clearblue every day after my period last month to get an idea of ovulation date CD17) I got 6 highs and a peak- great. This month I decided to be more relaxed about it and started doing the the tests CD13 but have had negative results, on CD17 today still negative. Having gone from loads of highs last month to nothing- does this mean im not going to ovulate?? Trying to dtd just incase but OH is ‘too tired’ not going to put pressure on him though, no point us both being in a tiz. it is just all so frustrating...so much for being relaxed this month.

Trying to bring back the positivity...next week we have our private clinic tests, by the Friday evening will hopefully no what is wrong

...and breathe

Hey honey,

Sorry to hear you’re frustrated. It could well be that you are having an anovulatory cycle but have you noticed any ewcm or cramping, backache etc. prior to now? It might be that you ovulated slightly earlier or perhaps it will be slightly later. I always ovulate on CD18 (today in fact) and I know because I have super strong ovulation symptoms like nausea!

Basically, try not to stress, I know it’s hard not to and that’s where things like opks and temping can be a help but also a hindrance. Big hugs! Keep going! Xx

 

[babylove2016]

I did a digital this morning and it said Pregnant 1-2 weeks so it's good to see it written down, but I have been here before twice already so I really can't get happy till 6 weeks

I’m sorry maximus, I had a cp last cycle at 5 weeks so can feel the anxiety you must be feeling right now. Has the bleeding stopped? Or was it cramping you had yesterday? X

 

[Rainbow1234]

also I wanted to ask has anyone mentioned taking low dose of aspirin to avoid miscarriages?

I asked about this too and was told it can do more harm than good if you don’t have a condition which requires it x

 

[Maximus17]

I’m sorry maximus, I had a cp last cycle at 5 weeks so can feel the anxiety you must be feeling right now. Has the bleeding stopped? Or was it cramping you had yesterday? X

It was cramping and still have it today. It feels burning on my uterus and lots of other cramps

 

[babylove2016]

Is that what you had before? I didn’t have burning, that’s a good thing! Stretching! Come on little bean! Stick!! X

 

[Maximus17]

Is that what you had before? I didn’t have burning, that’s a good thing! Stretching! Come on little bean! Stick!! X

I think I am having another miscarriage as the pains are so sharp and localised I cant stop crying with sadness. I am no longer nauseous either

 

[Rainbow1234]

I think I am having another miscarriage as the pains are so sharp and localised I cant stop crying with sadness. I am no longer nauseous either

Maximus have a read at my pregnancy journal from when I had my daughter. I had 2 mc before her too so I understand how you feel and I had crampy stabby pains early on. Might reassure you a bit x

https://pregnancyforum.momtastic.com/threads/3rd-time-lucky.466086/

 

[Maximus17]

Maximus have a read at my pregnancy journal from when I had my daughter. I had 2 mc before her too so I understand how you feel and I had crampy stabby pains early on. Might reassure you a bit x

https://pregnancyforum.momtastic.com/threads/3rd-time-lucky.466086/

Thanks rainbow but this is definitely miscarriage as the pain is like contractions and I am losing most of my symptoms. Boobs are already smaller and I am in bed with hot water bottle with agony. I am

 

[Rainbow1234]

Thanks rainbow but this is definitely miscarriage as the pain is like contractions and I am losing most of my symptoms. Boobs are already smaller and I am in bed with hot water bottle with agony. I am

I’m so sorry if that’s the case. Have you had any bleeding? I know you’re pretty sure what you think is happening but my friend had severe pains early in her pregnancy. She was with me and was in tears but hadn’t realised she was pregnant. We ended up phoning nhs24 and she went to a&e. The pains happened the next day too but she had a healthy pregnancy x

 

[Maximus17]

I pressed reply to quick. I can’t stop crying in anger and sadness. I took painkillers to ease the contractions

 

[Rainbow1234]

I pressed reply to quick. I can’t stop crying in anger and sadness. I took painkillers to ease the contractions

I’m sorry maximus. I’m going to keep a little bit of hope for you just incase. Do what you need to do to look after yourself tonight x