Guess I belong here for now

[Charlotte9]

Gail, 1/2 bottle of vodka thats a lot. Some men can drink a lot and still help if needed. Hope he takes care of you.

Hurry up tomorrow x

 

[MelH999]

I hope things go smoothly, and I hope it's over ASAP. Was it bright red or kind of grey? The reason I ask, I had the same I. Jan and thought the baby/sac had come away, it was hand size so I thought it must be something. It was only a blood clot, I passed two more big ones and then at hospital, the EPU helped me pass the actual pregnancy, which I looked and was pale grey colour.

I had contractions and then the clot would pass, so rest and be aware of any cramps and then going cold and shivery. X

Good luck. I'm thinking about you xx

 

[MelH999]

Also if it's happening and you start bleeding you probably are best to eat xx

 

[Clover]

Charlotte that's nothing , he drinks and smokes a lot...He smokes weed too
My best friend is so angry with the way he's treated me these past few weeks he hasn't come to any of my scans or appointments
She came to my appointment yesterday as she didn't want me going alone

And when he did come to the hospital all he did was moan at me, he has anger problems and hasn't been very nice lately tbh

I can understand her point of view
Mel nice to hear from you hun I was wandering how you were doing
I think I may of passed it but can't be sure so I'm going to ring up and see what they say, ive had no pain really and not passed any more clots

I've taken a picture and wrapped it up

I know it sounds weird but don't know what to do with it ?!

xxxxxx





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[Demerera]

Oh Gail... Makes my blood boil reading that, so upset for you... Men simply do not understand but the least they can do is try. I think when men can't cope with the emotional big life stuff they can lash out... They don't understand it and can't deal with it. But he so should be supporting you through this...it's impossible to discuss it if he's been drinking though... You need him sober, then spell it out. Poor you, you've got a lot to deal with right now... Get tomorrow out the way and only think of yourself for now X X X X

 

[Clover]

Thanks Becky
I am used to him but tbh he hasn't supported me the way he should have done

He drinks to cope with things, but it frustrates me
I dont smoke drink or do drugs so I suppose I don't understand

I hope they can scan tomorrow and it shows ive passed the baby so I don't have to have the op

Only bleeding lightly now

xxxxxx


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[Charlotte9]

Oh Gail, alco and weed is just a sign of weakness. I think your oh does not know how to cope with pain you are going through. It is selfish cause you can't get drunk or smoke weed.

I really hope you get through this and he treats you well. You are a great mom to your kids cause you don't drink or smoke during very sad times. Your kids will appreciate that! xx

 

[SiameseCatLady]

Oh Clover.
Hoping everything goes as you need and want it to go tomorrow.
I am so sorry that your husband is behaving like this. Not what you need.
He is obviously grieving as well, but not to go to your scans? Make sure you prioritise yourself, lovely. You are obviously such a fantastic person And you deserve everything to start going well for you now. Xxxx

 

[Demerera]

I'm really sorry Gail but I can't think you've passed it. You would have a lot more cramping and debris, as they call it... Horrible term! The op really isn't bad... You have no pain etc... It's over quick and recovery is much better. Don't be nervous about it... Easy to say I know... Huge hugs X X X

 

[SoObsessed]

Thinking of you today Clover x

 

[Jacko]

Thinking of you today clover x

 

[Clover]

Thanks for thinking of me SoObsessed

Jacko how are you doing sweetie?

Woke up feeling really sad

xxxxx


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[Clover]

Just waiting to ring EPU at 8.30 I don't know if they will just say go in and have the op anyway but if I have miscarried don't want to have to go through it for nothing

I hope they offer a scan

xxxx

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[MrsS15]

Let us know what epu says Gail. I hope today goes as best it can! Thinking of you xxx

 

[Charlotte9]

Hope they offer you a scan Gail and confirm that you don't need to do anything.xxx

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[J9nine]

Hugs lovely, sounds like a shitty evening. I am sure they would do a scan before carrying out the op, things can change in an hour let alone a few days.

x

 

[Clover]

Rang EPU spoke to the nurse ive been seeing each time I've had scans and she's lovely
She is going to try to get me a scan this morning if she can , if not it will be up the the Dr to say if I need the Operation

Just waiting for a phone call

xxxxxxx

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[Clover]

Hey Janine
Yeah had a rubbish evening!! Hope your ok lovely

xxxxx

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[Clover]

Still haven't heard anything so I'm going to ring back

xxxxx

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[tootie]

Thinking of you sweetheart xx